Épisodes

  • Solo - Love, Freedom from a Wounded Ego
    Oct 1 2025

    I'm utterly convinced that love has been short sheeted and treated like a comic book version of life, when in reality, love should be seen as an Encyclopedia Britannica. Love demands of me and from me the truth beyond my personal bias because love cares more about what is right rather than who is right.


    Here's the truth: you have an ego, I have an ego. The ego is like a psychological eardrum; if it's been beat up and bruised, it translates incoming information in a faulty way. If you're constantly on a crusade to prove others wrong, your ego is expressing its deep woundedness.


    I am proposing to you that love is your ego aid—it's the freedom from that damage and a clear vision of your truest value. Let's get some love on our egos, all around us and in us, so that we're finally able to feed others with that same nutritional value.


    The biggest mistake we all make is thinking we have more time. Let's all of us be done with BS and be filled with love! Go out there, be strong, be kind, be beautiful. Be a lover, and be it right now.

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    29 min
  • Solo - Woe To You
    Sep 24 2025

    In this episode, I’m talking about a direct and commanding message that Jesus gave, a message of warning: "Woe to you." But I'm challenging us to stop pointing that finger outward at religious leaders and at others. Instead, I want us to turn that scrutiny inward.


    When you squeeze a lemon, you get lemon juice. When the squeeze is on in your life, you get what’s on the inside. So what's in you? What dwells in the hidden hallways of your heart?


    Join me as I encourage us to look within, not for self-condemnation, but for a great exchange: to cleanse our inner world so that what comes out is love, not misery or filth. I’m here to live for love alone, and I want you to be that beautiful person who lets love shine in an ugly world.

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    30 min
  • Solo - Alive to Love
    Sep 22 2025

    I’m inviting you to breathe slow and live love in an age of violence. In this episode I talk about how “your inner world will eventually become your outer world,” why “hate is murder,” and how we can guard our souls from the bloody scenes that surround us.

    I remind you that “love and tolerance is our code,” and call you to “drop seeds of beauty” in a world where ugly is getting done to death. Don’t make the mistake of thinking you still have time—love more, love now, and be the people of beauty.

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    30 min
  • Solo - Three Realities of Love
    Sep 13 2025

    This episode, I'm laying out Three Realities of Love That Will Change Your Life.

    First, you'll see the world with new eyes, shedding the "us versus them" mentality. Second, you'll deepen your thoughts and grow more wise, transforming knowledge into wisdom. And third, you will let go of failures, foibles, and the fickleness of people, because when you recognize your own, love sets you free.

    I'm just Randy, and I wanna challenge you to join me. Let's do something beautiful in an ugly world. Let's be the people of love.

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    29 min
  • Solo - Strategic Love
    Sep 5 2025

    Love is the only value worth building on. Everything else falls apart.

    This episode looks at the strength, security, and strategy of love. Life is a mix of triumph and tragedy, calm and chaos. Love is the power that carries us through it all.

    Hear why Martin Luther King Jr. was right that “unconditional love and unarmed truth will have the final say on reality,” and why even dipping your paddle into the river of love can keep your canoe upright in the roughest waters.

    Love has the final word. Let’s live it and let it shine.

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    30 min
  • Solo - Fine Print of Love
    Aug 29 2025

    Welcome to the NO BS BISHOP, where we're tackling the fine print we often attach to the most important thing in the world: love. On this episode, I'm calling for a no-holds-barred conversation about what it truly means to love without conditions. This isn't about some cheesy ideal; it's about the real, hard work of getting rid of our excuses and embracing a pure, unfiltered love.

    Today, I want to talk about getting rid of the fine print of love. It’s time to burn the conditions and live in a world where we simply love. We're often adding conditions to love, like saying, "I'll love you, but I don't approve of your lifestyle." This is nothing but fine print, and it creates speed bumps on our road to loving one another. Jesus commanded us to love, and by this, all people will know we are His disciples. But we, especially us church folks, have gotten in the way with all our rules.

    Inspired by a friend, I'll share a profound quote from Les Misérables: "To love another person is to see the face of God." This applies to everyone—even those whose appearances or choices might challenge us. We are all made in the image of God. So, what are you going to do when you see someone with purple hair, piercings, or tattoos? Will you dare to love them and see the face of God, or will you let your fine print get in the way? I'll also share a personal story from a recent trip to Texas, where my wife and I faced a scary moment on the highway. This experience forced me to confront how I respond to fear and whether my actions truly align with the unconditional love I preach. This isn't about easy answers; it's about doing the heavy lifting of love.

    Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things—that's what 1 Corinthians 13:7 tells us. There's no fine print there. So, join me as we learn to shed our conditions, build healthy boundaries, and practice a genuine, beautiful, and sometimes challenging kind of love. It's time to get rid of the "buts" in our love and simply love, because the biggest mistake we make is thinking we have time. Until next time, be present, be kind, and love more. Love now. Happy trails, y'all.

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    29 min
  • Interview - The Church Exit Interview with Producer Scott Morfitt
    Aug 21 2025

    I'm here with Scott Morfitt, a former parishioner, a "stray sheep" that I love dearly, and the producer of this very show. We're talking about spiritual refugees, the 40 million people who have exited the brick and mortar church since the turn of the century. This is a significant shift in the spiritual season of the United States, and we need to have an exit interview. I'm not here to judge or crack a whip, but to listen and love.


    Scott and I get into the real reasons behind this exodus, from the rote "three songs, a money ask, and a speech" routine that lost its appeal, to the church's historical failure to reconcile its message with loving the entire world, especially our LGBTQ+ brothers and sisters. We tackle the uncomfortable truth that the church has often found itself on the wrong side of history, hanging on too tight to what it knows while the world moves on.


    This is an adult conversation about the heavy lifting of love, the toxicity of claiming "empathy is woke," and the surprising hope found in some liturgical traditions that are learning to adapt. We also get real about the cost of doing ministry and what it takes to keep these vital conversations going.


    Join us for a no BS discussion about leaving a legacy that's more than just hanging on tight to what was evaporating. This is about finishing the work so we can genuinely express the heart of the fellow we call Jesus.

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    39 min
  • Interview - Gene Morfitt
    Aug 6 2025

    In this episode, I share a word that’s been on my heart about identity, healing, and the kind of freedom that changes everything.

    Not long ago, I had the privilege of connecting with Gene Morfitt from the Spiritual Program Retreat, a long-standing community rooted in the original spiritual principles of the 12 steps.

    Since 1981, thousands have come through the Spiritual Program Retreat and walked away changed. It’s not about surface-level solutions it’s about facing truth, working the steps, and finding a new way to live.

    If you're feeling stuck, burdened, or just ready for something different, this episode and the story of this retreat may be exactly what you need to hear.

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    36 min