Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 3% of Podcasts Worldwide!

Mama, Are you seeing more meltdowns or defiant behavior since as winter break wraps up?

Does getting your strong-willed or neurodivergent child back into routine feel harder than you expected?

Do you feel torn between wanting structure and needing rest for both of you?

Are you wondering how to rebuild emotional regulation and connection when everything feels off track?

In this episode, we’re talking about what happens after the holidays when routines are off, emotions are high, and peace feels hard to find. If your strong-willed or neurodivergent child (ADHD, Autism, PDA, ODD, or ASD) has been struggling with transitions, defiance, or meltdowns lately, this conversation is for you.

You’ll discover 5 gentle, faith-filled tips to help your family restore emotional regulation and rebuild rhythm without guilt or pressure. Together, we’ll talk about what’s really going on in your child’s nervous system, how to create safety through predictable rhythms, and how to anchor yourself in peace before responding to your child’s behavior.

Whether your child is struggling to return to school routines or your home just feels dysregulated after the holiday chaos, this episode will remind you that nothing has gone wrong you’re simply rebuilding.

Peace isn’t found in perfection, mama it’s found in presence.

“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28

When your child feels dysregulated, remember that rest isn’t just about sleep or stillness it’s about finding soul-level peace in His presence first.

This week, choose one small rhythm to gently rebuild...maybe bedtime routines, consistent mealtimes, or a quiet morning moment with your child.

As you do, pray:

“Father, help me rebuild our rhythm with grace and patience. Let peace lead our home.”

Sweet friend, you don’t have to rush to fix everything or prove you’ve got it all together. You are doing sacred work as you help your child rebuild peace one gentle step at a time.

You’re not behind...you’re rebuilding, with the Father right beside you.

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Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 3% of Podcasts Worldwide!

Mama,

Are you noticing more meltdowns, defiant moments, or tears since the holidays ended? Does your home feel a little “off” like everyone’s trying to find their rhythm again? Do you ever wonder if you’ve lost the progress you were making with your strong-willed or neurodivergent child? Wish you could believe that nothing’s gone wrong that this messy, dysregulated season is completely normal?

Episode Highlights

In this episode, Amanda offers gentle encouragement for the mama who feels weary and off balance after the holiday season. If you’re seeing more meltdowns or defiant behavior from your strong-willed or neurodivergent child, take heart this isn’t a setback. Breaks, vacations, and schedule changes can be incredibly dysregulating for kids with ADHD, ASD, PDA, or other neurodivergent traits and for you as a parent, too.

Instead of rushing to fix the chaos or force structure back into place, Amanda invites you to pause, breathe, and remember that peace isn’t found in perfection it’s found in presence, emotional regulation and building connection. This short episode is a reminder that your child’s meltdowns and your own fatigue are signs of a nervous system seeking safety, not failure.

You’ll walk away feeling seen, grounded, and reassured that you can approach this season with grace instead of guilt. You don’t have to fix everything right now you just have to stay anchored and let the Father restore your rhythm.

Faith Anchor: “He makes the storm calm, so that its waves are still.” Psalm 107:29 (NKJV)

Even when life feels chaotic and unsteady, God is the calm that holds you steady through the waves of transition.

Challenge of the Week: When meltdowns rise or routines fall apart this week, pause for one slow breath and whisper, “Lord, thank You that peace doesn’t depend on my schedule You are my rhythm.” Let that truth anchor your heart in the middle of the mess.

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Closing Encouragement

Mama, nothing has gone wrong. The meltdowns, the messy mornings, the slow starts they’re simply part of the rebalancing that comes after busy seasons. You’re not behind. Take one gentle breath, rest in His peace, and remember: you and your child are learning to find calm together.

Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 3% of Podcasts Worldwide!

Mama, Do Any of These Sound Like You?

• Do the holidays leave you feeling emotionally drained instead of peaceful?
• Does the pressure to “keep everyone happy” make you lose sight of what matters most?
• Wish you could stay calm when meltdowns happen and actually enjoy your child in the moment?
• Long for the reminder that your presence, not perfection, is what truly brings peace into your home?

Episode Highlights

In this heartfelt holiday episode, Amanda shares gentle encouragement for the mama whose holidays don’t look picture-perfect especially if you’re parenting a strong-willed or neurodivergent child is being defiant. The noise, the change in routines, and the expectations can feel like too much for both you and your child. But there’s hope.

In this episode, you’ll be reminded that peace isn’t found in perfect plans it’s found in presence. You’ll learn how to breathe through the chaos, invite Jesus into overstimulating moments, and anchor your heart in truth even when meltdowns happen. Amanda helps you see that your calm is more powerful than control, and your steady presence can create connection and safety in ways words can’t for your strong-willed or neurodivergent child (ADHD, ODD, PDA, ASD).

If you’ve been craving rest, reassurance, and a reminder that you’re not alone in this season this short episode will feel like a deep breath for your heart.

Faith Anchor: “The Lord gives strength to His people; the Lord blesses His people with peace.” Psalm 29:11

Even when the noise and chaos rise, His peace is already within you because His presence never leaves you.

Challenge of the Week: This week, when emotions run high, pause before reacting. Take one slow breath and whisper, “Emmanuel ...God is with me.” Let that truth reshape how you show up grounded, calm, and fully present.

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Mama, Have you ever walked into a family gathering already bracing for judgment about your child’s behavior?

Do you find yourself explaining your parenting decisions again and again only to feel misunderstood or dismissed?

Wish you could protect your peace when others gossip, criticize, or just don’t “get” your neurodivergent or strong-willed child?

Are you praying for strength to forgive, move forward, and not let their opinions define your worth?

Episode Highlights

In this episode, we’re getting real about what it feels like when family doesn’t understand your strong-willed or neurodivergent child (ODD, PDA, ADHD, ASD) and how to protect your peace in the middle of that pain.

Amanda shares a personal story of family rejection and how God gently turned heartbreak into healing. You’ll learn how to stay grounded in truth, regulate your emotions when conflict rises, and rebuild connection in safe, faith-filled spaces.

Through heartfelt encouragement and practical emotional regulation tools, you’ll discover that being misunderstood doesn’t mean you’re unloved sometimes, it’s simply God’s protection over your peace.

If you’ve ever felt unseen, rejected, or weary from trying to make others understand your child, this conversation will remind you that your worth isn’t based on acceptance it’s anchored in identity.

Faith Anchor:

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18 (NIV)

When others push you away, the Father draws near. He sees your heart, your child, and your efforts even when others misunderstand.

Challenge of the Week:

If there’s a situation that still stirs up hurt, anger, or bitterness in your heart take it to the Father this week.

Set aside a few quiet minutes and tell Him exactly how you feel. Don’t filter it or tidy it up. Just be honest.

Then pray:

“Father, I come to you with a heart ready to give this pain. Can you please show me how to see this through Your eyes. Help me release the weight of what I can’t control and anchor my heart in You.”

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Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 3 % of Podcasts Worldwide!

Mama,

• Do the holidays leave you feeling more exhausted than joyful? • Wish you could stay calm when your strong-willed or neurodivergent child feels overwhelmed by the chaos? • Find yourself trying to keep everyone happy while ignoring what you and your child really need? • Long to protect your peace without disappointing your family or breaking traditions?

In this episode, we’re talking about what it really looks like to prepare for peace during a season that can feel anything but peaceful.

You’ll learn six practical emotional-regulation tips to help you and your child navigate holiday overwhelm with calm, connection, and confidence. We’ll explore how to identify triggers early, simplify your schedule, and let go of unrealistic expectations so that your family can enjoy meaningful moments without meltdowns.

If you’re parenting a strong-willed or neurodivergent child (who has ADHD, Autism (ASD), PDA, or ODD), these tools will help you build connection instead of conflict while anchoring your heart in faith and the Father’s peace.

Because true holiday joy doesn’t come from performance it flows from presence.

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in You.” — Isaiah 26 : 3 (NIV)

Peace isn’t something you have to create; it’s a promise you can receive when you fix your thoughts on the Father instead of the pressure.

When holiday stress starts to rise, pause and ask:

“What would peace look like right now—for me and for my child?”

Take one deep breath, simplify one task, or say one “holy no” that protects your calm. Let peace not performance lead your home this week.

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Have you ever felt judged or misunderstood by someone who doesn’t truly know your heart or your child’s?

Do comments from others ever leave you questioning your worth as a mama, even when you know you’re trying your best?

Are you carrying emotional weight from people’s opinions, assumptions, or labels that don’t reflect who you really are?

Have you ever prayed, “Lord, help me release what others are placing on me,” because the pressure feels heavy?

In this episode, I’m coming to you from a very real, very tender place. This wasn’t the episode I planned to record today but after a long, emotionally heavy day filled with unexpected challenges and hurtful words, I felt led to show up exactly as I was. Not polished. Not prepared. Just honest. Because sometimes, life hits hard in ways that have nothing to do with meltdowns, defiance, or the strong-willed or neurodivergent child you’re raising and everything to do with circumstances completely outside your home.

In this raw and vulnerable conversation, I share the kind of encouragement I needed myself: grounding truth, emotional regulation reminders, and a faith-centered reset for the moments when someone else’s words shake you more than you expected. You’ll be reminded that other people’s judgments do not define who you are as a mama or your strong-willed or neurodivergent child (ADHD, ODD, PDA, ASD).

In this episode, you’ll find a soft place to land a moment to breathe, release the emotional weight you’ve been carrying, and remember that the Holy Spirit meets you right in the middle of your worn-out, overwhelmed places.

My hope is that you walk away feeling seen, steadied, and anchored in truth on the days when life feels heavier than your heart knows how to hold.

Challenge of the Week:

Grab a journal and ask the Father to tell you who He says you are. Write down every truth He speaks to your heart.

Then, on another page, release the words or judgments that others have placed on you and ask Him to rewrite them with His truth.

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• Do you feel pressure to make the holidays look “perfect” for everyone else even when you’re running on empty?

• Have you ever felt torn between keeping the peace and protecting your child’s peace?

• Do you long to just enjoy the day without walking on eggshells, explaining your parenting, or managing everyone’s emotions?

• Wish you could show up calm, grounded, and anchored in who you are in the Father instead of trying to perform for others?

In this episode, we’re slowing down to talk about what it means to build connection while prioritizing peace over performance especially during busy family gatherings.

As a Christian mama raising a strong-willed or neurodivergent child, the holidays can bring joy… and pressure. You might face unsolicited advice, judgment, or tension around how your child behaves and how you “should” respond. But friend, you don’t have to prove, perform, or please anyone.

You’ll learn how to regulate your emotions in the moment, focus on your child’s sense of safety and connection, and create a calm, grounded atmosphere anchored in the Father’s peace. Whether your child has ADHD, Autism, ODD, PDA, or simply big emotions, this episode will remind you that peace isn’t something you chase it’s something you carry through the Holy Spirit.

Take a deep breath, release the pressure, and remember: you’re not here to perform you’re here to love well.

“The Lord will give strength to His people; the Lord will bless His people with peace.” — Psalm 29:11 (ESV)

You already carry the peace of the Lord within you, mama. When expectations rise and emotions run high, pause and breathe His peace anchors you even in the noise.

Father as we walk into this Thanksgiving, fill our hearts with peace that steadies us when expectations rise.

Remind us that we don’t have to prove ourselves that our only job is to stay anchored in Your love.

When things feel heavy or hard, whisper to our spirit, “You and your child are safe with Me.”

Let Your presence bring calm, connection, and gratitude to our homes and environments today.

In Yahusha’s Mighty Name, Amen.

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Final Encouragement

Peace isn’t found in doing everything “right.” It’s found in resting in the One who’s already made you whole.You are doing sacred work, mama showing up, loving your child, and reflecting His peace one moment at a time.

Parenting Beyond Meltdowns is Ranked in the Top 3% of Podcasts Worldwide!

• Feel torn between keeping family happy and doing what’s best for your strong-willed or neurodivergent child? • Worry about how others will react to your child’s behavior at family gatherings? • Feel that quiet nudge from the Holy Spirit but doubt your strength to follow it when others push back? • Wish you could walk into the holidays grounded, confident, and at peace no matter what others say or expect?

In this episode, we’re talking about what it looks like to choose peace over pressure when family expectations collide with your child’s needs. You’ll hear a personal story about the tension between pleasing others and protecting your child’s peace and how to recognize that still, small voice guiding you toward what’s best. Together, we’ll walk through practical ways to set boundaries, build connection with your child, importance of emotional regulation, and anchoring your heart in truth when others don’t understand your parenting choices.

You’ll learn how to stay calm and confident even when family members question your approach, how to create emotional safety for your child with ADHD, Autism (ASD), ODD, PDA, or sensory challenges, and how to hold onto peace when the pressure to “keep everyone happy” starts to rise.

Whether you’re navigating meltdowns, managing defiant behavior, or simply craving a more connected, grace-filled holiday, this episode will remind you that you are the expert on your child and the Father’s peace is always stronger than people’s opinions.

This Thanksgiving, you can protect your peace, parent with compassion, and walk in confidence knowing you are led by love, not guilt.

“The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is safe.” Proverbs 29:25

When you trust the Father’s guidance more than people’s expectations, you step out of fear and into freedom. True peace comes from knowing that your worth and your child’s isn’t determined by anyone else’s approval.

This week, take time to pray over your plans before the holiday. Ask the Father to show you what peace looks like for your family this year. Write down one simple boundary that would help protect that peace maybe it’s saying no, stepping out for a break, or letting your child play in another room.

Then, ask Him to give you the courage to follow through when the pressure rises.

Remember, peace doesn’t always mean everyone’s happy sometimes it just means you stayed anchored in love and obedience to the Father.

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