Is happily ever after realistic… or is marriage setting people up for disappointment?

In this episode of our T-Time Podcast, Ashley and Carlie Terradez have an honest, real-life conversation about marriage—cutting through cultural myths, unrealistic expectations, and fear-based narratives that surround commitment today.

We talk about why so many people question marriage, whether living together is really a safer option, and what actually makes a relationship thrive long-term. Drawing from Scripture, personal experience, and decades of marriage, this episode challenges the idea that marriage is either a fantasy or a trap—and reveals God’s design for covenant, joy, and lasting partnership.

If you’ve ever wondered:

1. Is marriage still relevant?
2. Does “happily ever after” really exist?
3. Should I say yes… or walk away?

This episode will bring clarity, encouragement, and truth.

1. Marriage isn’t a fairytale or a nightmare—it’s a covenant designed by God to grow, strengthen, and mature you.
2. Unrealistic expectations are often what disappoint people, not marriage itself.
3. Living together and marriage are not the same. Covenant brings security, clarity, and commitment that convenience cannot.
4. Fear of commitment is one of the biggest reasons people avoid marriage today—but fear isn’t from God.
5. Happily ever after doesn’t mean problem-free—it means having the tools, grace, and partnership to walk through life together.
6. Marriage reveals and refines you, helping develop character, selflessness, and love.
7. God’s design for marriage still works, even when culture says otherwise.
8. Saying “yes forever” is not about perfection—it’s about faithfulness, growth, and choosing covenant daily.

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This special Christmas Day episode of T-Time with the Terradez’s is a cozy, heartfelt conversation about what Christmas is really all about—Jesus. We share some of our favorite family traditions and talk about how our own childhood experiences shaped the way we celebrate today, from the excitement of Christmas morning to growing into a deeper understanding of why we celebrate in the first place.

We open up about navigating the busyness and commercialization that can so easily creep into the season, and how we’ve intentionally worked to keep Christ at the center of our home—especially as parents. Along the way, we share personal stories, laughs, and meaningful moments that remind us why Christmas matters beyond the gifts and decorations.

This episode is an encouragement to slow down, enjoy the season, and help our kids understand the true story of Christmas—that Jesus is the greatest gift of all. Our hope is that it inspires you to create traditions that point your heart and home back to Him.

1. Christmas is about more than gifts—it’s a celebration of Jesus’ birth.
2. Family traditions help create meaningful memories and pass faith to the next generation.
3. The Christmas story reminds us of peace and restored relationship with God through Jesus.
4. Keeping Christ at the center helps cut through the noise and distractions of the season.
5. Teaching kids the true meaning of Christmas builds faith without confusion or deception.
6. Jesus is—and always will be—the greatest gift we celebrate.

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In this fun and relatable episode, Ashley and Carlie share their best travel stories, lessons, and practical advice from years of ministry trips around the world. From lost luggage to 19-hour flights, mission-trip mishaps, and cultural surprises, they open up about what they’ve learned on the road—and how to keep your peace (and your sense of humor!) while you travel.

You’ll hear their top packing hacks (yes, including the compression-bag strategy!), how they manage long flights with only carry-ons, and why flexibility is one of the most important travel skills you can have. They also share powerful insights about traveling with the Holy Spirit, listening to His voice, and treating every journey as an opportunity for divine connection and spiritual growth.

If you’re planning a trip—whether it’s for ministry, vacation, family, or a mission adventure—this episode will help you go from jet lag to joy, with peace, preparation, and purpose.

• Travel is part of the Great Commission. Jesus calls us to “go,” and sometimes that literally means getting on a plane, going to new places, and reaching new people.
• Be prepared, but stay flexible. Things change—delays happen, plans shift, and schedules adjust. Being adaptable makes travel far less stressful.
• Pack light and smart. Compression bags, carry-on-only tips, reusable routines, and choosing the right luggage can transform your whole travel experience.
• Listen to the Holy Spirit. He can warn you, guide you, and protect you. Peace—or lack of peace—is one of the best travel indicators you have.
• Embrace cultural differences. Travel broadens your perspective and helps you appreciate the beauty in how God made people all over the world.
• Enjoy the journey, not just the destination. Use travel time for prayer, rest, connection, and margin instead of letting anxiety take over.

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