In this vulnerable solo episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes tackles every parent's most haunting question: "Have you ever said anything to your kids that you regret?" Drawing from Proverbs 31:2 which asks "What my son, what shall I advise you?" Eileen shares five transformative principles that have guided her through raising eight children ranging from age 7 to 22. From navigating difficult conversations about their father's abandonment to handling everyday disputes between siblings, Eileen demonstrates how seeking God's guidance in the moment can prevent the regret that comes from reactive parenting. She addresses the challenge of age-appropriate conversations, the importance of not freaking out when your children make mistakes, and how to create a safe environment where kids feel comfortable being honest about their struggles. Drawing from her experience during her divorce and cult-like situation, Eileen shows how staying anchored in Christ enabled her children to maintain their faith despite devastating circumstances. This episode provides practical tools for Christian parents who want to parent like God parents - with patience, wisdom, and unconditional love that speaks to behaviors rather than attacking character. Eileen also discusses the role of the Holy Spirit as counselor in parenting decisions and shares real-life examples of age-appropriate conversations with her college-aged children about drinking and other challenging topics.

In this practical solo episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes breaks down four specific ways every mother and wife can positively influence their family daily through spirit, soul, body, and home environment. Starting with her 4:30 AM morning routine that sets a spiritual tone for her entire household, Eileen shares how worship music, prayer, and seeking God first creates an atmosphere that her children absorb even while sleeping. She addresses the challenge of avoiding the "crank-o-rama" attitude that comes when mothers skip their spiritual connection, explaining how the first words spoken each morning determine the family's entire day. Eileen gets vulnerable about breaking generational cycles of chaos and disorganization, sharing her journey from making cultural excuses to creating a peaceful home environment for her eight children. She discusses the importance of apologizing to your children when you lose your temper, the value of strength training for aging mothers, and practical tips for maintaining an organized home without perfectionism. Throughout the episode, Eileen emphasizes that mothers have the power to influence their families for good or bad, encouraging listeners to choose intentional actions that create environments of peace, health, and spiritual growth. This episode provides actionable steps for busy mothers who want to maximize their positive influence without adding overwhelming pressure to their daily routines.

Discover practical ways to transform your family's atmosphere through small, intentional changes that reflect your identity as a Proverbs 31 woman.

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In this solo episode of The Unsidelined Life, Eileen Noyes begins her deep dive into Proverbs 31 by reading the entire passage and focusing on verse one, which reveals the influence of King Lemuel's mother on his wisdom and leadership. Eileen shares her personal journey from underestimating her role as a mother to understanding the tremendous impact she has on her children's future. She breaks down five essential principles every mother needs to understand about their influence, addressing common struggles like the pendulum swing from one extreme to another in parenting styles. Drawing from her own experiences of hitting rock bottom and wanting to give up, Eileen explains how God showed her the honor and privilege of motherhood during her darkest moments. She discusses the importance of setting healthy tones in the home, staying connected to God as the source, and allowing Him to heal wounds that affect how we parent. Eileen also addresses mothers who feel it's too late to change their influence, offering hope that healing and restoration are always possible. This episode launches her verse-by-verse study of Proverbs 31, showing how each principle applies to modern Christian mothers who want to raise children who will one day credit their mother's influence on their success and character.

Discover why your role as a mother is more significant than you realize and learn practical steps to become the influencing force God created you to be.

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