Expectations can feel like bricks in a backpack — the ones you pile on yourself, the ones other people stack on you, and even the ones you quietly hand out to others. Eventually, it all gets heavy.

In this episode of Unwritten Chapters, Matthew opens up about how volunteering at the annual Haunting of Falkland — and the fatigue that followed — forced him to take a hard look at the expectations he carries. He also reflects on how a friend out east, meaning to or not, added more weight to his shoulders, creating strain where there should’ve been ease.

This is a conversation about burnout, relationships, and the invisible pressures that keep us running on empty. But it’s also about permission. Permission to be kinder to yourself. Permission to set a boundary. Permission to rest.

Matthew leaves listeners with just one expectation this week: carve out 10 minutes of your day for you — and only you. Because sometimes the bravest thing you can do is stop carrying what was never yours in the first place.

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The Lie About Always Staying Positive

Ever been told to “just stay positive” — like it’s some kind of magic cure? Yeah, me too. In this episode, I answer a follower’s question about how I “always” keep a positive mindset. The truth? I don’t.

I talk about the pressure we put on ourselves to be perfect, why toxic positivity sets us up for failure, and how real resilience comes from admitting we have rough days. Positivity isn’t about ignoring the bad — it’s about recognizing it, owning it, and still being grateful for the things that go right.

If you’ve ever struggled with the expectation to keep smiling no matter what — especially as a veteran, first responder, or just someone trying to hold it together — this conversation is for you.

🎧 Hit play to hear why imperfection isn’t weakness, it’s human.

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In this episode of Unwritten Chapters, Matthew sits down to process the shocking murder of Charlie Kirk and what it means in today’s divided world. More than just a headline, this moment sparked reflection — on grief, anger, politics, and the importance of speaking truth without a filter.

Matthew opens up about why this tragedy pulled him back to the mic, and why Unwritten Chapters is returning to its roots: honest, unscripted conversations about life, trauma, and finding meaning in the chaos. From his time as a Canadian Forces veteran and frontline paramedic, to years spent battling PTSD and addiction, Matthew shares raw insight into how we carry pain, confront darkness, and try to keep moving forward.

If you’re a first responder, veteran, or anyone walking the road of mental health recovery, this episode is for you.

👉 Subscribe for future episodes as Matthew recommits to telling his story — two times a month — with no polish, no script, and no BS. Just the unwritten chapters.

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