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  • 278: When Weekly Couples Therapy Isn't Enough with Shane Birkel
    Feb 23 2026

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    In this solo episode, Shane talks what to do when weekly couples therapy isn't enough. Hear the pros & cons of therapy intensives, why 50-minute sessions are still the standard in couples therapy, how to get to the heart of the matter with your clients, how much to ramp up & wind down the conversation with your clients, and how to find what session length is right for your clients.

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    27 min
  • 277: When Work Stress Impacts the Relationship with Guy Winch
    Feb 16 2026

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Guy Winch about when work stress impacts the relationship. Guy is a Psychologist, Speaker, and Author who's a leading advocate for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives. Hear why it's hard to leave work at work, how work stress works, how to help your clients separate work stress from home life, how much to structure your week, and what we can learn from firefighters.

    To learn more about Guy Winch, his latest book Mind Over Grind, and his podcast Dear Therapists, visit:

    GuyWinch.com

    Mind Over Grind

    Dear Therapists

    You can also listen to Guy Winch on Episode 202 of The Couples Therapist Couch

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    46 min
  • 276: The Myth of Effortless Connection with Shane Birkel
    Feb 10 2026

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    In this solo episode, Shane talks the myth of effortless connection. Hear how to help couples who just don't feel connected anymore, how to get each person to speak through their feelings, what the healthiest relationships do best, how to slow things down with clients, and how to create a sense of safety in relationships.

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    28 min
  • 275: Internal Family Systems (IFS) & Couples with Liz Phillips
    Feb 3 2026

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Liz Phillips about Internal Family Systems (IFS) & Couples. Liz is a therapist trained in Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (SP), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and IFS. Hear what's so unique about IFS, how it avoids common vicious cycles, how to move your clients to focus on themselves first, how to create clarity for your clients, and why every therapist should do their own therapy.

    To learn more about Liz Phillips & IFS, visit:

    LizPhillipsTherapy.Ca

    IFS-Institute.com

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    49 min
  • 274: 7 Steps to Move Beyond Your Painful Past with Katherine Woodward Thomas
    Jan 27 2026

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Katherine Woodward Thomas about What's True About You: 7 Steps to Move Beyond Your Painful Past and Manifest Your Brightest Future. Katherine is a licensed therapist, recognized pioneer in transformational psychology, and The New York Times bestselling author of Calling in "The One" and Conscious Uncoupling. Hear how consciousness plays into couples therapy, what to do when your clients feel stuck, how to prevent them from losing out on love, what you can learn from imagining yourself as a child, and where healing happens.

    To learn more about Katherine Woodward Thomas, Conscious Uncoupling, and What's True About You: 7 Steps to Move Beyond Your Painful Past and Manifest Your Brightest Future, visit:

    KatherineWoodwardThomas.com

    ConsciousUncoupling.com

    PenguinRandomHouse.com

    You can also listen to Katherine Woodward Thomas on Episode 269 of The Couples Therapist Couch

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    49 min
  • 273: Working with Infidelity in Couples Therapy with Shane Birkel
    Dec 23 2025

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    In this solo episode, Shane talks working with infidelity in couples therapy. Hear why every infidelity case is different, how to initiate the work with your clients, whether it's appropriate to give a timeline, why the guilt is so crucial, and what to coach each partner to do.

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    54 min
  • 272: Common Sexual Issues in Couples Therapy with Adrien Monti
    Dec 16 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Adrien Monti about common sexual issues in couples therapy. Rebecca is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Couples Therapist, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. Hear how to become a sex therapist, how to get comfortable talking about sex with your clients, the most common issues when it comes to sex & couples therapy, when to refer your clients to a sex therapist, and whether you should schedule sex.

    To learn more about Adrien Monti, visit:

    InnerFlameCounseling.com

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    53 min
  • 271: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen
    Dec 9 2025

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    In this episode, Shane talks with Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen about Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Rebecca is a Supervisor & Trainer for EFT, and one of the leaders for teaching the EFT model. Hear why you should consider the EFT model, how to stay grounded as a couples therapist, how to stop your clients from arguing, why self-compassion can be the key to helping your clients, and where to get good EFT support.

    To learn more about Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen and her trainings, visit:

    DrRebeccaJorgensen.com

    Facebook & Instagram @EFTDoc

    Emotionally Focused Therapy Group Facebook Group

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    53 min