How do you give individual attention to the hearts of multiple children? Dr. Roger Smith shares a powerful, structured approach to shepherding each child rooted in the Biblical concept of wisdom, stature, and favor with God and man. This tool, developed by friends, guides parents to annually evaluate their child's needs and set goals in four key areas: intellectual, physical, spiritual (character), and social development. Learn how to create family plans strategically motivated by one child's specific need, knowing that the entire "flock" will benefit and grow together.

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Will your child be famous one day? While no one knows, Dr. Roger Smith argues that parents can foster the capacity for greatness. This episode encourages parents to expand their children's worldview by introducing them to heroes and significant figures through biographies. Learn how shared reading or audiobooks can inspire children to think larger than their current existence and understand the characteristics that lead to noteworthy lives. The goal isn't fame, but helping your child become significant by catching the "wind" from the lives of others.

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Feeling overwhelmed by your current number of children? Dr. Roger Smith issues a direct challenge to consider having more, arguing that the true measure of family size shouldn't be based on the temporary difficulty of the early years. He breaks down the common stages—overwhelming with one, dividing and conquering with two, and feeling outnumbered with three—to reveal the moment of relief: when the oldest child becomes a helpful assistant. Dr. Smith encourages parents to look past the immediate workload and see children as lifelong blessings who enrich your life immeasurably as they mature.

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Is happiness just a feeling, or can it be a choice? Dr. Roger Smith shares his family's mantra: "You do not find happiness, you take it with you." This episode explores how to treat happiness as a character trait—a quality independent of your circumstances. Learn how to prepare your children to approach potentially disappointing situations by deciding beforehand to make the best of it. By choosing to regulate their feelings and actions, you teach them that true joy comes from an internal commitment, not external expectations.

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Are you robbing your children of the chance to make decisions? Dr. Roger Smith emphasizes that decisiveness is a critical character trait that must be developed through practice. Using the simple example of choosing between two paths, he explains why parents must intentionally provide opportunities for decision-making—even small ones, like choosing the color of a cup. Learn how to let your children face the low-impact consequences of their choices (like in board games) and how to talk them through potential outcomes without rescuing them from mild discomfort. This training builds the capacity to navigate life's complex options.

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Do you wish your child considered others more often? Dr. Roger Smith defines thoughtfulness as putting other people's needs on the priority list—a desirable trait we can actively help children develop. This episode gives parents two simple, routine exercises:

Looking Backward (Bedtime): Ask your child to reflect on their day and identify someone they wish they could have helped or made things better for. This encourages empathy and perspective.

Looking Forward (Start of Day/Activity): Challenge your child as they enter a public space (like a store or church) to "look for people you can make smile or make a difference for." This promotes intentional, positive interaction.

Learn how to weave these practices into your daily life to cultivate thoughtfulness and inspire an outward-focused mindset in your kids.

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Most children start out self-centered, but generosity is a vital character trait we must intentionally cultivate. Referencing the idea of "audacious generosity," Dr. Roger Smith explains that this concept goes beyond just sharing money—it includes being generous with time, kind words, and possessions. Learn how to model and practice generosity, even with abstract concepts like "sharing," by focusing on taking turns and dividing resources. Dr. Smith encourages praising every effort your child makes to consider another's needs, transforming a self-focused mindset into one that makes the world a better place.

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Is your child truly humble, or just self-centered? Dr. Roger Smith redefines humility not as self-deprecation, but as the courage to be authentically known—the good, the bad, and the ordinary. Sitting in his study, Dr. Smith shares how true humility means being "okay with who I am and how I let you know me." Learn how to train your children to be open, vulnerable, and approachable, whether they are winning a game or losing. This episode challenges parents to create practice situations where children can comfortably let others into their lives, fostering a deeply desirable trait.

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