If you're focusing on fixing the emotional or relational problems in your marriage but haven't addressed your spiritual disconnection, your efforts won't go as far or last as long. In today's episode, we're getting to the heart of why so many couples struggle in their marriages.

From my experience coaching couples, I see marriage problems like poor communication or emotional distance are often symptoms of a deeper problem—spiritual disconnection. I believe marriage is about more than just connecting physically or emotionally; it requires an ongoing, strong spiritual bond as well.

There are three main ways we connect in marriage:

• Physical connection - good, but it isn’t strong enough to sustain a marriage.

• Emotional connection - better, but still incomplete

• Spiritual connection - best...the truest foundation that brings the deepest unity

In order to close the emotional gap in your marriage, you have to build a stronger foundation than feelings alone.

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding the cross and how marriage is a reflection of God

• How personal responsibility allows you to become more resilient through trials

• Becoming aware of how distractions keep you away from your real power
• The triangle analogy and why growing closer to God automatically grows you closer to your spouse

Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

Get my new book, Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer

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Do you sometimes struggle with how to pray for your marriage? In today’s episode, I’m breaking down the five powerful ways you can cover your marriage in prayer—and how to actually pray with confidence, intention, and results. Whether you're a seasoned prayer warrior or just starting out, you’ll leave with a super-practical template that makes praying for your spouse simple and heartfelt.

In today’s “sweet repeat,” I guide you through the acronym COVER: Compassion, Oneness, Vigor, Expectation, and Readiness, and show you how to apply each one as you pray over your relationship. Get ready to move beyond the typical “help my spouse have a good day” and into deeper, more meaningful prayers that can transform your connection.

Key Takeaways:

• Why prayer is essential for your marriage: It’s not just about doing all the right things or attending another marriage conference, but about inviting God to truly work in your relationship.
• How COMPASSION sets the tone: Start from a place of humility and empathy, not judgment or resentment.
• The power of ONENESS: Discover how unity in marriage is a living witness to the world and why praying for oneness is so important.
• Why VIGOR matters: Bring energy, enthusiasm, and genuine effort into your prayers, even when you feel weary.
• Praying with EXPECTATION: Approach God believing He hears you and wants to respond to your faith-filled prayers.
• The importance of READINESS: Prayer isn’t a monologue; prepare to hear from God—and be open to what He might ask you to do!

I’ll also share practical prayer topics—like unity, wisdom, protection, strength, resilience, and peace—to help you get started or go deeper in your prayer life.

Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

My brand new book, Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples, is available now! Visit triedandtruemarriagebook.com to grab your copy and get the FREE 5-Day devotional to start you on the right foundation.

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It's story time! Come and listen to how an ancient story about Deborah the judge can teach us to break free from traditional gender roles and society's expectations. I’m excited to share an excerpt from my brand-new book, “Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples,” which highlights Deborah's incredible leadership, her secure identity in God, and her husband Lappidoth's quiet strength and support.

Key Takeaways:

• Why women are NOT second-class citizens in God’s kingdom and how our calling matters

• How men can champion their wife’s gifts and leadership without comparison and competition

• Practical tips on honoring one another’s unique roles, shaking off cultural pressures, and letting your relationships be Spirit-led.

Why You Should Listen: This episode isn’t just for those struggling with gender roles in marriage—it’s an invitation for everyone to reflect on what God has called YOU to do. If you’ve ever felt pressured to fit a certain template or questioned your role, you’ll find comfort, inspiration, and practical encouragement here.

Quick Links:

• Pre-order the book: Triedandtruemarriagebook.com

Purposeful Quote:
“We were created equal in the sight of God. The irrevocable call of God applies to women and men alike.” – Dana Che

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