This episode is your mid-year reset, late bloomer style. Whether you've been dating with no luck, stuck in swipe fatigue, or haven't dated in 15 years, this seven-step feminist dating plan is your guide to attracting the best relationship of your life.

In this replay of one of our most popular trainings, you’ll learn:

✨ How to create your Essence-Based Preferences to vet potential dates

✨ The IRL dating plan that actually works (even if you're socially anxious)

✨ What to say on dating apps and how to write a profile that’s magnetic AF

✨ And why what you want isn’t too much—it’s the key to finding the right match

Download the free Essence-Based Preferences Creation Guide: datebrazen.com/workbook

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You've got this—and I’ve got your back.

In this vulnerable and wisdom-packed episode, Lily sits down with Liz, a former Main Character Dating client, to talk about what it really takes to come back to yourself after a heartbreaking, sudden breakup—and how that healing work can lead to the most aligned love of your life.

Together, they discuss:

• Why we feel “behind” in dating (especially as queer late bloomers)

• The emotional labor we carry as single people and how to release it

• How to trust yourself again after a breakup or identity shift

• The shame-desire cycle and how to break it

• Liz’s journey coming out later in life and finding queer love with deep emotional resonance

• What self-trust really looks like after pain

Whether you’re newly single, starting to date again, or exploring your sexuality later in life—this conversation will meet you with compassion, truth, and the reminder: you’re not too late, and you don’t have to settle.

Work with Lily:

3 Steps to Attract the Right Partner as a Late Bloomer
If you’ve felt behind in dating, this free training is for you. Learn how to:

• Release embarrassment and claim what you really want

• Attract dates without overthinking or scarcity

• Build a joyful, unbothered dating strategy rooted in feminist self-trust

RSVP here- https://www.datebrazen.com/training

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Today's podcast episode is a coaching session with Michelle. She's in her 50s, divorced after a 24-year marriage, and getting back into dating after being with one person her whole adult life.

In this raw and powerful coaching session, we unpack the overwhelm of dating apps, the anxiety of being “naive,” and the pressure late bloomers feel to already know how dating is supposed to work.

Michelle shares how:

→ Dating apps make her feel panicked in 3 minutes or less

→ She’s afraid she missed the memo on how to flirt or date

→ All she really wants is a partner to laugh with at a family campsite, but dating feels like an IMPOSSIBLE way to get there.

We talk about self-compassion, letting go of judgment, and what it means to stop settling—not just for the wrong relationship, but for a miserable dating life.

📺 Or watch the video version on YouTube! (@datebrazen)

Work with Lily:

🔗 Free Live Training on June 17th: datebrazen.com/lets-go

🔗 Learn about Main Character Dating: datebrazen.com/waitlist

🔗 Book: Thank You More Please

🔗 YouTube Channel

🔗 TikTok

🔗 Instagram