Épisodes

  • What I Wish I Knew at 8
    Jul 7 2025

    In Episode 11 of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew travels back in time to share the advice they’d give their 8–to 12-year-old selves. Reflecting on the importance of consistency, discipline, and guidance, they dive into how the lessons—both tough and tender—shaped who they are today. They unpack childhood challenges, the logic behind “who can’t hear must feel,” and the delicate balance of teaching humility and gratefulness to the next generation.The dads also examine the “gift and curse” of giving their children the lives they wished they had, while reminding themselves—and us—of the power of appreciation, especially for grandparents and those who show up without obligation. From resisting the pressure to follow the crowd to understanding the speed of time, this episode is packed with wisdom, self-reflection, and encouragement to slow down, be present, and find joy in the journey.Timestamps:00:00 Welcome00:28 Intro01:05 Consistency = Success03:00 Guidance to your 8–12-year-old self04:00 Thinking back on the hard guidance05:19 How guidance shaped you07:30 Who can’t hear ago feel08:39 The lesson of logic11:11 Teaching humility & gratefulness12:58 Gift & curse of giving the life you wanted15:40 Takeaway is to be appreciative16:42 Appreciation of grandparents19:28 They don’t have to do it21:00 Be present, be you! Don’t follow26:26 Are you a planner? Routine?29:12 Why does time feel faster as you age?31:00 Graceful way to get things done34:13 Find joy – final message35:00 Drive slow (outro)#blackfatherhood #AdviceToMyYoungerSelf #parentingpodcast #girldad #boydad #DadsUnscripted #WhatsThePurposePodcast #fatherhood

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    37 min
  • What have your kids taught you?
    Jun 2 2025

    In this heartfelt episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew reflects on one powerful question: What have your kids taught you? From the early days of parenting to real-time lessons in patience, passion, and accountability—this episode explores how children shape us just as much as we shape them.They touch on everything from confronting big emotions to the softness that fatherhood brings, the mirror effect of kids reflecting our actions, and how to stay firm yet loving in today’s world. The conversation dives deep into raising resilient kids, handling danger with calm, and preparing ourselves to prepare them. Plus, there’s talk of street smarts, modern distractions, and learning to lead by example.This one’s packed with wisdom, vulnerability, and real dad talk.🎧 Tap in—you might learn something from your kids, too.

    #WhatsThePurposePod #DadsUnscripted #FatherhoodLessons #RealDadTalk #ParentingPodcast #GrowthThroughFatherhood #JamaicanFathers #blackfathersmatter

    Announcement 0:00

    Jr Gong 0:17

    Intro 0:43

    What have your kids taught you 1:59

    Patience 2:45

    Following passion 4:59

    Accountability 7:18

    Consistent 10:54

    Navigating new age preoccupation 14:00

    Confronting big emotions 16:36

    The softness 18:50

    Strong and firm 19:06

    Mirroring effect 20:40

    The reaction to danger 25:08

    Prepare myself to prepare them 30:11

    Resilient 31:45

    Street-side Knowledge 33:23

    Recap 36:20

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    38 min
  • Growing Older...Maturing
    May 5 2025

    In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew takes a thoughtful dive into the journey of growing older and maturing. They explore how priorities shift over time—both physically and mentally—as you start to truly learn your body, redefine your roles, and recognize the power of slowing down. The conversation unpacks the balance between being selfish, self-focused, or simply putting self first, and digs into the difference between just aging and actually maturing. It's a grounded and reflective conversation that every man navigating growth can relate to

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    46 min
  • Upbringing: Part 1
    Apr 2 2025

    In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew takes a deep dive into their upbringing, reflecting on what it was like growing up in Jamaica versus Canada. They explore the cultural similarities that connect them as Jamaicans, from the way they were raised to the mentality they’ve carried into adulthood. From houses to rain, they unpack the nuances of home life, the contrast between the entrepreneur vs. hustler mindset, and even attempt to keep tally of the beatings they got as kids. It’s a nostalgic, eye-opening, and hilarious conversation about heritage, discipline, and the lessons that shaped them.

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    40 min
  • Flow: The episode about nothing
    Feb 3 2025

    In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," what starts as a seemingly random conversation quickly finds its rhythm, weaving through topics that unexpectedly connect. The crew dives into the essentials of cleaning and hygiene, debates the practicality of black socks, and weighs in on the ever-polarizing Crocs. From shoes to personal style, the discussion flows effortlessly, proving that even the most casual chats can reveal deeper insights.

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    1 h
  • Check In
    Jan 14 2025

    In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew reconnects after a delayed recording and a whirlwind of life events. The show begins with a charming interruption from a couple of little visitors before diving into the challenges and hilarity of taking kids to the grocery store. They share laughs over sparkling water and explore the athlete mindset required to consistently maintain fitness routines while embracing the reality of the dad bod. It’s a candid and relatable check-in filled with humor, heart, and authentic conversations.


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    42 min
  • Wash The Meat
    Dec 1 2024

    In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew dives into the question: Is it important to live on your own before moving in with a partner? Sharing personal stories of independence, they reflect on how living solo shaped their self-sufficiency—including a standout story about the importance of washing the meat, which inspired the episode's title. The conversation shifts to lighter topics like matching outfits with a partner and what it means to have a fashionable range. The episode wraps up with reflections on the growth and self-discovery that come from living on your own.

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    55 min
  • Time Crisis
    Nov 2 2024

    In this episode of "What's the Purpose: Dads Unscripted," the crew tackles a major question: How do you avoid losing yourself in all the roles you play in life? They discuss what it means to stay true to yourself amidst work, family, and personal responsibilities, and explore the ways they each decompress. From the debate between social vs. solo downtime to the simple joys of napping and watching documentaries, the conversation delves into what keeps us grounded. The episode begins with a backstory on how the podcast came to life and wraps up with a fun survival challenge: Could you make it in the wilderness?

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    38 min