Summary:

This episode features a 'Too Long, Didn't Listen' (TLDL) summary of my conversation with David Madeira, a fellow Penn graduate and former Division One lacrosse player. Key points include how true influence comes through genuine connection rather than titles or authority, drawing from David's experience as a backup goalie who learned to contribute through building relationships and knowing his role. The discussion highlights his pivotal choice between career advancement and family priorities, where he chose entrepreneurship over a lucrative corporate path to be present for his daughter after his divorce. A standout theme is supporting others' passions, as David shares his philosophy of meeting his theater-loving daughter in her world despite his sports background, creating annual Broadway traditions and emphasizing that those struggling need support more than the stars who already receive attention from everyone else.

Show Notes:

01:23 Authentic Leadership and True Influence

03:18 Balancing Family and Career

04:52 Supporting Others' Passions

Episode Links:

LinkedIn -- https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-madeira-66b9908

Summary:

In this episode of The Corvus Effect, David Madeira, a former Division One athlete from the University of Pennsylvania, shares his journey of redefining success on his own terms. From leading significant business turnarounds to prioritizing his role as a father during his daughter Caroline's theatrical journey, David demonstrates how authentic leadership means supporting others' dreams while staying true to one's values. The conversation explores his experience on Penn's lacrosse team that made the Final Four, the leadership lessons he carried into his professional life, and his conscious decision to prioritize parenthood over lucrative career opportunities. His concept of finding one's "North Star" provides a compelling framework for making life's most important decisions. David's creation of enduring father-daughter traditions and his unwavering presence at his daughter's theatrical events exemplify how successful leaders can master the balance between career aspirations and family connections.

Show Notes:

00:32 Meet David Madeira: Redefining Success

01:32 Lessons from Lacrosse: Teamwork and Leadership

03:43 Corporate Turnarounds and Leadership Insights

06:02 Influence Without Authority

09:44 Entrepreneurship and Family Priorities

11:42 Balancing Career and Family

15:36 Supporting Caroline's Dreams

17:30 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Time

19:35 Guiding Through Life's Choices

26:35 Creating Traditions and Bonding

28:28 Supporting Through Thick and Thin

30:11 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

Summary:

 This episode features a "Too Long, Didn't Listen" (TL;DL) summary of my conversation with Ben Finklea, founder of Volacci Marketing and fractional CMO for trade businesses. Ben's journey demonstrates that professional success doesn't require sacrificing family presence, showing how early decisions to design business around family needs can create both business resilience and family strength.

Key Takeaways:

Designing Business Around Family: Ben operates from the foundational principle that "my business, my job is my side gig - my family is the main thing." After witnessing corporate friends who never saw their kids due to early departures and late returns, Ben and his wife Beverly made the deliberate choice to be present parents. They created a tag team schedule allowing both to pursue professional endeavors while maintaining family presence.

Setting Boundaries for Business Success: Ben discovered that clear client boundaries enhanced rather than hindered his success. When clients demanded 24/7 availability, he politely declined, allowing incompatible clients to walk away. This focused approach actually became a selling feature, as his trade clients appreciated seeing someone living the family-focused life they wanted for themselves.

Overcoming Founder's Syndrome: A recent car accident forced Ben to confront founder's syndrome when his spine injury prevented normal business operations. Unable to perform his usual tasks, he had to delegate responsibilities to team members in new ways. His new hire Malala, originally brought on for efficiency work, successfully stepped into marketing coordination, proving that teams often exceed expectations when given the opportunity.

Ben's experience reinforces that sustainable success requires building systems and developing others, not just personal heroics. His approach shows how conscious choices can create business models that strengthen rather than strain family relationships.

Show Notes:

 01:29 Designing Business Around Family

02:41 Setting Boundaries for Business Success

03:56 Overcoming Founder's Syndrome

05:33 Conclusion

Episode Links:

Website: https://www.volacci.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benfinklea

Email: ben@volacci.com

CMOX (accelerator for Fractional CMOs): https://cmox.co

Summary:

In this episode of The Corvus Effect, Ben Finklea, a digital marketing expert and founder of Volacci Marketing, shares how he intentionally designed his business around his family rather than the other way around. Ben discusses his transition from tag-team parenting with his wife, a senior lecturer at the University of Texas, to his recent pivot as a fractional CMO for trade businesses. The conversation explores how a life-changing car accident forced Ben to overcome founder's syndrome and build a resilient team that could operate without his constant involvement. This journey demonstrates the power of necessity driving innovation and how crisis can become a catalyst for building stronger, more sustainable business practices. Throughout the discussion, Ben emphasizes that while entrepreneurs "can do anything, they can't do everything," showing how conscious choices aligned with personal values lead to success in both business and family life.

Show Notes:

 00:32 Meet Ben Finklea: Family-Centric Business Model

01:38 Balancing Family and Business

03:33 The Decision to Focus on Digital Marketing

04:46 Setting Boundaries with Clients

06:13 Integrating Family and Work Life

13:11 Transition to Fractional CMO

14:55 Challenges and Triumphs in the Trades Industry

21:26 The Accident and Its Immediate Aftermath

21:47 Facing New Realities and Challenges

22:50 Building a Resilient Marketing Team

24:40 Empowering Malala to Lead

25:55 Overcoming Founder's Syndrome

31:12 Lessons Learned and Future Hopes

36:03 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

Summary:

This episode features a 'Too Long, Didn't Listen' (TLDL) summary of my conversation with Bianca and Sal Carbone. Key points include how Bianca transformed COVID disruptions and personal health challenges into a thriving online wellness coaching business, turning unexpected setbacks into her true calling. The conversation explores Sal's upbringing in a large Italian immigrant family with 12 children, where shared meals over wood-burning ovens and working the fields together instilled values of hard work, community, and authentic connection. A highlight is their recent family reunion in Italy with 47 first cousins, demonstrating how genuine relationships transcend distance and time. Bianca's approach of treating her online community like family, with warmth, remembering details, and genuine follow-up, shows how these deep-rooted values translate into modern business success.

Show Notes:

00:32 Introduction

01:34 Transforming Challenges into Purpose

03:13 The Importance of Family Values

04:46 Authentic Relationships and Community

Episode Links:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/health-fitness-mindset-nutrition-coach

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blix_fit

Business (Blix Fitness): https://blixfit.com/stressless

Summary:

In this episode of The Corvus Effect, Bianca Carbone, a wellness coach who transformed her own health struggles into a mission to help women achieve sustainable wellness, is joined by her father Sal, whose entrepreneurial spirit helped shape her path. Together, they explore how Bianca navigated graduating during the pandemic to build Blix Fitness, a wellness coaching business focused on sustainable health practices and hormonal balance for women. The conversation delves into the rich family values that stem from Sal's upbringing in a large Italian immigrant household and their recent trip back to Italy for a family reunion that reinforced their connection to their roots. This father-daughter dialogue perfectly illustrates the podcast's theme of building lasting legacies through integrated self-leadership, as both Carbones demonstrate how familial values inform professional purpose. Throughout the discussion, both father and daughter highlight the importance of authenticity, strong family connections, and finding balance in health and business, values that have been passed down through generations.

Show Notes:

00:32 Meet Bianca Carbone and Her Father Sal

01:47 Bianca's Journey During the Pandemic

02:59 Sal's Influence and Entrepreneurial Spirit

04:15 Facing Health Challenges Head-On

04:50 Sustainable Wellness with Blix Fitness

06:20 Balancing Extremes in Fitness

07:53 The Importance of Hormonal Health

10:12 Family Values and Building Relationships

16:43 Reconnecting with Roots in Italy

20:53 Lessons from a Large Family

28:24 Balancing Work and Family

30:00 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

Summary:

This episode features a 'Too Long, Didn't Listen' (TLDL) summary of my conversation with Michael McCree. Key points include the dominance of the mental game in achieving life success, where handling pressure, criticism, and adversity are crucial lessons. Preparation builds confidence, illustrated by the importance of effective practice and its application in diverse fields like sports, academia, and the workplace. Lastly, character development through authenticity in leadership is discussed, showcasing Michael’s journey from a quiet player to an impactful coach. The episode underscores the value of staying true to oneself and the lessons of discipline over regret.

Show Notes:

01:48 The Mental Game

03:24 Preparation Builds Confidence

05:19 Character Development Through Leadership

07:11 Conclusion

Episode Links:

The Undefeated Athlete: How to be a Champion in Any Sport https://www.amazon.com/Undefeated-Athlete-How-Champion-Sport/dp/B0BL5QNTCZ

Mind of a Superior Hitter: The Art, Science and Philosophy https://www.amazon.com/Mind-Superior-Hitter-Science-Philosophy/dp/069205751X

GameChanger: The Baseball Parent's Ultimate Guide https://www.amazon.com/GameChanger-Baseball-Parents-Ultimate-Guide-ebook/dp/B00MGT6V4W

Summary:

In this episode of The Corvus Effect, Michael McCree, a former college athlete turned transformational coach and author, shares his journey from playing Division I baseball to becoming a youth baseball coach and mentor. The conversation includes Michael's memorable moments in college baseball, his transition into coaching, and the challenges and lessons he learned along the way. He emphasizes the importance of mental strength, preparation, and modeling character for young athletes. Michael also discusses his book, 'The Undefeated Athlete,' which aims to help young athletes and their parents navigate the mental and emotional aspects of sports and life. The episode offers valuable insights into cultivating resilience, discipline, and leadership both on and off the field.

Show Notes:

00:32 Meet Michael McCree: From Athlete to Coach

05:37 Transitioning from Player to Coach

07:30 Developing a Coaching Style

13:01 Life Lessons Through Sports

19:14 Parental Support and Coaching Challenges

23:38 Preparing Young Men for Life

27:30 Final Thoughts and Takeaways