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Relationships With A Soul

Relationships With A Soul

Auteur(s): Helping you stop chasing love — and become it.
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 Relationships With a Soul helps you build deeper, more authentic connections — starting with the one you have with yourself. Learn to heal, set boundaries, and create relationships that feel real, safe, and soul-aligned.

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  • The Most Important Type Of Relationship You're Missing

    The Most Important Type Of Relationship You're Missing
    Nov 18 2025
    In this empowering episode, we explore what it really means to become your own best ally and stop relying on external validation to feel whole.In this value-packed episode, we cover:* Becoming your own best ally and why it changes everything (01:10)* The trap of relying on external circumstances to feel good (01:31)* Why most people lack self-trust and don’t even realize it (02:12)* The quiet inner voice trying to guide you—if you slow down enough to hear it (02:24)* Why no one else can ever fully meet your needs (03:07)* How nurturing your inner relationship creates emotional stability (03:26)* Simple tools to communicate with your inner self more deeply (04:12)* The real reason you stay stuck and avoid big life decisions (05:11)* How realizing others don’t truly understand you frees you from judgment (06:45)* Why boundaries are essential—especially with draining family dynamics (07:55)Connect with Nick:📙Follow Nick on Substack🪷 Explore The Relationships With A Soul Brand💻Visit Nick’s WebsiteKey Lessons From This EpisodeLesson 1: Internal Validation Is the Only Stable FoundationYou can surround yourself with support and encouragement, but none of it matters if you don’t trust yourself.Self-worth becomes unshakeable only when it comes from within.“Confidence is an inside job.”“Your life doesn’t change until you decide you’re worth changing for.”Lesson 2: Your Inner Voice Always Knows What You NeedBeneath the noise of daily life is a quiet, childlike voice trying to guide you toward truth.When you ignore it, you feel lost. When you listen, things finally make sense.“Your inner voice isn’t quiet — your life is just too loud.”“Alignment begins the moment you stop abandoning yourself.”Lesson 3: Most People Live Externally-Driven LivesWe wait for circumstances to shift before we allow ourselves to feel good, keeping us stuck in emotional dependence.“If your happiness depends on the world, you’ll always feel unsafe.”“Freedom begins when you decide to stop outsourcing your peace.”Lesson 4: You Can Meet Far More of Your Needs Than You ThinkYou’ve been conditioned to expect others to take care of you, but you have far more power to self-resource than you realize.“You are not as helpless as you were taught to believe.”“Self-support is the ultimate form of self-respect.”Lesson 5: Self-Trust Is What Unlocks Life DecisionsBig moves—new careers, relationships, relocations—become possible only when you trust your ability to handle the outcome.“Clarity doesn’t create courage — self-trust does.”“When you believe in your own capability, nothing feels too risky.”Lesson 6: Fear of Judgment Is a Massive IllusionMost people don’t know you well enough to have meaningful opinions about you. Realizing this frees you from performing.“People aren’t judging you — they’re projecting themselves.”“The fear of judgment disappears once you see how little others truly understand you.”Lesson 7: People’s Opinions Are Mostly About Their ComfortDisapproval often happens because your growth disrupts someone else’s expectations—not because you’re wrong.“Their reaction reflects their comfort, not your truth.”“Your evolution will threaten the people who benefit from your stagnation.”Lesson 8: Boundaries Are Acts of Self-RespectBoundaries—especially with draining family members—protect your inner child and prevent ongoing emotional harm.“Distance can be an act of love — especially love for yourself.”“Boundaries aren’t walls; they’re protection from repeated injury.”Lesson 8: Boundaries Are Acts of Self-RespectBoundaries—especially with draining family members—protect your inner child and prevent ongoing emotional harm.“Distance can be an act of love — especially love for yourself.”“Boundaries aren’t walls; they’re protection from repeated injury.”Lesson 9: Numbing Disconnects You From Your Inner SelfWhen you drown out your inner world with distractions, substances, or constant noise, you lose access to the part of you that needs healing most.“Numbing feels like relief, but it’s really self-abandonment.”“Your healing begins the moment you stop hiding from yourself.”Lesson 10: The Relationship With Your Inner Self Is the Most Important One You’ll Ever HaveThis relationship becomes your support system, your clarity, your courage, and your inner safety.“The inner you is the partner you’ll have for the rest of your life.”“When you build a home within yourself, you stop searching for one outside.”Enjoyed This Episode? You Might Also Enjoy:Help Grow The Podcast:Since this is a new podcast, I’d really appreciate your support. Here are three ways you can help grow the podcast:* Follow the Relationships With A Soul podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcasting platform* Share this episode with a friend who you think will find it valuable Get full access to ...
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  • How to Actually Value Yourself

    How to Actually Value Yourself
    Nov 4 2025
    In this empowering episode, we explore how childhood conditioning shapes self-worth, why so many adults struggle to believe in themselves, and the mindset shift that instantly increases your value.In this value-packed episode, we cover:* Why believing in yourself matters more than anyone else believing in you (01:10)* How childhood conditioning creates lifelong self-worth issues (03:05)* Why a lack of emotional presence from parents leads to self-doubt later in life (05:40)* How unconscious limiting beliefs sabotage your goals and confidence (08:10)* The role bad habits and addictions play when we don’t know how to value ourselves (10:45)* A mindset strategy from Naval Ravikant that instantly raises your self-worth (13:20)* How to put a dollar value on your time — and why it changes everything (15:40)* The psychology behind why this simple practice increases productivity (17:05)* How valuing your time reduces complaining, resentment, and overthinking (18:50)* Why most wealthy, fulfilled people use this mental model daily (20:15)* How to choose a number that feels uncomfortable — and why that’s the secret (21:55)* A daily habit that dramatically strengthens self-belief (23:10)* The profound difference between working harder and working smarter (24:25)* Why this single shift can alter the trajectory of your entire life (25:45)* A challenge to prove to yourself, not others, that you’re worth it (27:20)And more…Connect with Nick:📙Follow Nick on Substack🪷 Explore The Relationships With A Soul Brand💻Visit Nick’s WebsiteKey Lessons From This Episode:Lesson 1: Self-Belief Can’t Be OutsourcedYou can be surrounded by people who believe in you, but it won’t matter if you don’t believe in yourself.Validation only sticks when it comes from within.Confidence is an inside job.Your life doesn’t change until you decide you’re worth changing for.Lesson 2: Childhood Shapes Your Internal WorthWhen parents are absent, distracted, addicted, or emotionally unavailable, children internalize one message:“I must not be worth their time.”Those beliefs follow us into adulthood.We don’t question our parents — we question ourselves.Lesson 3: Unseen Limiting Beliefs Create Self-SabotageIf you don’t value yourself, you’ll avoid opportunities, procrastinate on dreams, and cling to safe distractions.You’re not lazy — you’re protecting yourself from the pain of failing.We fail privately because we fear failing publicly.Lesson 4: Bad Habits Fill the Void Self-Worth LeavesAddictions, scrolling, numbing, and procrastination are symptoms.Without internal value, we chase external stimulation to feel okay.You can’t out-hustle an empty cup.Lesson 5: Valuing Your Time Changes How You Spend ItAssigning a dollar amount to your hour instantly alters your behavior.Suddenly, scrolling feels expensive. Complaining feels wasteful.You naturally shift toward higher-value actions.When time becomes valuable, you stop wasting it on people, problems, and patterns that don’t matter.Lesson 6: Discomfort = GrowthPick a number that feels slightly uncomfortable.That discomfort is your identity expanding.Your subconscious learns worth by witnessing your actions.If it doesn’t stretch you, it doesn’t change you.Lesson 7: Mindset Creates RealityWhen you choose a self-worth number:* You think differently* You behave differently* You prioritize differentlyAnd reality rearranges accordingly.The mind creates what it consistently believes.Lesson 8: A Single Sentence Can Change Your LifeWriting down your hourly worth and seeing it every day is symbolic repetition.It reprograms identity, removes guilt, and activates self-respect.Your environment trains your subconscious — use it intentionally.Lesson 9: Your Existence Is a Statistical MiracleThe chances of you being born are so small that your worth is practically immeasurable.Don’t let childhood wounds decide what a miracle is worth.Your value was never supposed to be decided by broken people.Lesson 10: Self-Worth Drives ImpactThe more you value yourself, the more:* You create* You contribute* You lead* You inspireYour worth fuels your purpose.To change the world, you must first believe you’re worthy of trying.Enjoyed This Episode? You Might Also Enjoy:Help Grow The Podcast:Since this is a new podcast, I’d really appreciate your support. Here are three ways you can help grow the podcast:* Follow the Relationships With A Soul podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcasting platform* Share this episode with a friend who you think will find it valuable Get full access to Relationships With A Soul at newsletter.nickneve.com/subscribe
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  • You're Not Alone: The Truth About Mental Health and Social Media

    You're Not Alone: The Truth About Mental Health and Social Media
    Oct 28 2025
    In this honest and grounding episode, we break down the truth behind social media perfection, emotional isolation, and why your struggles are more normal—and meaningful—than you think.In this value-packed episode, we cover:* Why social media creates a false sense of perfection—and how it distorts our mental health (01:05)* The hidden exhaustion of pretending we’re “fine” when we’re not (03:12)* How childhood conditioning teaches us to bury emotions instead of express them (05:45)* The deep shame we carry for struggling—and why that shame is actually the cage (08:50)* The hidden reason so many of us rely on alcohol, medication, shopping, and other coping behaviors (11:20)* Why life feels so lonely—even when we’re surrounded by people (13:30)* The powerful lesson behind John Candy’s life—and the beauty of seeing someone fully (15:45)* Why we’re starving for authenticity in a world full of performance (18:20)* How pain acts as a teacher that pushes us into alignment, not a punishment (20:50)* Why challenges are essential for meaning, growth, and fulfillment (23:10)* The belief shift that stops you from feeling alone in your struggle (25:55)And much more…Connect with Nick:📙Follow Nick on Substack🪷 Explore The Relationships With A Soul Brand💻Visit Nick’s WebsiteKey Lessons From This Episode:Lesson 1: Perfection Is a Performance — Not RealitySocial media tricks our minds into believing perfection is normal.We compare our messy, real lives to someone’s carefully curated highlight reel, and it creates a silent shame.Authenticity isn’t loud; perfection is usually a mask.When you remember this, the pressure to “have it all together” starts to dissolve.People aren’t perfect — they’re performing.Lesson 2: Emotional Suppression Starts in ChildhoodFrom a young age, we’re taught not to cry, complain, or express frustration.That conditioning becomes the voice that tells us:“Don’t feel that.”“Don’t be dramatic.”“Hide it.”As adults, we apologize for being human — because we were never taught how to feel safely.Suppressing emotions doesn’t make you stronger. It makes you disconnected.Lesson 3: Coping Behaviors Are Messages, Not Moral FailuresAlcohol, shopping, substances, overworking, endless scrolling — these are emotional regulation tools.Rather than judging them, it’s more helpful to ask:What pain am I soothing? What feeling am I avoiding?When you identify the root, the behavior loses its power.We normalize coping so we can avoid confronting what hurts.Lesson 4: Loneliness Comes From Performance, Not IsolationYou can be surrounded by people and still feel alone.Why?Because nobody’s saying what’s real.We perform at work, at home, online — then go home and fall apart privately.Connection can only exist where truth is allowed to exist.We feel alone because we’re hiding the parts that would actually connect us.Lesson 5: Pain Is a Teacher — Not a PunishmentLife’s challenges force growth, resilience, and meaning.Without struggle, life would feel empty and directionless.Pain reveals where we’re out of alignment — it’s guidance, not punishment.Leaning into it helps your soul evolve.The universe communicates through discomfort.Lesson 6: Authenticity Creates Real BelongingBeing authentic does not mean having life figured out.It means being willing to be seen in the mess.When you share your truth, others recognize their own — and connection happens.You stop feeling like an outsider in your own life.Our struggles connect us far more than our highlight reels ever will.Lesson 7: Everyone Has a Battle You Can’t SeeThe people who look the strongest are often carrying the most.Celebrities, comedians, leaders — pain doesn’t discriminate.Recognizing this removes comparison, envy, and shame.We’re all human — and that’s the point.When we see the whole person, we finally see ourselves.Lesson 8: Acceptance Makes You Feel Less AloneWhen you accept that challenges are a shared human pattern,you stop assuming something’s wrong with you.Life becomes less about survival and more about learning.Acceptance is freedom.Your struggle doesn’t make you an outsider — it makes you human.Enjoyed This Episode? You Might Also Enjoy:Help Grow The Podcast:Since this is a new podcast, I’d really appreciate your support. Here are three ways you can help grow the podcast:* Follow the Relationships With A Soul podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcasting platform* Share this episode with a friend who you think will find it valuable Get full access to Relationships With A Soul at newsletter.nickneve.com/subscribe
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