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  • 250: Encounter-centered Transformation (EcT) with Hedy Schleifer
    Jul 7 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Hedy Schleifer about Encounter-centered Transformation (EcT). Hedy is a Master Relationship Builder, Motivational Speaker, and the Creator of EcT. Hear how EcT was born, how Hedy & Yumi used their relationship as a lab, the unique workshops she’s facilitated around the world, the different types of listening, and EcT-inspired exercises you can do with your clients.

    To learn more about Hedy Schleifer, visit:

    HedySchleifer.com

    You can also listen to Hedy on Episode 19 & Episode 71 of The Couples Therapist Couch

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    1 h et 2 min
  • 249: Parents of Teenagers with Marie Vakakis
    Jun 30 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Marie Vakakis about parents of teenagers. Marie is a Therapist, Mental Health and Relationship Educator, and Host of the This Complex Life podcast. Hear the pros & cons of family therapy vs. couples therapy, how to work through parenting struggles in couples therapy, how to navigate differing parenting styles with clients, the language parents should use when communicating with their teenagers, and whether it’s okay to show vulnerability as a parent.

    To learn more about Marie Vakakis & This Complex Life, visit:

    MarieVakakis.com.au

    This Complex Life podcast

    Inside Social Work podcast

    Marie Vakakis on LinkedIn

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    44 min
  • 248: Imposter Syndrome with Dr. Jill Stoddard
    Jun 23 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Jill Stoddard about Imposter Syndrome. Jill is a Speaker, Author, Podcaster, Psychologist, and Coach on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Hear what Imposter Syndrome looks like in couples, how to help your clients embrace their authentic emotions, what to do when a client feels insecure, the 5 personas under the Imposter Syndrome umbrella, and the power of relationships.

    To learn more about Dr. Jill Stoddard, her books, her podcast, and her Substack, visit:

    JillStoddard.com

    Dr. Jill Stoddard on LinkedIn

    You can also listen to Jill on Episode 247 of The Couples Therapist Couch

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    51 min
  • 247: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) with Dr. Jill Stoddard
    Jun 17 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Jill Stoddard about Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Jill is a Speaker, Author, Podcaster, Psychologist, and Coach on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. Hear what ACT is, how to help your clients be their authentic selves, how to practice being uncomfortable, how to give your clients clarity on their thoughts, and how to focus on your message & serving others.

    To learn more about Dr. Jill Stoddard, her books, her podcast, and her Substack, visit:

    JillStoddard.com

    Dr. Jill Stoddard on LinkedIn

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    54 min
  • 246: PACT Informed Couples Therapy with Michelle Garraway
    Jun 9 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Michelle Garraway about PACT Informed Couples Therapy. Michelle is the Founder & Clinical Director of The Relationship Agency, where she specializes in PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy). Hear what makes the PACT model fun & different, how the PACT process works with couples, what you can learn when couples face towards each other, some of the most common PACT exercises, and when it’s time to have your clients focus on soothing.

    To learn more about Michelle Garraway, The Relationship Agency, and The PACT Institute, visit:

    TheRelationshipAgency.com

    Instagram @Relationships.Are.Everything

    ThePACTInstitute.com

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    48 min
  • 245: The Vagina Whisperer and Floored with Dr. Sara Reardon
    Jun 2 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Sara Reardon about being The Vagina Whisperer and her new book, Floored. Dr. Sara Reardon is a Board-Certified Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist and Mom of 2. Hear why the pelvic floor can have a big impact on relationships, how to help couples navigate the topic of painful sex, the shame that occurs when you’re having issues with your pelvic floor, why it helps to talk through pelvic floor concerns as a couple, and signs you should visit a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist.

    To learn more about Dr. Sara Reardon, The Vagina Whisperer, and Floored, visit:

    TheVagWhisperer.com

    Floored

    Instagram @The.Vagina.Whisperer

    TikTok @TheVagWhisperer

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    40 min
  • 244: The Science of Revenge with James Kimmel, Jr.
    May 26 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with James Kimmel, Jr. about The Science of Revenge. James Kimmel, Jr., JD is a violence researcher, psychiatry lecturer, and author who explores the science of revenge, addiction, forgiveness, and violence. He’s the author of 3 books on revenge and forgiveness, the latest being The Science of Revenge. Hear why we naturally want to seek revenge, what goes on in our brain when we seek revenge, why revenge addiction is like drug addiction, how to move your clients away from violence, and how to help them understand how they can truly be healed.

    To learn more about James Kimmel, Jr., The Science of Revenge, and the Miracle Court App, visit:

    JamesKimmelJr.com

    The Science of Revenge

    MiracleCourt.com

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    1 h
  • 243: Commitment in Couples Therapy with Shane Birkel
    May 19 2025

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    In this solo episode, Shane explores commitment in couples therapy. Hear how to help couples on the brink of divorce, the challenges of discernment counseling, what to do when one partner is leaning out, why you should talk goals & expectations from the beginning, and how to get some level of commitment from a client.

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    23 min