Ever catch yourself thinking: “Why would they like me? What’s wrong with them for wanting me?”

This sneaky belief keeps so many late bloomers stuck in self-doubt, playing small, and avoiding the very love they crave.

In this episode, Lily gets personal about how this thought showed up in her own love life—even when she met her now-husband—and shares the powerful mindset shifts and tools you need to bust through this myth for good.

Inside:

✨ Why this belief is so common for late bloomers
✨ How it blocks you from trusting healthy connection
✨ The ACK tool to start rewiring your brain for worthiness
✨ Real-life reframes to help you believe, “Of course they like me!”

Listen now and start stepping into your main character energy—for love, dating, and beyond.

Work with Lily:

🔗 Learn about her signature program, Main Character Dating: datebrazen.com/waitlist

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Think dating apps are the only way to find love—but secretly hate them?

Same, friend.

In this episode of the Date Brazen Podcast, I’m sharing my complete, no-BS guide to using dating apps in a way that protects your sanity and increases your chances of finding the right relationship.

Inside, you’ll learn:
→ Why deleting and re-downloading apps keeps you stuck
→ The exact rules for stress-free swiping (hint: 20 minutes a day)
→ How to write a profile that qualifies the right people—and filters out the wrong ones
→ Why you should never, ever try to be “chill” in your dating bio

Plus, I’m revealing my personal photo rubric and conversation starters that actually spark connection.

Dating apps are flawed—but with this episode, you’ll know how to make them work for you.


Work with Lily:

🔗 Learn about her signature program, Main Character Dating: datebrazen.com/waitlist

🔗 Book: Thank You More Please

🔗 YouTube Channel

🔗 Tiktok

🔗 Instagram

Dating can feel like a rollercoaster of emotions—excitement, hope, fear, and sometimes, pure panic. In this episode, we’re tackling the fear that keeps so many incredible people stuck on the sidelines. If you’ve ever thought, What if I get rejected? What if I say the wrong thing? What if I’m not enough?—this one’s for you.

I’ll walk you through how to move through dating fear with self-compassion, community, and a whole lot of self-trust. Because here’s the truth: fear is normal, and it doesn’t have to be in the driver’s seat.

You don’t have to be fearless to find love—you just have to be willing to take messy, brave action toward what you want.

Hit play, and let’s reframe your fear into power.

Takeaways:

✨ Self-compassion isn’t just nice; it literally helps your body handle stress better.

✨ Feeling afraid to date? That’s human. You’re not alone.

✨ Messy action beats overthinking every time.

✨ The right person won’t need you to perform or say the perfect thing.

✨ If you desire more, it’s because it’s possible for you.

Let’s go get you what you want. 💫

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