Have you ever allowed what someone says about you influence what you think about yourself? Do you believe you have less worth or more worth based on what other people say about you?

We cannot outsource our thoughts about ourself to someone else. It just doesn't work. The second problem with this is that when you outsource what you believe about you, you never will find peace.

Other people have different life expectations and they have different experiences that influence how they interpret their world and you in the world they're in. So outsourcing your opinion of yourself to what other people think about you can be confusing and cause us to feel insecure or doubt our own abilities.

On the other hand, when you take responsibility for the thoughts that you have, the feelings you have about yourself and about the world around you, you ultimately take responsibility by taking and managing your thoughts and managing your feelings, you get to manage the result in your life and how you feel.

Your self-esteem will not be dependent on how others react to you or what someone else thinks about you. Then you also stop fearing what other people think as much because you realize, oh, I'll be okay. Even if someone thinks something bad about me, it's okay. They are allowed to have their opinions. They may keep those opinions indefinitely, and they may change those opinions over time as they watch you grow.

When you begin creating more belief in yourself and your confidence grows, then you grow.

I've learned to let go of what other people think of me, and I can help you do that too.

I help people uncover doubts that they've developed, that prevent them from truly connecting to other people.

I have helped kids as young as 12 years old, and there are women in their seventies that I've helped peel back layers and layers of walls that they've built over the years. I can tell you no matter. How many layers you have or how much in your head that you're stuck with, you can do it.

You can become a more confident version of yourself.

You can let go of what your mom or your dad have said about you or believe about you, or what you believe they believe about you. You can finally forgive a friend for what they did or said or how they hurt you and.

If you're listening to this and you are someone who outsources your belief in yourself and your value to other people, you need to hop on a call with me. The longer you wait, the more problems that you'll have and the longer you will struggle With this.

I want to help you have less frustration and struggle with your relationships. Open yourself up to having deeper connection and not being scared of connection due to things that have happened, or people have things that people have said in your past. There is a way that you can live in this life without doing that outsourcing of your value.

Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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What do you think about successful confident people? Do you believe that success has come easy for them? Have you found yourself thinking you could never find success and confidence like they have?

First, I think we need to acknowledge that success and confidence could be defined differently from person to person. However, today people seem to agree that having a family, owning a business, making money, owning a home, and having some financial freedom can represent success. Many of us believe that those who have all these things have confidence in all areas of their lives and they don't have obstacles to overcome that are similar to our own.

What if I told you many of our thoughts are simply myths?

Today we chat about 3 myths people with crippling self doubt believe about successful confident people.

Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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It’s time to take the first step towards a fulfilling and joyful life. It doesn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful! Imagine having deeper connections, feeling less anxiety and overwhelm, gaining clarity, and fully trusting yourself. Picture yourself not just surviving but truly thriving.

I am here with you every step of the way!

Free Discovery Call

Invest in a Coaching Package and change your life forever!

Stay tuned I will be releasing a new confidence building course in the next few months!

XOXO,

Heather

Have you experienced a life changing event? An event that left you feeling overwhelmed, helpless, and less confident in your abilities to handle life?

You are not alone.

Listen in to get a few easy pointers for navigating big events like divorce, child loss, health crisis, becoming a caretaker, losing a home or job, or raising a child with a disability or disease. Each of these BIG life altering events or circumstances can leave you feeling unable to continue.

You might be asking questions like:

• Why me?
• I can't handle this.
• I am not qualified for this.
• How do I make it through today.
• I can't do this.

Life is uncertain and in different seasons we are left without a clear direction. When you don't have a clear direction and you want to crawl in bed and cry. Give yourself permission to take each day slowly and focus on getting small things done. Each time you finish even the smallest task your confidence will grow.

Be patient, listen to this episode a few times and take note. I have been there many times and I love sharing what has helped me come out more confident, self reliant, and filled with joy. By the way, you can feel joy even in the storm!

You got this!

If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis please reach out to QPR for suicide support and Vet support. 1-800-273-8255or 1-800-784-2433.

Vets4Warriors: 1 - 800-828-8255

Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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Do you desire deep, meaningful relationships? Use this list of thought-provoking questions to engage your loved ones in conversations that move beyond standard answers.

20 Questions to Ask to Increase the Quality of your Relationships 20 Questions to Ask to Increase the Quality of Your Relationships

It’s time to take the first step towards a fulfilling and joyful life. It doesn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful! Imagine having deeper connections, feeling less anxiety and overwhelm, gaining clarity, and fully trusting yourself. Picture yourself not just surviving but truly thriving.

I am here with you every step of the way!

Free Discovery Call

Invest in a Coaching Package and change your life forever!

Stay tuned I will be releasing a new confidence building course in the next few months!

XOXO,

Heather