In this episode, Chen Ruby explores the concept of confidence, encouraging listeners to reflect on their personal definitions and experiences with self-assurance. Through guided meditation and self-reflection exercises, she emphasizes the importance of understanding the external influences that shape our confidence and the natural fluctuations that occur throughout life. Ruby advocates for creating a personal definition of confidence that aligns with one's true self and offers practical steps to enhance self-acceptance and emotional well-being.

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Timestamps

00:00 Defining Confidence: A Personal Journey

05:00 The Ups and Downs of Confidence

10:14 Redefining Confidence: A Personal Perspective

14:04 Guided Meditation for Confidence

26:07 Exploring Confidence and Tension in the Body

28:04 Affirmations and Closing Thoughts

In this conversation, Chen Ruby discusses the challenges of people pleasing, particularly among women, and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. She explores cultural influences that shape our tendency to say yes, the emotional turmoil associated with saying no, and shares personal experiences that highlight the struggle. The conversation emphasizes the need to build confidence and practice saying no as a vital part of self-care and emotional well-being.

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TImestamps

00:00 Understanding the Struggle to Say No

06:50 The Emotional Consequences of Saying No

09:52 Personal Experiences and the Journey to Self-Care

14:22 Introduction to Mind Your Abundance Podcast

14:52 Awakened Heart Program Announcement

This conversation discusses the challenges of people pleasing, particularly among women, and the cultural influences that shape these behaviors. She shares her personal journey of overcoming guilt and establishing healthy boundaries, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and authentic connections. The episode serves as a guide for listeners to recognize their patterns, set boundaries, and ultimately find freedom in being their true selves.

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Timestamps

00:00 Cultural Expectations and Family Dynamics

10:21 The Burden of People-Pleasing

13:09 Rediscovering Self-Identity

15:07 Embracing Pain as a Turning Point

15:38 Introduction to Mind Your Abundance Podcast

16:05 Awakened Heart Program Announcement

If my story resonated with you, and you’ve been quietly craving a space where your emotions feel safe, your story is honored, and you don’t have to figure it all out alone…

I’m opening a few spots for a free 30-minute clarity consultation. It’s a gentle, no-pressure conversation where we’ll explore what’s coming up for you and whether support could help you shift it.

If you're curious, comment on this episode description or DM me on Instagram @withrubychen with the word "RISE," and I’ll send over a short application.

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You don’t have to keep carrying this alone.

️ Disclaimer: I’m sharing my personal experience, not medical advice. If you’re struggling, please seek professional support.

I struggled with depression for years, feeling lost, exhausted, and disconnected. But through my personal journey, I found 7 simple steps that helped me overcome it naturally—without medication.

In this video, I share:

My turning point and what led me to change

The mindfulness and mindset shifts that transformed my life

Practical steps you can take to start your own healing journey

Remember, you are not alone in this. Healing is possible.

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️ Disclaimer: I’m sharing my personal experience, not medical advice. If you’re struggling, please seek professional support.

Helpline Resources:

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Call or Text 988

Crisis Text Line: Text HELLO to 741741

The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Support): Text START to 678678

You’ve learned how to catch stress and calm down fast, but what if you could stop stress before it even starts? That’s what Day 3 of my 3-Day Stress Reduction Workshop is all about—stress-proofing your life so you don’t feel overwhelmed all the time.

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In this video, you’ll learn:

️ Three simple daily habits that reduce stress automatically

️ How to react to stress without letting it take over

️ The easiest way to create a stress-free space in your home

Today’s challenge: Choose ONE stress-proofing habit and try it for a week! Let me know in the comments—which one are you committing to?

Want ongoing support? My [Membership Name] is designed to help you create a stress-free mindset with tools, coaching, and a community to keep you feeling calm and in control. DM me “STRESS-FREE” on Instagram @yourhandle, and I’ll send you all the details!

This wraps up our 3-day workshop! But this is just the beginning—keep going, keep experimenting, and let me know how it’s working for you!

Comment below: What’s your biggest takeaway from these three days? I’d love to hear!

If this workshop helped you, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs this!

Feeling overwhelmed and need to calm down FAST? In Day 2 of my 3-Day Stress Reduction Workshop, I’m sharing quick and simple stress relief tricks that actually work—even if you only have a few minutes.

In this video, you’ll learn:

️ Why thinking your way out of stress doesn’t work

️ Three science-backed ways to calm down instantly

️ A fun trick that resets your nervous system in seconds

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Today’s challenge: Try one of these techniques and let me know in the comments—what worked best for you? Bonus points if you DM me a video of you shaking off stress like a happy dog.

Watch this Polar bear stress response: https://youtu.be/xDlR-wl7iFI?si=-lMvRKeFSCOw9JGN

Coming up in Day 3: How to stress-proof your life so you don’t just react to stress—you prevent it! Subscribe & turn on notifications so you don’t miss it.

Need extra support? My [Membership Name] is designed to help you stress less and feel more in control every day. DM me “STRESS-FREE” on Instagram @yourhandle, and I’ll send you the details!

Comment below: Which stress relief trick surprised you the most? Let’s talk about it!

If this video helped you, don’t forget to like & share it with a friend who needs this!