Is happily ever after realistic… or is marriage setting people up for disappointment?

In this episode of our T-Time Podcast, Ashley and Carlie Terradez have an honest, real-life conversation about marriage—cutting through cultural myths, unrealistic expectations, and fear-based narratives that surround commitment today.

We talk about why so many people question marriage, whether living together is really a safer option, and what actually makes a relationship thrive long-term. Drawing from Scripture, personal experience, and decades of marriage, this episode challenges the idea that marriage is either a fantasy or a trap—and reveals God’s design for covenant, joy, and lasting partnership.

If you’ve ever wondered:

1. Is marriage still relevant?
2. Does “happily ever after” really exist?
3. Should I say yes… or walk away?

This episode will bring clarity, encouragement, and truth.

1. Marriage isn’t a fairytale or a nightmare—it’s a covenant designed by God to grow, strengthen, and mature you.
2. Unrealistic expectations are often what disappoint people, not marriage itself.
3. Living together and marriage are not the same. Covenant brings security, clarity, and commitment that convenience cannot.
4. Fear of commitment is one of the biggest reasons people avoid marriage today—but fear isn’t from God.
5. Happily ever after doesn’t mean problem-free—it means having the tools, grace, and partnership to walk through life together.
6. Marriage reveals and refines you, helping develop character, selflessness, and love.
7. God’s design for marriage still works, even when culture says otherwise.
8. Saying “yes forever” is not about perfection—it’s about faithfulness, growth, and choosing covenant daily.

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This special Christmas Day episode of T-Time with the Terradez’s is a cozy, heartfelt conversation about what Christmas is really all about—Jesus. We share some of our favorite family traditions and talk about how our own childhood experiences shaped the way we celebrate today, from the excitement of Christmas morning to growing into a deeper understanding of why we celebrate in the first place.

We open up about navigating the busyness and commercialization that can so easily creep into the season, and how we’ve intentionally worked to keep Christ at the center of our home—especially as parents. Along the way, we share personal stories, laughs, and meaningful moments that remind us why Christmas matters beyond the gifts and decorations.

This episode is an encouragement to slow down, enjoy the season, and help our kids understand the true story of Christmas—that Jesus is the greatest gift of all. Our hope is that it inspires you to create traditions that point your heart and home back to Him.

1. Christmas is about more than gifts—it’s a celebration of Jesus’ birth.
2. Family traditions help create meaningful memories and pass faith to the next generation.
3. The Christmas story reminds us of peace and restored relationship with God through Jesus.
4. Keeping Christ at the center helps cut through the noise and distractions of the season.
5. Teaching kids the true meaning of Christmas builds faith without confusion or deception.
6. Jesus is—and always will be—the greatest gift we celebrate.

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In this fun and relatable episode, Ashley and Carlie share their best travel stories, lessons, and practical advice from years of ministry trips around the world. From lost luggage to 19-hour flights, mission-trip mishaps, and cultural surprises, they open up about what they’ve learned on the road—and how to keep your peace (and your sense of humor!) while you travel.

You’ll hear their top packing hacks (yes, including the compression-bag strategy!), how they manage long flights with only carry-ons, and why flexibility is one of the most important travel skills you can have. They also share powerful insights about traveling with the Holy Spirit, listening to His voice, and treating every journey as an opportunity for divine connection and spiritual growth.

If you’re planning a trip—whether it’s for ministry, vacation, family, or a mission adventure—this episode will help you go from jet lag to joy, with peace, preparation, and purpose.

• Travel is part of the Great Commission. Jesus calls us to “go,” and sometimes that literally means getting on a plane, going to new places, and reaching new people.
• Be prepared, but stay flexible. Things change—delays happen, plans shift, and schedules adjust. Being adaptable makes travel far less stressful.
• Pack light and smart. Compression bags, carry-on-only tips, reusable routines, and choosing the right luggage can transform your whole travel experience.
• Listen to the Holy Spirit. He can warn you, guide you, and protect you. Peace—or lack of peace—is one of the best travel indicators you have.
• Embrace cultural differences. Travel broadens your perspective and helps you appreciate the beauty in how God made people all over the world.
• Enjoy the journey, not just the destination. Use travel time for prayer, rest, connection, and margin instead of letting anxiety take over.

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In this episode, we’re getting real about family. You know—those holiday gatherings where love, laughter, and a little bit of chaos all show up at the same time. We’re diving into what it really takes to not just survive the holidays with your family, but actually enjoy them.

We’ll talk about what happens when different personalities, traditions, and expectations collide—and how to set healthy boundaries that keep the peace. More than that, we’ll dig into how to prepare your heart before you even walk through the door, so you can show up with patience, understanding, and maybe even a little extra grace.

Because family time doesn’t have to be stressful—it can be a chance to grow, connect, and even laugh through the messy moments.

Key Takeaways:

• How to navigate family dynamics with a mix of empathy and boundaries.
• Why setting limits isn’t selfish—it’s essential for peace and mutual respect.
• Ways to prepare your mindset and heart before family gatherings so you can stay calm and loving.
• Practical tips for turning family time into connection time—like swapping competition for collaboration.
• How to use humor to lighten the mood without crossing lines.
• And how to prioritize your own family unit while still keeping those extended family ties strong.
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In today's episode of T-Time with Ashley and Carlie Terradez, we engage in a critical discussion on the topic of offense, exploring its insidious nature and the profound implications it bears on our spiritual journey. The discussion is anchored in personal anecdotes and scriptural insights, illustrating how easily we can succumb to the trap of offense and the necessity of forgiveness in releasing ourselves from its bondage. Ashley shares candid reflections on his own experiences with offense, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the enemy's tactics in sowing discord and bitterness. Furthermore, we delve into the broader societal context, examining the repercussions of a culture that prioritizes feelings over truth, and how this has manifested in the tragic events surrounding the martyrdom of Charlie Kirk. Ultimately, we invite listeners to embrace the transformative power of forgiveness, urging a return to love and truth as the antidote to hatred and division. Join us as we navigate these weighty themes, seeking to equip you with the wisdom and courage to walk in freedom and grace.

Takeaways:

• In this episode of T-Time, we explore the profound impact of offense and how it can lead to spiritual and emotional bondage in our lives.
• Ashley and Carlie discuss the importance of confronting offense with a biblical perspective to foster personal growth and healing.
• We emphasize the necessity of forgiveness as a means of spiritual liberation, highlighting that it primarily benefits the one who forgives rather than the offender.
• The episode illustrates how societal reactions to truth can lead to violent outcomes and the importance of standing firm in one's beliefs without resorting to hatred.

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Turning Point USA
• Christ for All Nations

In this pilot episode of T-Time, we delve into the pressing issue of prophetic predictions surrounding the Rapture, particularly those associated with the claims made for September 23rd and 24th. We emphasize the paramount importance of grounding our faith in the immutable truths of Scripture rather than the fallible declarations of individuals. Through candid conversation, we address the anxiety that such predictions may instill in believers, reassuring our listeners that faith in Christ provides a steadfast foundation free from fear. Furthermore, we explore the necessity of prioritizing the Great Commission, urging our audience to actively share the Gospel rather than succumb to distractions presented by sensationalism. Join us as we reaffirm our commitment to living out our faith with assurance and purpose, confident in the promise of eternal life through Jesus Christ.

Takeaways:

• The Rapture is a significant topic that many Christians are concerned about, often leading to anxiety about their readiness for Christ's return.
• It is essential to ground our faith in the Word of God and avoid fixating on individual prophetic claims that do not align with scripture.
• As believers, we should prioritize sharing the Gospel and living out our faith rather than being consumed with the date of the Rapture or the end times.
• Understanding that salvation through Jesus covers all sins—past, present, and future—can alleviate fears regarding being left behind during the Rapture.