Why Won't My Kids Do What I Ask?: The Trap of Expectation Over Explanation

Ever asked your kids to do something only to find it half-done—or not done the way you asked? You’re not alone. In this episode, Jackie explores one of the most common (and avoidable) frustrations in family life: the trap of expectations over explanations.

Drawing lessons from leadership and real-life parenting, she shares how many “disobedience” moments are actually moments of misunderstanding—and what parents can do differently. Jackie breaks down three practical steps for setting clear, teachable expectations that empower your kids to succeed, build confidence, and bring more peace and joy to your home.

So grab your coffee, tea, juice, or beverage of choice, and join Jackie for this thoughtful conversation on the power of clear communication, patient leadership, and parenting with purpose.

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EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

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The Serious Business of Fun — Lessons from My 11-Year-Old In this special Table Talks episode, Jackie sits down with her youngest son, 11-year-old Aurelio, to explore why fun isn’t just for kids, it’s a vital part of strong family leadership. Together, they share stories, laughter, and honest reflections on how play builds connection, creativity, and joy at home. From family adventures to spontaneous board games, this candid conversation reminds us that in the business of parenting, fun isn’t optional — it’s essential.

If you enjoyed this episode don’t forget to like, follow, subscribe, or leave a review/comment to let us know what resonated most—and share it with a parent who might need the reminder that fun isn’t a distraction, it’s part of the work of family life.

EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

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What’s on your mind lately — and is it helping you lead well? Ever catch yourself thinking about all the things you should be doing — and then feeling guilty for not doing them? In this episode, Jackie unpacks how what you allow yourself to think shapes how you feel, act, and ultimately lead as a parent. Using her Parent Thought Leadership Framework: Catch it. Challenge it. Change it. Choose it — a simple yet powerful tool, Jackie shows you how to you take your thoughts captive and reset your mindset when guilt, pressure, or overwhelm start to take over. Discover how managing your thoughts isn’t just self-help — it’s self-leadership — and how your mindset creates the emotional climate of your home.

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EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

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This week we're going to have a throwback Monday and recap my first episode that laid the foundation for The Business of Parenting Podcast. I look forward to being back with a new episode next week!

In this first episode of The Business of Parenting, Jackie Mourot, Ed.D.—leadership strategist and mom of five—asks: Are you in the business of parenting? She shares how the same principles that help great organizations thrive—like clarity, values, and systems——can transform how we lead at home. Looking for more peace and purpose at home, start here!

🎧 Loved this episode? Take the “What’s Your Parenting Leadership Style?” quiz to discover your unique strengths and explore more atTheBusinessofParenting.com for tools, tips, and resources to lead your family with purpose.

💬 If you enjoyed this episode and it helped you, don’t forget to like, follow, subscribe, or leave a review/comment to let us know what resonated most—and share it with a parent who could use a little more joy and purpose at home.

EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

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In this heartfelt episode of The Business of Parenting Podcast, Jackie shares timeless lessons from an old childhood favorite — The Three Little Pigs — and what it can teach us about leading our families through uncertain times. Using the story of the brick house as a metaphor, she explores how to build a family foundation that can weather any storm. Through personal stories about family values, traditions, and adventures, Jackie reminds us that the goal isn’t to avoid the rocky road — it’s to build on it. Because in parenting, as in life, the rocky road isn’t the obstacle… it’s the way.

If you enjoyed this episode and it helped you, don’t forget to like, follow, subscribe, or leave a review/comment to let us know what resonated most—and share it with a parent who might need the reminder that their investment is worth it!

EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

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n business, ROI — return on investment — is the measure of success. But what if we applied that same concept to parenting? In this episode of The Business of Parenting Podcast, Jackie Mourot unpacks the idea of Parenting ROI — the long-term returns that come not in dollars or quarterly reports, but in the kind of people our children become.

From the daily inputs of time, attention, and modeling values, to the outputs of resilience, kindness, and responsibility, Jackie shows how small, consistent investments compound into lifelong character. She shares personal stories, research insights, and practical reflection questions to help parents reframe frustrations as long-term deposits and measure the right metrics: not grades or trophies, but influence and legacy.

Because at the end of the day, we don’t just grow kids. We grow people.

If you enjoyed this episode and it helped you, don’t forget to like, follow, subscribe, or leave a review/comment to let us know what resonated most—and share it with a parent who might need the reminder that their investment is worth it!

EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

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Have your kids ever said, “School is such a waste—why do I need to learn this?” You’re not alone. In this episode of The Business of Parenting Podcast, Jackie Mourot reframes the role of school for parents and kids alike. She explores the difference between education and schooling, shows how parents remain their children’s most important educators, and offers practical strategies to make learning engaging at home. Using the tree metaphor, Jackie helps us see school not as wasted time but as the leaves that energize growth—temporary or lasting, each contributes to the whole. If you want to raise lifelong learners and ease your child’s (and your own) frustrations with school, this episode will encourage and equip you to reframe the way you see learning.

If you enjoyed this episode and it helped you, don’t forget to like, follow, subscribe, or leave a review/comment to let us know what resonated most—and share it with a parent who might need the reminder that our kids' schooling today is indeed helping to shape their tomorrow.

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EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

Learn more: TheBusinessofParenting.com | MommyDoubles.com

In this Table Talks conversation, Jackie sits down with her 16-year-old daughter to explore the power of influence in a teen’s life. Together, they dive into the push and pull between parents, peers, and distractions—from social media to daily choices—and share honest insights on how influence shapes both teens and parents. Listeners will walk away encouraged that, even in the midst of competing voices, a parent’s role as the primary influence is both vital and lasting.

If you enjoyed this episode don’t forget to like, follow, or leave a comment to let us know what resonated most—and share it with a fellow parent who's looking to grow their influence in their teen's life.

EPISODE CREDITS

Host: Jackie Mourot, Ed.D. Produced by: The Business of Parenting Original Music: No Roots — composed and produced by Matheo Mourot © 2025. Used with permission. All rights reserved.

Learn more: TheBusinessofParenting.com | MommyDoubles.com