Firstly I would like to thank my friend and expert Alan Brosnan for making this amazing episode happen.

This week, I had the honor of speaking with René Ashford- a VICTOR of years of abuse, René’s mission and mandate is clear - to save lives! Repeated sexual assaults, multiple violent relationships and addictions to drugs and alcohol led René down a dark and lonely path which included multiple suicide attempts, the earliest when she was only 9 years old.

René is now the Australian Ambassador for the National Association of Adult Child Abuse Survivors (NAASCA) and a most amazing human who has gone on to become an inspiring Australian author and Public Speaker who has turned her harrowing experiences of child abuse into a powerful mission to educate and protect others.

René’s story is a powerful reminder that we can all play a part in protecting children and breaking the cycle of abuse. Her book, Battlescars are Beautiful: From Victim To Victory, is a must-read for anyone seeking to understand and combat child abuse.

She offers practical advice on child safety, including teaching body boundaries, using correct anatomical terms, and empowering children to say no.

René addresses breaking the silence around abuse, the importance of support networks, and her ongoing work helping others heal.

The episode is a moving call to action for education, transparency, and protecting vulnerable children.

We talked about the topics of

The Power of Transparency: Early Education on Body Safety: Recognising Abuse: Empowering Children: Breaking the Cycle: Practical Actions for Parents and Caregivers: Teaching Body Safety Early: Using Correct Terminology: Respect Consent: Vigilant Parenting.

We mentioned famous personalities in the s space such as former 22 SAS ( Special Air Service ) soldier Big Phil Campion,, Former West Australia Police Officer Kristi McPhee, and former guests on the show world record holder Brooke McIntosh, and Delta Force Commander and Author of “The Common Sense Way” Pete Blaber.

I hope you find this episode as enlightening and inspiring as I did. Let’s continue to have these important conversations and work together to create a safer world for our children.

In her words.. “Survivors are not defined by their experiences, nor are they limited by them. Anyone can rise beyond adversity with the right mindset, and it begins with a decision to do whatever it takes, for as long as it takes.”

Her journey can be discovered and understood in her incredibly powerful and inspiring book which has received rave reviews and is endorsed by mental health professionals, counsellors, war veterans, and law enforcement. René’s story is gripping, raw and profound – and yet another reminder of the power of the human spirit to overcome life’s greatest challenges.

🔗 Connect with René on

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rene_ashford01/

Email her direct: renemichele1975@gmail.com

Her book on Amazon : https://amzn.asia/d/i6xOinK

I am Damian Porter , Former NZ Special Forces Operator, Subject Matter Expert from www.hownottodieguy.com and www.eatwellmovewell.net

And you are listening to my STRAIGHT TALK MIND AND MUSCLE PODCAST sponsored by www.mystait.com

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In this episode - I interview Ali Gilbert, a decorated fitness professional specialising in men’s health and testosterone optimisation for men over 40. 

Closely aligned with the world famous Marek Health -she is the creator of Silverback Coaching - An Elite Concierge Health & Performance System for Men in the top 1% Who Win in Business—and Want the Body to Match.

We talked all things Testosterone optimisation, nutrition and fitness. We discuss the stigmas around testosterone replacement therapy (TRT), debunk myths about prostate cancer and heart risks, and highlight the importance of holistic health—addressing lifestyle, nutrition, and hormone balance.

We also spoke about the upcoming Silverback Summit, a men’s health event fostering education and community. Here a sneak preview what we talked about -

Dr Kirk Parsley's Work

Mark Bell Podcast

Dave Lee

Hormone Replacement Therapy for Women

Boron

Zinc

Pregnenolone

Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT)

Anastrozole

Free Testosterone

SHBG (Sex Hormone-Binding Globulin)

Aromatase Inhibitors and Oestrogen

Gynecomastia

Blood Testing

PSA Blood Test Myths

Ali’s transparency, authenticity, knowledge level and the way she can get men to open up and meet them where they are at is priceless. She emphasises open conversations about men’s health, the limitations of supplements, and the need for individualised care.

I hope these highlights spark your curiosity and entice you to dive into the full episode. Ali’s journey and insights are truly inspiring, and there’s so much more to explore in our conversation.

🔗 Connect with Ali on

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealigilbert/

Web - https://ali-gilbert.com/

SilverBack Summit- https://silverbacksummit.com/

I am Damian Porter , Former NZ Special Forces Operator, Subject Matter Expert from www.hownottodieguy.com and www.eatwellmovewell.net

And you are listening to my STRAIGHT TALK MIND AND MUSCLE PODCAST sponsored by www.mystait.com

- the ultimate daily formula for optimum hormone health, stress management, energy and performance.

100% natural and clinically proven ingredients, it provides everything you need to raise your game, in a convenient gut-friendly capsule. 

And the Mason Survival Protocol - https://www.carnivoreretreat.com/post/masonsurvival-protocol-carnivore-retreat



Links for my former shows are here-


WATCH on YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLpt-Zy1jciVn7cWB0B-y5WATyzrzfwucZ

LISTEN on: spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rlAGRXCwLIJfQCQ5B3PYB?si=UmgsMBFkRfelCAm1E4Pd3Q

Itunes - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/straight-talk-mind-and-muscle-podcast/id1315986446?mt=2




 
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In this episode - I interview Scott Bryson- who spent three decades in law enforcement, from the streets of Charlotte to the White House, in the Secret Service.

He has protected President George Bush on his security detail, been a Member of the CAT ( Counter Assault Team) and worked all aspects of the Secret Service and international assignments.

His core philosophy: service over ego. The “switched-on” mindset—calm under stress, decisive in chaos—matters more than size, rank, or background. Protection is about preparation, vigilance, and routine discipline, not Hollywood heroics.

Today, Scott applies the same lessons in schools, executive protection, and public education. He emphasizes authenticity, integrity, and the power of words to lead and protect. His advice is simple but actionable: build situational awareness, carry tools that work, train realistically, plan for transitions, and never forget that survival—not engagement—is the goal.

Through his podcast Beyond the Service and direct outreach, Scott continues to share hard-earned wisdom, offering a roadmap for resilience, safety, and purposeful living.

This episode with Retired Secret Service Agent Scott Bryson is a must-listen for anyone who values real-world safety, resilience, and actionable wisdom. From high-stakes protective work to everyday life lessons, Scott delivers insights you won’t find anywhere else—practical, honest, and inspiring. Whether you’re in law enforcement, a concerned parent, or just someone who wants to be better prepared, this conversation will leave you smarter, safer, and motivated. Tune in—you won’t want to miss a single moment.

🔗 Connect with Scott on

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottbrysonbts/?hl=en

Web: https://scottbrysonbts.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@scottbrysonbts

I am Damian Porter , Former NZ Special Forces Operator, Subject Matter Expert from www.hownottodieguy.com and www.eatwellmovewell.net

And you are listening to my STRAIGHT TALK MIND AND MUSCLE PODCAST sponsored by www.mystait.com

- the ultimate daily formula for optimum hormone health, stress management, energy and performance.

100% natural and clinically proven ingredients, it provides everything you need to raise your game, in a convenient gut-friendly capsule. 

And the Mason Survival Protocol - https://www.carnivoreretreat.com/post/masonsurvival-protocol-carnivore-retreat



Links for my former shows are here-


WATCH on YouTube- https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLpt-Zy1jciVn7cWB0B-y5WATyzrzfwucZ

LISTEN on: spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1rlAGRXCwLIJfQCQ5B3PYB?si=UmgsMBFkRfelCAm1E4Pd3Q

Itunes - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/straight-talk-mind-and-muscle-podcast/id1315986446?mt=2




 
Amazon https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/5bce2d31-a171-4e83-bada-d1384c877e76

Subscribe for more amazing tips, interviews and wisdom from phenomenal guests ------- And get your ** FREE Video Workshop here- https://www.hownottodieguy.com/