Why Won't My Kids Do What I Ask?: The Trap of Expectation Over Explanation

Ever asked your kids to do something only to find it half-done—or not done the way you asked? You’re not alone. In this episode, Jackie explores one of the most common (and avoidable) frustrations in family life: the trap of expectations over explanations.

Drawing lessons from leadership and real-life parenting, she shares how many “disobedience” moments are actually moments of misunderstanding—and what parents can do differently. Jackie breaks down three practical steps for setting clear, teachable expectations that empower your kids to succeed, build confidence, and bring more peace and joy to your home.

So grab your coffee, tea, juice, or beverage of choice, and join Jackie for this thoughtful conversation on the power of clear communication, patient leadership, and parenting with purpose.

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EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

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The Serious Business of Fun — Lessons from My 11-Year-Old In this special Table Talks episode, Jackie sits down with her youngest son, 11-year-old Aurelio, to explore why fun isn’t just for kids, it’s a vital part of strong family leadership. Together, they share stories, laughter, and honest reflections on how play builds connection, creativity, and joy at home. From family adventures to spontaneous board games, this candid conversation reminds us that in the business of parenting, fun isn’t optional — it’s essential.

If you enjoyed this episode don’t forget to like, follow, subscribe, or leave a review/comment to let us know what resonated most—and share it with a parent who might need the reminder that fun isn’t a distraction, it’s part of the work of family life.

EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

Learn more: TheBusinessofParenting.com | MommyDoubles.com

What’s on your mind lately — and is it helping you lead well? Ever catch yourself thinking about all the things you should be doing — and then feeling guilty for not doing them? In this episode, Jackie unpacks how what you allow yourself to think shapes how you feel, act, and ultimately lead as a parent. Using her Parent Thought Leadership Framework: Catch it. Challenge it. Change it. Choose it — a simple yet powerful tool, Jackie shows you how to you take your thoughts captive and reset your mindset when guilt, pressure, or overwhelm start to take over. Discover how managing your thoughts isn’t just self-help — it’s self-leadership — and how your mindset creates the emotional climate of your home.

If you enjoyed this episode don’t forget to like, follow, subscribe, or leave a review/comment to let us know what resonated most—and share it with a parent who might need the reminder that the uphill climb has company.

EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

Learn more: TheBusinessofParenting.com | MommyDoubles.com