Have you ever followed a leader who looked impressive on paper but left you drained, disoriented, or doubting your value? You’re not alone—and more importantly, you’re not powerless. This episode will help you spot leadership patterns that push people away—and give you five traits that magnetize teams and create real, lasting impact.

Because leadership isn’t about perfection. It’s about presence, clarity, and alignment.

💬 “People don’t follow perfection. They follow truth.”

Ready to stop circling your calling and finally get clear on what’s next? Take the Purpose Map Quiz—just 7 powerful questions to uncover what’s keeping you stuck and the next aligned step you’re meant to take.

👉 Discover your Purpose Archetype now: TamiMarieCoaching.com/quiz

• Impact is measured by the internal shift you create, not by revenue or recognition.
• Five types of leaders people run from:

1. Performative – All image, no depth
2. Controlling – Leads from fear, not vision
3. Insecure – Needs constant validation
4. Absent – Physically there, emotionally gone
5. Rigid – Resistant to change or input

1. Bring clarity in chaos
2. Lead with authenticity over image
3. Cast inclusive vision
4. Lead with confidence that grounds, not intimidates
5. Model integrity when no one is watching

➡️ The most magnetic leaders are those who create safe, purpose-aligned environments where others feel seen, empowered, and invited to rise.

Audit your leadership style this week. Ask your team—or a trusted peer—what it’s like to be led by you. Then ask yourself:

Am I leading from alignment or fear? From clarity or control?

Where in my leadership do I still feel the need to prove myself, and what would it look like to lead from alignment instead?

If this spoke to you, I’d love for you to: ✅ Share it with a friend who needs this message! ✅ Leave a quick rating & review to help more people find A Leader's Purpose podcast. ✅ Subscribe so you never miss an episode!

Thank you for being here, Friend. You are capable, you are seen, and you are ready to step into your calling. Choose joy until joy chooses you! 💛

• Find me: @tamimariecoaching on Instagram and Facebook
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• Email me: tami@tamimariecoaching.com
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• For more information on the song:
• Guitalele's Happy Place by Stefan Kartenberg (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. https://dig.ccmixter.org/files/JeffSpeed68/56194 Ft: Kara Square (mindmapthat)
• Copyright Daily Choosing Joy LLC 2025

You know that strange moment when you’ve done everything “right”—hit the goals, earned the respect, built the reputation—and yet… it feels off? Like the version of success you’ve created doesn’t quite fit who you are anymore?

That’s what we’re unpacking in this first official episode under the new podcast name, A Leader’s Purpose. And if you’ve ever felt like you were wearing armor that looked good but wasn’t built for you, this one’s for you.

Let’s talk about how to move from the pressure to perform into the power to lead with clarity and conviction.

💬 “Success without self-awareness isn’t leadership—it’s performance.”

Ready to stop circling your calling and finally get clear on what’s next? Take the Purpose Map Quiz—just 7 powerful questions to uncover what’s keeping you stuck and the next aligned step you’re meant to take.

👉 Discover your Purpose Archetype now: TamiMarieCoaching.com/quiz

• You can outgrow a version of success and still honor what it taught you.
• High performance without self-awareness creates friction and burnout.
• Misalignment shows up as exhaustion, overthinking, and disconnection.
• You don’t need more titles—you need internal clarity on who you are now. True leadership begins with understanding your identity, not just managing others.

➡️ If it looks like success but feels off, it’s not you—it’s misalignment. The armor that got you here may no longer fit the leader you’re becoming.

Take 5 minutes to identify one area of your life or leadership that feels “off.”

Ask yourself: Am I leading from alignment or just performing a role that no longer fits?

Then commit to one small step this week to reconnect with what feels like you.

Where am I still performing for a version of success I’ve already outgrown? What would it feel like to lead fully as me—not the version others expect?

If this spoke to you, I’d love for you to: ✅ Share it with a friend who needs this message! ✅ Leave a quick rating & review to help more people find A Leader's Purpose podcast. ✅ Subscribe so you never miss an episode!

Thank you for being here, Friend. You are capable, you are seen, and you are ready to step into your calling. Choose joy until joy chooses you! 💛

• Find me: @tamimariecoaching on Instagram and Facebook
• LinkedIn @tamiimlay
• Email me: tami@tamimariecoaching.com
• My website is www.tamimariecoaching.com
• Send me a DM! I would love to connect with you!
• For more information on the song:
• Guitalele's Happy Place by Stefan Kartenberg (c) copyright 2017 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. https://dig.ccmixter.org/files/JeffSpeed68/56194 Ft: Kara Square (mindmapthat)
• Copyright Daily Choosing Joy LLC 2025

This episode has been on my heart for a while—and it’s finally time. I’m sharing something big today: a shift, a stretch, and a step into who I’ve become and who I believe you are becoming too. If you’ve ever outgrown a version of yourself or felt that quiet whisper that it’s time for more... you’re not alone. This rebrand isn’t just about me—it’s about the space we’re creating together. Let's talk about what’s changing, why it matters, and how you are invited into this next season with me.

💬 “It’s not just a new name. It’s a new outfit for the voice I’ve grown into.”

Ready to stop circling your calling and finally get clear on what’s next? Take the Purpose Map Quiz—just 7 powerful questions to uncover what’s keeping you stuck and the next aligned step you’re meant to take.

👉 Discover your Purpose Archetype now: TamiMarieCoaching.com/quiz

• Growth doesn’t mean the past was wrong. Like a child outgrowing a T-ball bat or clothes that no longer fit, this rebrand reflects natural, necessary growth—yours and mine.
• The podcast is evolving from The Full Weight of Joy to A Leader’s Purpose. This new season focuses on leadership identity, legacy, and impact for purpose-driven leaders ready for more.
• You don’t have to prove your worth to lead well. It’s time to lead with clarity, not pressure—and to live a life that feels as good as it looks.
• This isn’t just a rebrand—it’s a recalibration. You’re invited into a deeper conversation about how to lead from within, integrate your whole self, and live out your purpose boldly.
• Success isn’t your whole story. The next chapter requires new tools, new questions, and new alignment—and you’re ready for it.

➡️ “This rebrand is not about leaving something behind. It’s about stepping into what fits you now.”

If you’ve outgrown a dream, role, or version of success, this episode is your permission slip to evolve.

Take inventory this week: Where are you still swinging with a “T-ball bat” when it’s time to step into the big leagues of your calling? Name one area where you’re ready for deeper alignment and bolder leadership—and what needs to shift to support that.

"What version of success have you outgrown—and what version of yourself is waiting to be seen?

If this spoke to you, I’d love for you to: ✅ Share it with a friend who needs this message! ✅ Leave a quick rating & review to help more people find The Full Weight of Joy podcast. ✅ Subscribe so you never miss an episode!

Thank you for being here, Friend. You are capable, you are seen, and you are ready to step into your calling. Choose joy until joy chooses you! 💛

• Find me: @tamimariecoaching on Instagram and Facebook
• LinkedIn @tamiimlay
• Email me: tami@tamimariecoaching.com
• My website is www.tamimariecoaching.com
• Send me a DM! I would love to connect with you!