In episode 91, we’re talking about why overperforming is not a strategy for advancement and what to do instead when you’re working harder than ever but still not being recognized.

If you’ve been the go-to person, taking on extra tasks, staying late, and doing more than your share only to feel undervalued or overlooked, this episode is for you. I’m breaking down why overperforming doesn’t guarantee promotions, the emotional toll it takes, and how to shift into strategies that actually get you seen and supported.

In this episode, I cover:

• Why overperforming often backfires when it comes to career growth

• The hidden emotional cost of working harder but still feeling undervalued

• How boundaries and visibility create real opportunities for advancement

• Practical strategies for self-advocacy, recognition, and sustainable success

Key Takeaways:

• Overperforming is not a promotion strategy

• Recognition comes from visibility, not just hard work

• Boundaries and communication are essential for sustainable success

• You don’t have to prove your worth over and over, you get to own it

Chapters:

00:46 Challenges of Overperforming in Professional Settings

04:29 Visibility and Recognition in Career Advancement

09:18 Emotional Impact of Feeling Undervalued

12:39 Mindset and Self-Perception in the Workplace

14:04 Setting Boundaries to Prevent Burnout

17:00 Self-Advocacy for Overperformers

21:02 Emotional Toll of Overperforming

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In episode 90, we’re talking about how to recognize when your job is quietly draining you and the hidden costs that come with staying in misalignment.

If you’ve been brushing off your fatigue, telling yourself it’s just “busy season,” or rationalizing that things will eventually get better, this episode is your reminder to take those signals seriously before burnout takes over. I’m sharing the subtle signs of early burnout, the deeper costs of staying too long in the wrong role, and client stories that show how confidence and clarity can be rebuilt when you choose change.

In this episode, I cover:

• The early signs your energy is being drained (and why it matters to notice them)

• How staying in the wrong role chips away at your confidence and clarity

• The hidden cost of overriding your intuition and self-trust

• Why you don’t have to “burn it all down” to create change and how small, intentional steps make the difference

Key Takeaways:

• Ignoring early signs of burnout only delays progress and recovery

• Staying in the wrong environment erodes self-confidence and motivation

• You don’t have to wait until everything falls apart to make a move

• Small steps toward alignment help you rebuild clarity and self-trust

Chapters:

00:47 Recognizing Job-Related Exhaustion Signs

04:21 Creating a Personal Support Plan

07:58 Hidden Costs of Unfulfilling Jobs

12:03 Challenges of Career Changes

17:48 Recognizing Early Signs of Discomfort

20:02 Aligning Personal Values with Workplace Culture

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In episode 89, we’re talking about what it takes to leave a job you’ve outgrown without burning it all down or making decisions from panic.

If you’ve been telling yourself “it’s fine” while feeling disconnected, checked out, or unsure of your next step, this episode will help you move from thinking about change to actually creating it. I’m sharing client stories, common fears that keep people stuck, and how to build an exit plan that feels safe, strategic, and aligned with your goals.

In this episode, I cover:

• The signs you’ve outgrown your role and why that’s not a failure
• How fear of making the “wrong” move keeps you in place
• Why you don’t need to abandon everything you’ve built to make a change
• How to create an exit plan that supports both your goals and your stability

Key Takeaways:

• Fear—not laziness—is what keeps you stuck
• You don’t have to leave everything behind to pivot
• A clear, actionable exit plan makes change feel possible and safe

Chapters:

00:00 Navigating Career Transitions

04:27 Overcoming Career Stagnation

08:23 Addressing Fears in Career Changes

11:10 Clarifying Goals During Transitions

14:25 Creating Actionable Exit Strategies

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