Épisodes

  • Should School Counselors Get Their LPC?
    Jun 23 2025

    More and more school counselors are saying, “I’m getting my LPC and getting out.”

    But is licensure really the answer- or just a new kind of stress?

    In this episode, we take a candid look at what licensure changes, what it doesn’t, and why your next move deserves more than burnout logic.

    Plus, I’ll walk you through the hidden costs, the unexpected trade-offs, and what clinical work actually involves (spoiler: it’s not school counseling in a cozier office).

    We’ll talk salary.
    We’ll talk supervision.
    We’ll talk what it really feels like to carry clinical liability.

    And most importantly, we’ll ask:
    Are you chasing licensure because it aligns with your goals…
    Or because you’re trying to escape something no one ever taught you how to fix?

    If you’ve ever wondered whether you should get your LPC, this one’s for you.


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    Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.

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    23 min
  • Why School Counselors Feel Like They’re Failing (Even When They’re Not)
    Jun 16 2025

    Still feeling unsure- even with experience under your belt? This episode explains why doubt might be the best sign you’re doing the job well, not a reason to second-guess yourself.

    In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on what that uncertainty in school counseling really means. We’ll talk about the invisible labor of school counseling, what the research says about feedback-poor environments, and how self-doubt often shows up right when your skills are leveling up.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why experienced counselors question themselves more, not less
    • How silence and lack of validation chip away at even the strongest counselors
    • Why messy, imperfect work is often the most effective
    • And how to chase credibility instead of certainty

    You’re not failing; you’re growing. And you’re not alone.


    Mentioned in this episode:

    School for School Counselors Mastermind

    Free School Counselor Planner


    References:

    Culbreth, J. R., Scarborough, J. L., Banks‑Johnson, S. B., & Solomon, T. (2005). Role stress among practicing school counselors. Professional School Counseling, 9(2), 106–112.

    Dunning, D., & Kruger, J. (1999). Unskilled and unaware of it: How difficulties in recognizing one’s own incompetence lead to inflated self-assessments. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 77(6), 1121–1134.

    Falender, C. A., & Shafranske, E. P. (2010). Psychotherapy‑based supervision models in an emerging competency‑based era: A commentary. Psychotherapy: Theory, Research, Practice, Training, 47(1), 45–50.

    Hill, C. E., Sullivan, C., Knox, S., & Schlosser, L. Z. (2007). Therapist self‑disclosure: Research-based suggestions regarding clinical training, practices, and ethics. Psychotherapy Theory, Research, Practice, Training, 44(4), 392–407.

    Hochschild, A. R. (1983). The managed heart: Commercialization of human feeling. University of California Press.

    Jennings, L., & Skovholt, T. M. (2016). In T. M. Skovholt & K. Rønnestad (Eds.), Master therapists: Exploring expertise in therapy and counseling. Routledge.

    Skovholt, T. M., & Trotter‑Mathison, M. (2016). The resilient practitioner: Burnout prevention and self‑care strategies for counselors, therapists, teachers, and health professionals (3rd ed.). Taylor & Francis. (Original concept described in earlier editions as an “ambiguity‑rich, feedback‑poor environment.”)


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    Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.

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    17 min
  • It’s Summer! So Why Can’t School Counselors Actually Relax? [ep 153]
    Jun 9 2025

    You turned in your keys, packed up your office, and told yourself this summer would be a reset. But instead of relaxing, you feel… off. Either you can’t sit still, or you’ve completely shut down.

    Sound familiar?

    In this episode, we’re talking about what’s really going on when school counselors can’t seem to rest after the school year ends.

    We’ll explore the biological stress cycle, the emotional aftermath of constant crisis response, and why your body might still be on high alert... even if your calendar is empty.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why some counselors feel antsy and others feel emotionally flatlined
    • What the stress cycle actually is (and why school counselors rarely complete it)
    • What to do instead of trying to “fix” yourself with productivity
    • Real strategies to help you downshift: without guilt, pressure, or a color-coded plan
    • How parenting, performance pressure, and public education expectations all collide in the summer

    This isn’t just about feeling better. It’s about reclaiming your nervous system, your peace, and your ability to start the school year as yourself... not the burned-out version you’ve been trying to push through.


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    Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.

    Hang out in our Facebook group
    Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.)

    Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind
    The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you!

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    18 min
  • How School Counseling’s Best Intentions Turned Against Us [ep 152]
    Jun 2 2025

    You followed the model. You tracked the data. You did everything “right.”


    So why does it still feel wrong?


    In this episode, we talk about how school counseling’s best intentions became a trap, and what to do when the map you were given stops working.


    If you’re tired of measuring your worth by minutes and metrics, this one’s for you.


    Mentioned in this episode:

    Episode 4, "Your Data Does Not Define Your Worth as a School Counselor"


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    ⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind. Come join us! ⭐️

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    Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.

    Hang out in our Facebook group
    Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.)

    Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind
    The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you!

    Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!


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    20 min
  • Why Some School Counselors Get Ignored and Others Don’t [ep 151]
    May 26 2025

    Why do some school counselors get a seat at the table while others get sidelined, no matter how qualified they are? In this episode, we’re breaking down what actually builds trust with school leaders and how to develop the on-the-fly fluency and presence that turn you into the go-to, not the afterthought.

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    Being good at your job isn’t always enough. You can have the training, the data, and a deep commitment to students... and still get left out of the decision-making process on your campus.

    Why? Because influence in schools isn’t about credentials.

    It’s about trust.

    In this episode, we’re talking about what actually earns school counselors a seat at the table, and why the real key isn’t advocacy, a perfect program, or another use-of-time chart.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why some school counselors get access and others don’t
    • The five relational traits that build real trust with administrators
    • How to develop on-the-fly fluency that earns instant credibility
    • When it’s time to stop chasing influence and pivot strategically
    • And how to start showing up like a trusted advisor, even without the title

    If you’ve ever been passed over, second-guessed, or told to “just follow the model,” this episode is your blueprint for stepping into leadership the right way, without burning out or selling out.

    Because trusted advisors aren’t appointed.

    They’re revealed- one moment at a time.


    Need a downloadable recap of this episode? Say no more!
    Go here to get a free copy.


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    Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.

    Hang out in our Facebook group
    Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.)

    Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind
    The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you!

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    22 min
  • 5 School Counseling Mistakes That’ll Bite You in August [ep 150]
    May 19 2025

    What you forget in May will come back to bite you in August. In this episode, we cover 5 school counseling mistakes that cause chaos when the year starts- and how to avoid them while you still can.

    You’re running on fumes. May is chaos. And the last thing you want is another “end-of-year checklist.”

    But here’s the truth: what you forget now will turn into a full-on mess in August.

    We’re walking through 5 school counseling mistakes that seem small in May but turn into massive headaches when the new year hits. These aren’t the obvious ones, either. We’re talking about the subtle slip-ups that leave you scrambling, frustrated, or starting from scratch… again.

    You’ll learn:

    • What to jot down now that’ll save your sanity in the fall
    • Why “data reflection” doesn’t have to mean hours of spreadsheets
    • How to close out the year with intention (even if you’re over it)
    • The one thing you’re probably skipping that sets the tone for August
    • A smarter, simpler way to stay sharp over the summer (without burning out)

    If you’re a school counselor trying to finish strong without falling apart, this episode is for you.


    Mentioned in this Episode:

    School for School Counselors Mastermind

    List of Closure Activities for Students


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    Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.

    Hang out in our Facebook group
    Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.)

    Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind
    The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you!

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    26 min
  • Should I Quit My School Counseling Job?
    May 13 2025

    You’ve been holding it in all year.

    The long hours, the invisible work, the constant pressure to stay calm while everything around you feels like it’s unraveling... And now that the school year’s winding down, one question keeps echoing louder than the rest:

    “Can I really do this again next year?”

    In this deeply personal episode, I’m not here to hand you a checklist or tell you what to do. I’m here as a fellow counselor, walking through the same hard questions- right alongside you.

    We’ll talk about:

    • The quiet signs it might be time to move on (even if nothing “dramatic” has happened)
    • What staying with intention actually looks like
    • Why redesigning your role could work- and when it absolutely won’t
    • A gut-check framework that helps you make the call without spiraling
    • And what to do if you feel like you don’t even have a choice right now

    If you’ve ever felt like the only one who’s wondering whether it’s time to go, this episode will remind you: you’re not alone- and you don't have to feel stuck.


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    Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.

    Hang out in our Facebook group
    Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.)

    Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind
    The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you!

    Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!


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    30 min
  • When You Love School Counseling But Hate How It Feels
    May 5 2025

    You love school counseling.

    You believe in the mission.

    But right now, it just isn't feeling right.

    If you’ve been wondering whether you’re burned out, questioning if you can make it through another year, or feeling disconnected from the work you once loved... this episode is for you.

    In this episode, we talk about:

    • Why April and May hit school counselors especially hard
    • The difference between burnout and professional fatigue
    • Five evidence-based strategies to protect your energy, motivation, and heart
    • Why now is not the time to make big career decisions

    Forget about self-care clichés. We need to talk about real tools to help you finish strong- and remind you why you started in the first place.

    Whether you're tired, frustrated, or just not feeling like yourself at work...

    You're not alone. And you're not broken.

    Let’s talk about how to keep showing up without burning out.


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    ⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind. Come join us! ⭐️

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    Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.

    Hang out in our Facebook group
    Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.)

    Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind
    The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you!

    Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!


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    30 min