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  • One Year of The Unfinished Idea: Reflections, Lessons & What I Want the World to Know

    One Year of The Unfinished Idea: Reflections, Lessons & What I Want the World to Know
    Oct 16 2025
    What a year it’s been! From late-night recordings and community building to tears, laughter, and so much learning — The Unfinished Idea just turned ONE! This episode is a celebration — of growth, courage, connection, and the beautiful chaos that comes with being a neurodivergent family. Whether you’ve been here since episode one or are just joining, this is a moment to pause, reflect, and remember why this journey matters. Host Greer Jones is celebrating the first anniversary of The Unfinished Idea — a podcast that grew from a simple desire to find connection in the neurodiverse world into a thriving community of understanding and hope. In this milestone episode, Greer is joined by her husband Chris, who shares what he’s learned from being part of the journey behind the scenes. Together, they look back at the lessons, surprises, and moments that shaped the past year — and dream about what’s to come. In this episode: Greer reflects on the courage it takes to start something new and keep showing up. Chris shares what he’s learned about inclusion, patience, and thriving as a neurodivergent family. Greer reveals what she wants the world to know about neurodivergent people — and it’s something you won’t forget. Plus, you’ll hear the voices of listeners and guests sharing their own answers to that same question. TAKEWAYS “No” isn’t the worst thing that can happen — sometimes, the biggest growth comes from just asking. Neurodivergent families can and do thrive — sometimes it just takes a few tweaks, consistency, and community. The world tells us we’re a burden, but in truth, neurodivergent people make life easier — through innovation, love, and resilience. Love and connection don’t always need words; they’re often found in small gestures and moments of understanding. Every episode, every story, every shared experience reminds us: you’re not alone in this journey. Join the Unfinished Community WhatsApp. Where you can share your everyday joys, struggles, and differences! Click here to join.Sign up to our newsletter where we continue the conversation along with sharing helpful resources and techniques tried out by parents and professionals in the neurodiverse world. You can know get the episodes on YouTube! Click here to subscribe. Follow the show on all the socials @theunfinishedidea - look for the brain! Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 h et 36 min
  • Beyond the Classroom: Rethinking Education for Neurodiverse Kids with Kim

    Beyond the Classroom: Rethinking Education for Neurodiverse Kids with Kim
    Oct 9 2025
    Is mainstream school the only path—or just the default? For many neurodiverse children, traditional classrooms create more harm than growth. Kim shows us what education can look like when we step outside the box. Meet Kim, an educator and advocate who supports families choosing alternative education outside the mainstream system. As a parent herself, Kim has navigated the realities of EHCPs, home education, and creating learning environments where her neurodiverse child thrives. She offers practical wisdom, encouragement, and a fresh perspective on what education can (and should) be. TOPICS DISCUSSEDWhy school isn’t right for every childAlternative learning options in the UKThe role of EHCPs in accessing supportNeurodiverse learners and engagementLife skills as education (finance, citizenship, etc.)Redefining success outside mainstream systemsSupporting parents navigating decisionsThe power of listening and non-judgment TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODEEducation isn’t “one size fits all”—alternative paths are valid.Mental health and happiness must come before academics.Gaming, hobbies, and nontraditional activities can be true learning.Parents know their children best—trust your instincts.Support from family and friends looks like listening, not judging.Changing the environment—not the child—opens the door to thriving. Join the Unfinished Community WhatsApp. Where you can share your everyday joys, struggles, and differences! Click here to join.Sign up to our newsletter where we continue the conversation along with sharing helpful resources and techniques tried out by parents and professionals in the neurodiverse world. You can know get the episodes on YouTube! Click here to subscribe. Follow the show on all the socials @theunfinishedidea - look for the brain! Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    35 min
  • ADHD, Chaos, and Calling: Finding Peace in the Energy with Dr. Kelly Cagle

    ADHD, Chaos, and Calling: Finding Peace in the Energy with Dr. Kelly Cagle
    Oct 2 2025
    Is ADHD just chaos—or could it actually be a different kind of order? For many families, ADHD looks like never-ending energy, constant ideas, and a pace of life others can’t imagine. But what if we stopped calling it chaos and started calling it engagement? Meet Dr. Kelly Cagle, an educator, researcher, mom, and late-diagnosed ADHD adult. With a PhD in Education and lived experience in a neurodiverse household, Kelly bridges research and real life. She shares not just professional insights but practical tools, faith-filled encouragement, and hope for families who feel “too much.”TOPICS DISCUSSEDADHD in both parenting and personal lifeMasking and coping strategiesChaos vs. engagement in neurodiverse familiesMovement and brain activation for focusParenting neurodivergent children with ADHDFaith and identity in navigating ADHDListening as a tool for clarityBuilding supportive communitiesTAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODEADHD brains pay attention—just differently. Movement keeps focus alive.What looks like “chaos” is often deep engagement and imagination.Masking starts as early as age 3, shaping how girls especially present.Listening is key—at home, in friendships, and in advocacy.Families can (and should) redefine “normal” to fit their needs.ADHD is not brokenness; it’s another way of being fearfully and wonderfully made.LINKSConnect with Dr. Kelly Cagle Join the Unfinished Community WhatsApp. Where you can share your everyday joys, struggles, and differences! Click here to join.Sign up to our newsletter where we continue the conversation along with sharing helpful resources and techniques tried out by parents and professionals in the neurodiverse world. You can know get the episodes on YouTube! Click here to subscribe. Follow the show on all the socials @theunfinishedidea - look for the brain! Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    27 min
  • Unmasking Autism & ADHD: Michele Collier’s Journey of Late Diagnosis, Parenting, and Self-Trust

    Unmasking Autism & ADHD: Michele Collier’s Journey of Late Diagnosis, Parenting, and Self-Trust
    Sep 25 2025
    CHECK OUT THE UNFINISHED RESOURCES Did you know that nearly 20% of the world is neurodivergent—and that many don’t discover it until adulthood? For those of us navigating a late autism or ADHD diagnosis, the journey often feels like piecing together a puzzle we’ve been carrying all our lives. In this episode, we dive into what it really means to unmask, rebuild trust in yourself, and parent neurodivergent children with both compassion and clarity.Today’s guest, Michele Collier, is an autistic and ADHD mom raising two autistic children. Diagnosed later in life, Michele has walked the path of confusion, self-discovery, grief, and healing—and now she shares her wisdom openly to help others feel less alone.Together, we talk about:-What life looked like before Michele’s diagnosis-How parenting revealed even more about her neurodivergence-The difference between people-pleasing and masking-Practical tools for emotional regulation and self-trustTAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODEDiscover why so many autistic and ADHD women go undiagnosed until adulthood—and how that shapes identity.Learn how parenting neurodivergent children can bring clarity, validation, and even healing to your own diagnosis journey.Understand the difference between people-pleasing and masking—and why it matters for self-trust.Explore Michele’s concept of the “sphere of comfort” and how expanding it slowly can help you thrive without burnout.Be reminded that awareness and acceptance are not the same—and that true acceptance has to come from others, not just us.Follow Michele Collier on Instagram Join the Unfinished Community WhatsApp. Where you can share your everyday joys, struggles, and differences! Click here to join.Sign up to our newsletter where we continue the conversation along with sharing helpful resources and techniques tried out by parents and professionals in the neurodiverse world. You can know get the episodes on YouTube! Click here to subscribe. Follow the show on all the socials @theunfinishedidea - look for the brain! Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    41 min
  • Autism Is Not Your Fault: Responding to President Trump’s Comments

    Autism Is Not Your Fault: Responding to President Trump’s Comments
    Sep 23 2025
    In this bonus episode of The Unfinished Idea, I’m diving into recent comments made by President Trump about autism and medications during pregnancy. His remarks suggest a link between autism and what a mother takes while pregnant — but research has not shown this to be true. It’s important to talk about why statements like this are harmful: they place unnecessary blame on mothers, fuel stigma, and create fear instead of hope and support. If you’re a mama who has ever questioned yourself or carried guilt, hear this: autism is not your fault. In this episode, I unpack: Why President Trump’s comments about autism and pregnancy are misleading and harmful The truth about autism and what research actually tells us How these narratives increase guilt and shame for moms Why it’s critical to move the conversation away from blame and toward support, dignity, and acceptance A reminder that you are not alone — whether you’re raising a neurodivergent child, loving a neurodivergent spouse, or navigating life yourself as a neurodivergent person At the end of the day, autism isn’t about fault or blame. It’s about people — our kids, our friends, our spouses, our families. They are valuable, capable, and deeply loved. If you’ve ever felt isolated or weighed down by guilt, I want this episode to remind you: you are not alone, and it’s not your fault. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    10 min
  • Understanding PDA: Parenting a Child with Pathological Demand Avoidance

    Understanding PDA: Parenting a Child with Pathological Demand Avoidance
    Sep 18 2025
    CHECK OUT UNFINISHED RESOURCES & MERCH! What if even the simplest request—like “put on your shoes”—triggered a fight-or-flight response? For families raising a child with Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), this is everyday reality. Misunderstood, under-researched, and often dismissed, PDA presents unique challenges for both children and parents navigating a system that doesn’t always recognize it. Meet Jessie Townz, a mom raising a 7-year-old son with PDA. Jessie openly shares her journey of learning, adapting, and shifting her entire parenting mindset to meet her child’s needs. With lived experience and years of trial, error, and breakthroughs, Jessie brings both practical wisdom and encouragement to other parents navigating PDA.TOPICS DISCUSSEDWhat PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance) really meansWhy PDA is not included in the DSM-5Common misunderstandings about PDA behaviorParenting strategies to reduce demands and calm dysregulationThe role of language and reframing requestsFamily dynamics and sibling impactsSupporting families with PDA childrenCultural and generational challenges in understanding PDATAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODEPDA is a nervous system disability—children aren’t choosing not to comply, they often can’t.Language matters: shifting from “You must” to supportive phrasing helps reduce anxiety.Dysregulation can take 90 minutes or more for a child to recover from, making prevention key.Parents often face judgment from others who don’t understand PDA—education and communication are vital.The mindset shift of “not won’t, but can’t” is life-changing for families.Supporting siblings and extended family education helps create a calmer home environment. LINKS:Follow Jessie’s journey Join the Unfinished Community WhatsApp. Where you can share your everyday joys, struggles, and differences! Click here to join.Sign up to our newsletter where we continue the conversation along with sharing helpful resources and techniques tried out by parents and professionals in the neurodiverse world. You can know get the episodes on YouTube! Click here to subscribe. Follow the show on all the socials @theunfinishedidea - look for the brain! Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    30 min
  • Unmasking ADHD: Laurie’s Journey of Late Diagnosis, Identity, and Everyday Life

    Unmasking ADHD: Laurie’s Journey of Late Diagnosis, Identity, and Everyday Life
    Sep 11 2025
    What if everything you thought was “just your personality” turned out to be ADHD? For many late-diagnosed adults, that lightbulb moment brings both relief and grief. Laurie’s story shines a light on what it means to navigate identity, unmasking, and daily life with ADHD in a world that often misunderstands neurodivergence. Meet Laurie Faulkner, a content creator and advocate who was diagnosed with ADHD at 23 after years of feeling “different.” Her journey—from drama school to impulsively moving countries, working for Disney as a princess, and now openly sharing her ADHD story online—offers a relatable and refreshing perspective. Laurie speaks candidly about masking, overstimulation, impulsivity, and the hacks that help her thrive. She brings authenticity, humor, and honesty to the conversation, making her a powerful voice for the late-diagnosed neurodivergent community.TOPICS DISCUSSEDLate ADHD diagnosis in adulthoodMasking and unmaskingOverstimulation and sensory sensitivitiesImpulsivity and decision-making with ADHDHacks for managing focus and routinesSupporting neurodivergent friends and adultsNeurodiversity as a spectrumStrengths and struggles of ADHD brainsTAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODEADHD often goes unnoticed until adulthood, leaving many to feel “different” without knowing why.Masking can be exhausting—and unmasking is a process of rediscovering your true self.Impulsivity isn’t always a negative—sometimes it leads to incredible adventures and opportunities.Practical ADHD hacks include: doing tasks immediately, sticking to routines, and using tools like Google Calendar.Support for neurodivergent people looks like acceptance, honest communication, and accountability from those closest to them.Neurodivergence is a spectrum—every person’s experience is unique, and that diversity is a strength. Join the Unfinished Community WhatsApp. Where you can share your everyday joys, struggles, and differences! Click here to join.Sign up to our newsletter where we continue the conversation along with sharing helpful resources and techniques tried out by parents and professionals in the neurodiverse world. You can know get the episodes on YouTube! Click here to subscribe. Follow the show on all the socials @theunfinishedidea - look for the brain! Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    40 min
  • Fighting for Change: How Parents Are Transforming the SEND System with Hayley

    Fighting for Change: How Parents Are Transforming the SEND System with Hayley
    Sep 4 2025
    What happens when a system designed to support children with additional needs fails them instead? Across the UK, families are facing rejected applications, endless bureaucracy, and years of waiting for vital services. Behind the statistics are real children, real parents, and stories of resilience and determination. Today we dive into the fight for fair education and support for neurodivergent children. This week, Greer speaks with Hayley, a solicitor turned campaigner after her son was denied the support he urgently needed. What began as a personal battle soon grew into a national campaign, as Hayley discovered just how many families were being failed by the system.In this conversation, Hayley shares:Her personal journey navigating the EHCP process for her autistic sonHow local authorities are rejecting thousands of children in needThe creation of the grassroots group Let Us Learn TooPractical ways parents can advocate, both in the UK and beyondWhy changing the culture of SEND support is just as vital as changing the law. TOPICS DISCUSSEDSpecial Educational Needs & Disabilities (SEND)EHCPs and IEPs (UK & US perspectives)Parent advocacy and grassroots campaignsNeurodiversity in educationBarriers families face in the school systemGovernment policy and SEND reformSupporting children with autism and ADHDGlobal perspectives on best practices in education TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODEMany families in the UK are experiencing EHCP rejections, with some local authorities rejecting over 60% of applications.Hayley’s legal background didn’t shield her from the gaslighting, intimidation, and bureaucracy parents face—highlighting just how overwhelming the system is for most families.Campaigns like Let Us Learn Too and the Fight for Ordinary movement are giving parents and children a louder voice in Parliament and beyond.The most important shift needed? Moving from a “cost-saving” mindset back to a child-centered culture in education.Parents everywhere—whether in the UK, US, or elsewhere—can start small: break down their child’s needs, connect with others, and advocate persistently.Globally, there are models we can learn from—such as Ontario, Canada—showing that better systems are possible when we share best practices. Follow Hayley’s work with Let Us Learn Too Join the September 15th rally in London → [insert link] Join the Unfinished Community WhatsApp. Where you can share your everyday joys, struggles, and differences! Click here to join.Sign up to our newsletter where we continue the conversation along with sharing helpful resources and techniques tried out by parents and professionals in the neurodiverse world. You can know get the episodes on YouTube! Click here to subscribe. Follow the show on all the socials @theunfinishedidea - look for the brain! Instagram Facebook LinkedIn TikTok Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    28 min