The world feels chaotic lately—there's a buzzing energy that's both exhilarating and exhausting. As summer unfolds with packed calendars and endless activities, many of us find ourselves yearning for space while simultaneously craving connection. This tension reveals a profound truth about human existence: we need our village.

The concept of "it takes a village" extends far beyond raising children. At its core, this phrase speaks to our fundamental human need for community in all aspects of our lives. Whether you're an introvert who cherishes alone time (like myself) or someone who thrives in social settings, having people around you who support, challenge, and understand you is essential for wellbeing.

We've been conditioned to celebrate independence and self-sufficiency, but this mindset can lead to harmful isolation. Your village might look different than traditional communities—it could include close friends you can call at any hour, family members who provide unconditional support, online communities that share your interests, or even spiritual connections that guide your path. The composition of your village is uniquely yours, designed to support your specific needs and goals.

Ready to expand your village? Join the Selfish Sisterhood—a diverse community of women supporting each other's growth and authenticity. Connect with me on social media or email jess@jessclerke.com to learn how your Human Design influences the community you need.

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Could trusting your gut save your life? For me, it literally did.

When my 4-month-old started fussing during a solo road trip, my intuition told me to pull over for a quick stop. Fifteen minutes later, we drove past a horrific accident that had just happened – one that closed the highway for five hours. Had we not made that unplanned stop, the timing would have put us right at that spot when disaster struck.

This experience sparked a deep dive into how intuition works differently for each of us. Through human design, we learn there are seven distinct decision-making authorities – emotional, sacral, splenic, ego, self-projected, mental, and lunar – each guiding us in unique ways. Some feel answers in their gut, others hear whispers that speak only once, while some need to talk things out or wait for emotional clarity.

The challenge isn't just recognizing these signals but trusting them in a world that values logic over intuition. My splenic authority comes as a whisper that speaks once and disappears – something that made me feel crazy until I learned to trust it. From small decisions like starting this podcast to life-saving moments on the highway, these intuitive hits have never steered me wrong.

What is your intuition trying to tell you today? Maybe it's time to start listening.

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Ever felt like you're constantly running to catch up with your own life? That pressure building inside when you keep putting yourself on the back burner? You're not alone.

Take a deep breath with me as we explore what I'm calling my "soft mama era" – a season of intentional slowness that's revolutionizing how I approach life, business, and motherhood. This conversation goes far beyond parenting though, touching on universal struggles we face when our plates become impossibly full.

Whether you're navigating motherhood, career demands, or simply feeling overwhelmed by life's constant pressures, this episode offers permission to find your own version of softness. Because when you finally create that space, magical things happen – including the ability to say yes to unexpected adventures without hesitation or guilt.

What would YOUR soft season look like? Listen in, then send me a message sharing your thoughts. And if this resonates, please subscribe and leave a review – it truly makes all the difference!

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