Most people never meet their real ego until it ruins something important. This episode drags it into the light.

In “Exposing the Ego,” The Social Code breaks down the insecure, validation-hungry, chaos-chasing part of you that pretends to be confidence. The part that destroys relationships, sabotages stability, and convinces you you’re in control while it’s been driving the entire time.

Inside this raw breakdown, the guys unpack:

• Why men fake confidence instead of building it

• How childhood wounds create a lifelong need for validation

• The illusion of power and why control becomes a drug

• How ego-driven men confuse attention with connection

• The moral flexibility that makes boundaries “optional”

• The fallout this personality leaves behind in friendships, dating, and leadership

• How to finally break the pattern and build a real identity

• How to protect yourself from people who operate like this

• And what it takes to heal your side of the trauma loop

This episode doesn’t tiptoe around anything.

It confronts the patterns, exposes the behaviors, and gives you language for what your intuition has been trying to tell you.

If it makes you uncomfortable, good. Discomfort is the sign the ego is being challenged.

By the end, you won’t be able to lie to yourself the same way again. And that’s the whole point.

Hit play if you’re ready to see the shadow you’ve been avoiding.

Hit play if you’re ready to grow.

Everyone has broken something that mattered. A relationship. A friendship. Someone’s trust. Even your own word to yourself.

This episode cuts straight into the moment you realize the damage… and the long, slow climb back.

Inside this raw breakdown, Johnny walks through:

• What actually breaks trust (it’s almost never one moment)

• The aftermath nobody talks about

• The turning point that flips your whole identity

• How to rebuild without begging, performing, or rushing

• What to do when some people never come back

• And who you become on the other side of real accountability

If you’ve ever looked at your life and thought, “I did this… and now I have to fix it,” this episode is your roadmap.

It’s honest. It’s uncomfortable. It’s freeing.

And it’ll show you the exact patterns to break so you can rebuild trust the right way.

Hit play if you’re ready for growth, not guilt.

Every argument, every breakup, every silent treatment, every good season and every bad one all point back to one thing: communication. Not talking. Translating. This episode uncovers the hidden code running underneath every relationship in your life.

We break down the unspoken messages in marriage, the slow drift in friendships, the inner dialogue shaping your confidence, and the conflict patterns that make everything blow up fast. You’ll learn the psychology behind tone, emotional filters, assumptions, and why people stop talking long before they ever say they’re done.

This is the episode people send to their spouse, their friends, their coworkers, and eventually themselves.

If you want stronger relationships, deeper trust, cleaner communication, better self-awareness, and fewer blowups, this is the one to save.

Share it. Send it to someone who needs it. And if something hits you in the gut… that’s the part meant for you.

What if God is waiting for your first step before He moves? This episode explores the power of obedience, the moment you stop waiting for certainty and start walking in faith. Fear pretends to protect you, but obedience is what positions you for the miracle.

We break down why hesitation delays divine timing, how belief turns into alignment through action, and why God meets you mid jump, not before. It’s not about having the full map, it’s about trusting the One who catches you when you leap.

You ever stop and wonder if the life you’re living is actually yours, or just a collection of beliefs someone else installed? In this episode, Johnny, Pete, and Stan break down the subconscious programming that runs 95% of your thoughts, habits, and emotions.

From childhood conditioning to cultural influence, we uncover how those hidden scripts shape your choices and how to rewrite them through awareness, faith, and daily action.

Challenge: For the next 24 hours, question every automatic thought and ask, “Whose belief is this?”

Wanna go down a rabbit hole? 🌀

In this episode, we explore one of life’s strangest frontiers: what’s really happening when we dream?

From the science of how the brain stitches emotions into stories, to the subconscious mind expressing what we can’t say out loud — we dive into what dreams might be revealing about consciousness, and who’s really in control when we sleep.

Then we go deeper: what if reality itself is just another layer of the dream? What if we’re the ones asleep — taking a nap in heaven or living inside God’s imagination?

No preaching. No proving. Just curiosity, awe, and a few questions that might keep you up tonight.

In this episode, we sit down with Tyler Howard — a Jiu Jitsu competitor and MMA fighter whose mindset hits harder than any punch. Tyler shares what it really takes to stay disciplined when life knocks you to the mat — how to show up when you don’t feel like it, train when nobody’s watching, and rebuild when everything falls apart. This conversation isn’t just about fighting… it’s about perseverance, grit, and the code that separates the quitters from the ones who rise again.

There’s a moment when “I’m sorry” stops being enough—when the only way forward is through action, humility, and truth. In this episode, we break down the real meaning of making amends: not guilt, not shame, but genuine repair.

You’ll learn the four types of amends, when not to make one, and how living differently becomes the loudest apology of all. This conversation goes straight into the heart of freedom, because healing others is often the only way we heal ourselves.

🎧 Press play if you’re ready to stop carrying the weight of what’s broken… and start rebuilding what still can be made right.