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Is sleeping with your friends a queer love language or just lesbian chaos theory? We’re spilling on crushes, cuddle hookups, and why queers can’t stop blurring the friendship line. With Zhané and Syd, we talk jealousy, intimacy, ENM vs monogamy, and every messy “oops, I made out with my bestie” scenario. Gay disasters, incoming.

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00:00 intro
01:44 Have you hooked up with friends?
09:20 Pros and cons of hooking up
25:39 What about the friendship?
40:10 Is it inevitable?
49:15 Making the first move
57:56 Intoxicated consent
01:04:18 Keeping a platonic vibe after
01:10:38 How to avoid problems
01:16:52 Role playing scenarios

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CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains mentions of SA. Please take care of yourself while listening, and feel free to skip to the next episode if it’s not the right time for you.

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Femininity: feared, fetishized, and slapped with a “no fems” dating bio. We’re pulling femmephobia apart with Ms. Myles and Danielle. From its colonial, patriarchal origin story to the high school boys who think they have to one-up each other in a contest to sound the most heterosexual.

00:00 Intro
02:25 Define femmephobia
05:28 How does society treat femmes?
15:06 Being a trans femme is something else
23:32 Origins of femmephobia
31:09 The misogyny mask
43:11 No femmes allowed
48:37 Unwavering queerness
53:23 Do you wanna be a boy?
58:15 Protect the dolls

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From Oscar Wilde to JoJo Siwa, the word queer has been called a slur, a theory, an aesthetic, and a whole damn vibe. We’re diving deep into the messy, sexy, defiant legacy of queerness with icons Tyra Blizzard and King a.k.a DJ Soundboi. Why are so many ex-lesbians saying “I’m queer now”? Can cis-hets be queer? Is “queer” just bisexuality in a trench coat?? We’re reclaiming, unpacking, and stirring the pot.

00:00 Intro
02:26 Queer as gender and sexuality?
10:04 Is queer just too vague?
21:21 The ex-lesbians
28:26 Can you be culturally queer?
41:26 History of the word queer
52:12 How has queer evolved?
01:00:08 Is gender queer just non-binary?
01:06:05 Do you need to question your sexual attraction?