Why do our best intentions so often lead to empty platitudes when we try to comfort someone in pain? We’ve all been there: on the receiving end of a well-meaning but hurtful comment, or on the giving end, fumbling for the right words and saying the exact wrong thing.

To wrestle with this universal problem, we turn to one of the oldest and most honest stories about suffering ever written: the Book of Job. Using Job’s story, and some personal experiences we'll share along the way, we explore the anatomy of bad comfort. We tackle the "everything happens for a reason" mindset, the dangers of prosperity gospel thinking, and why Job’s infamous "friends" are a perfect mirror for our own mistakes.

This isn't just a theoretical Bible study; it's a practical guide to becoming a better comforter. We explore what it truly means to offer your presence instead of your opinions and how to love people well in their darkest moments.

This is Part 1 of a deep and vulnerable conversation that we can't wait to share with you. Join us as we try to find a better way forward.

Are video games a simple escape, or can they be a legitimate training ground for real-life character development? In this episode, Nate and Tony explore how their lifelong hobby has shaped them as people.

The conversation goes beyond the usual debate, digging into how the challenges in games can be a low-stakes environment to practice real-world virtues. From the grueling perseverance required to climb a pixilated mountain in Celeste to the collaborative teamwork of a Destiny raid, the hosts share personal stories of how gaming has taught them resilience, problem-solving, and even empathy.

Of course, it's not all positive. They also discuss the importance of wisdom and moderation, tackling the real dangers of addiction, escapism, and toxic gaming communities. Ultimately, they land on a nuanced answer and an invitation for you to reflect on your own experiences.

What has a game taught you? Join the conversation and let us know.

In this episode, hosts Nate and Tony, along with guest Michael, delve into the intricate topic of biblical literalism. The discussion kicks off with a clarification of what biblical literalism entails: the belief that the Bible should be read as entirely true, taken at face value without metaphorical interpretation. They explore historical, scientific, and literary implications of this belief, including potential contradictions within the Bible itself, such as those found between Genesis 1 and 2. Questions are raised about the feasibility and risks of a strictly literal approach, considering the varied genres within the Bible—poetry, history, prophecy, and letters. The hosts emphasize the importance of context and historical setting in understanding scripture. Reflecting on their own journeys, Nate, Tony, and Michael illustrate how their views on biblical literalism have evolved, highlighting the necessity of a nuanced reading to truly grasp the depth and intended messages of the Bible. They provide resources for further study, such as the Bible Project and 'How to Read the Bible for All It's Worth.' The episode concludes with an encouragement to love God with all one's heart, soul, mind, and strength, and to approach biblical study as both a personal and communal journey.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:36 Defining Biblical Literalism

02:29 Different Perspectives on Biblical Literalism

04:56 Challenges and Nuances of Literal Interpretation

09:22 Literalism vs. Contextual Understanding

17:30 Contradictions and Complexities in the Bible

21:22 The Importance of Context in Interpretation

22:44 Misinterpretation of Scripture

23:51 Context in Biblical Interpretation

25:58 Literalism and Its Pitfalls

30:37 Nuanced Approaches to Scripture

36:04 Personal Journeys in Understanding the Bible

42:26 Encouragement for Bible Study

48:30 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In this episode, hosts Nate and Tony are joined by guest Canaan Evans to continue a conversation on Christian non-violence, specifically addressing complex ethical dilemmas. They discuss the interpretation of Jesus' teaching on turning the other cheek and resisting evil with kindness. The conversation includes real-life scenarios such as bullying, domestic disputes, and extreme historical situations like the actions of Dietrich Bonhoeffer and Corrie ten Boom during WWII. They explore the challenges of adhering to Christian principles in various forms of conflict and the role of wisdom, emotional intelligence, and the Holy Spirit in making these difficult decisions.

In this episode, hosts Nate and Tony, along with their guest Canaan Evans, explore the concept of 'killing with kindness' and discuss conflict resolution strategies from a Christian perspective. The conversation delves into the complexities of handling various types of conflicts—from familial disputes to societal tensions while maintaining a non-violent and wise approach. They reference Jesus' teachings from the Sermon on the Mount, contextualizing historical and cultural understandings of responses like 'turning the other cheek' and going the 'extra mile.' The episode also poses challenging questions about the limits of non-violent resistance and the point at which it might be necessary to defend oneself or others, hinting at a potential follow-up discussion.

In this episode, Nate, Tony and guest Michael Schlender discuss the concept of biblical heroes, questioning traditional Sunday school portrayals of various characters from the Bible. They highlight the flawed nature of many figures such as Samson, David, Solomon, and Gideon, reflecting on how their understanding of these characters has evolved. The conversation also touches on lesser-known figures like Ananias and Barnabas, who played crucial roles in the early Christian church. The session underscores the importance of discerning genuine models of faith and trust in God by comparing the lives of Joseph and Jesus, both seen as embodiments of true humanity through their unwavering trust in Yahweh.

In episode three, hosts Tony and Nate are joined by Michael Schlender to discuss what it means to be a Christian in modern times. They examine the evolution of the term 'Christian' and contrast it with its origins and historical context. The conversation delves into the changes in cultural perception, the significance of terms like 'disciple,' and the statistics highlighting the disparity between self-identifying Christians and those actively following Jesus' teachings. The episode concludes with reflections on the necessity of balancing belief, personal experience, and actionable behavior in faith, and the ongoing challenge of finding and living out a healthy expression of Christianity.

In this episode, Nate and Tony embark on a discussion about dealing with suffering and hardship. They explore the universal question of how to handle life's difficult moments without falling apart. Tony shares personal anecdotes about his tendency to isolate himself during tough times and how recognizing and addressing his reflexive negative responses has been crucial. Nate emphasizes the importance of community and personal reflection in coping with hard times. Both hosts advocate for building emotional intelligence and maintaining strong support networks. They touch on their faith as Christians and how it informs their approach to suffering. The episode concludes with a teaser for the next discussion on the topic of defining what it means to be a Christian.