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  • DETACHING WITH DIGNITY

    DETACHING WITH DIGNITY
    Jul 4 2025
    Are you too easily attached to men? Are we 'manifesting' bad treatment from men by expecting it of them? Is your rejection sensitivity making you unnecessarily empathetic to men? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses why healthy detachment from men will save your life. Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 h et 5 min
  • MALE PRIVILEGE

    MALE PRIVILEGE
    Jun 26 2025
    Is there really such thing as 'terrible husband but a good father'? Should we starve men of sex to solve their entitlement issues? Will men ever become the 'good people' we fantasise about them becoming? In this episode, join Chidera as she normalises hating men back. TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses male sexual violence against women Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    45 min
  • WE NEED TO REJECT MEN MORE OFTEN

    WE NEED TO REJECT MEN MORE OFTEN
    Jun 19 2025
    Should we be less approving of men's flirty advances, even if they are being cute? Are we making the male loneliness epidemic harder on men by being less understanding of their sexual needs? And have we explored what might actually happen if we raise the bar for men to meet us? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she justifies why she believes we need to make ourselves more romantically scarce - after all, men are not entitled to our love. Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    37 min
  • BEING THE WOMAN HE CAN AFFORD

    BEING THE WOMAN HE CAN AFFORD
    Jun 12 2025
    What do you stand to lose by being the woman he can afford? Do men appreciate women more when our standards are lower? Or are we just overthinking this whole thing?! In this episode, join Chidera for a rather hilarious and spicy chat. ;) Join my ⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    41 min
  • ATTRACTIVE MEN?

    ATTRACTIVE MEN?
    Jun 6 2025
    Are attractive men worth all the hassle? Do good-looking men deserve to be humbled? Is it a safer bet to date an 'ugly' man? In this episode, join Chidera for a rather juicy chat! Join my ⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    45 min
  • MALE-CENTRED WOMEN?

    MALE-CENTRED WOMEN?
    May 29 2025
    Are desperate women sinking the ship for the rest of us? Can men tell when you're male-centred? Are low-effort dates even worth it in the name of being a 'cool and easy' girl? In this episode, join Chidera as she highlights the dangers of male-centred women...and what we can all do to redirect the focus to ourselves! Join my ⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    57 min
  • MEN WILL NEVER CHANGE

    MEN WILL NEVER CHANGE
    May 22 2025
    Are you still clinging onto the hope that one day, men will finally be who we want them to be? Is feminism doing what we need it to do? Are YOU brainwashed? The Slumflower explores it all in this episode! Join my ⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    50 min
  • ARE YOU PRIME PREY?

    ARE YOU PRIME PREY?
    May 16 2025
    Does being too empathetic make men see you as pathetic? Could there be a pattern of your behaviour that predatory men are drawn to? Are you prepared for a world where the men you're dating are leaning closer towards red pill ideologies? In this episode, join Chidera as she raises the alarm on how close the predator is in proximity to all of us! Join my ⁠patreon⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 h et 41 min