Épisodes

  • Episode 39- Why Do We Lower Ourselves In Order To Build Other People Up_

    Episode 39- Why Do We Lower Ourselves In Order To Build Other People Up_
    Sep 5 2025
    In this episode, I will be discussing why so we lower ourselves in order to build other people. How we think by doing all these things, and taking care of family, friends, romantic relationships, and people who you work for? How our parents always always support your siblings instead of you? How they make you feel less than, not worthy of their love and support? How they will pay for what your siblings wants, but neglect what your want and need? How no matter what you do is never good enough for them? How they only come to you when they need money, or support? How you feel obligated to take care of our family due to them raising you to lower yourself to build up your siblings? That family helps family, but that is never done in returned? How you feel by doing all of these things, that your parents will love, and look at you differently? How no matter what you do for them, the child that they favored will always be their favorite, and will never respect, love, or appreciate you, or what you do? This episode is going to hit home for a lot of people. I'm doing this on TikTok as a panel. I hope this episode helps people to know that it is okay for people to accept, and not chosen you. I was having technical difficulties, so the rest of the conversation wasn’t able to be recorded. So there will be a part two to this episode.

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    1 h et 42 min
  • Episode 38 - How To Handle The Rug Being Pulled From Under You?

    Episode 38 - How To Handle The Rug Being Pulled From Under You?
    Aug 27 2025
    In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing how to handle the rug being pulled from up under you when it comes to negative people doing things or situations that may happen that you don’t see coming. How I lost my regular job as a AR specialist on Thursday. And how I am coping with me losing my regular job? And what I’m doing now to make sure that I have a back up plan when I get another job just in case I lose another job? And how I am building my business due to me losing my job? So I hope this episode inspires any those of you that have lost your job due to layoffs, downsizing, or your company is closing down that is gonna be OK despite this happening to you. And that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. And you have to follow the path that God or the higher power is putting your own in order to get through it. Sometimes you may have to end up sitting still and still working on getting yourself together once you get through the dark times that you’re dealing with until God finds and walk you to the light at the end of the tunnel.

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    40 min
  • Episode 37 - What Defines A Ugly, Unattractive Or Imperfect Woman?

    Episode 37 - What Defines A Ugly, Unattractive Or Imperfect Woman?
    Aug 15 2025
    This episode, we’re gonna be talking about what determines what is a ugly, unattractive, or imperfect woman. A lot of people say that a woman is ugly based on having a disability, eczema, being unattractive based on physical looks, being overweight, curvy, or obese, being a nerd, being awkward, and introvert, and many more different definitions that don’t fit society standards. A series where we talk about God‘s version of what a unattractive woman is and what she represents. And what I have discovered based upon research is going to shock a lot of people. Because the people that y’all have been calling ugly are actually women of God based on standards internally that make them more beautiful than a woman that is physically aesthetically pleasing. This episode is going to hits home to a lot of people. And it’s going to completely changed the definition of what beauty actually is when it comes to God‘s standard of beauty versus man standards of beauty. So I can’t wait to do this series with you based on an article that I’m reading. So I hope that I give all of you self-esteem and self-worth to the point that you respect yourself because you’re not society standard of beauty, but you are God standards of beauty internally

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    35 min
  • Episode 36 - What Is The Humpy Dumpty Syndrome?

    Episode 36 - What Is The Humpy Dumpty Syndrome?
    Aug 9 2025
    In this episode, we’re gonna be discussing what is the Humpty Dumpty syndrome. A lot of people don’t understand this significance of the story of Humpty Dumpty as far as the nursery rhyme is concerned. There are many different meanings when it comes to the story that apply to the past versus the present. When it comes to either moving forward or remaining backwards. That wall represents the balance between moving forward and staying backwards. A lot of people don’t understand a lot of people are at a standstill because they don’t know whether they can move forward to something new, or remain backwards when it comes to what is comfortable. A lot of people don’t wanna leave their environment because it’s the only thing that they know versus moving to a new environment, where things will be better for them. And how Humpty Dumpty when it comes to falling off the wall and shattering, represents all the times that you have been in situations and you ended up the person that ended up shattering and not being able to put yourself back together again because of what you went through. So this episode is all about talking about the many different subliminals when it comes to healing recovery when it comes to the story of Humpty Dumpty, as far as a nursery rhyme is concern.

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    35 min
  • Episode 35- How to Love Yourself Through Minding Your Own Business?

    Episode 35- How to Love Yourself Through Minding Your Own Business?
    Jul 19 2025
    In this episode, I talk about how me minding my own business led to my healing and recovery. By God, taking me away from the world when the world was tearing me to shreds in all aspects of my life, led me to my healing recovery. And now I’m in the last stage of recovery when it comes to my internal and external health when it comes to what I consume and acknowledge. How are things that I consume and acknowledge now are all about making my health and wellness in my life better and and what I have learned when it comes to healing and recovery based on the higher powers version of it versus man’s version of it. This is my personal testimony about how my healing your recovery came from me being poor from the world and being alone, which is me and the higher power. And now when I get back out in the world, I won’t be the same person that left it. And how I can maneuver through the world without being manipulated, or going through the things that I did before, I was pulled from the world by God. And I hope my testimony resonates with all of you.

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    35 min
  • Episode 34 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When Comes To No Longer Taking Responsibility For Other People’s Problems.

    Episode 34 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love When Comes To No Longer Taking Responsibility For Other People’s Problems.
    Jul 10 2025
    In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the fact that a lot of people are people pleasers, seat fillers, captain save a hoe, and build a bears, and builder dolls when it comes to your family, friends, romancing, relationships, your siblings, and your job. It’s a lot of people that every time they get successful they end up taking care of their family. This episode is also about breaking down what each one of these things mean when it comes to people who are people pleasers. People that sit up here and will do anything to make other people happy, while making themselves miserable at the same time. Lowering yourself for people that’s not gonna do anything but leave you for a person that didn’t help them with nothing. The fact that you have family members as far as your parents that treated you differently than your siblings. That wants you to take care of your siblings like you’re the parent. I go over some of these African folk tales about people that had a lot of issues with their parents when it comes to taking care of them and their siblings. These stories are probably gonna blow your mind. So I hope this episode, makes a lot of of you rethink about taking care of your family when you become successful.

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    1 h et 2 min
  • Episode 33 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love You Putting Youself First No Matter What

    Episode 33 - With Self Respect Comes Self Love You Putting Youself First No Matter What
    Jul 2 2025
    In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why you should never lower yourself, allow people to disrespect you, or put yourself last just to make everybody else happy. It’s time for you to be able to put yourself first, and still be able to help people without dimming your light, disrespecting yourself, and allowing people to treat and do you any type of way. It’s time to stop allowing people to dim your lights. People keeping you from being successful. Being ashamed for doing the right thing even if a lot of people call you square, or goody two shoes. it’s OK to do the right thing. It’s OK not to be accepted by society when it comes and not being a part of society standards. And it’s OK to just be you. It’s OK to do things that other people may find embarrassing, or strange, because it ain’t meant for them to understand. Your happiness, and love self should be within you, and not based on everybody else. So I hope this podcast episode gives you just as much inspiration as it gave me when I was going through my recovery and healing process that I’m currently still on.

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    30 min
  • Episode 32 - Why Do You Base Yourself On What Other People Think, Feel And Say About You?

    Episode 32 - Why Do You Base Yourself On What Other People Think, Feel And Say About You?
    Jun 24 2025
    In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why it’s important for you to mind your own business and focus on yourself versus focusing on everybody else. Why you need to stop worrying about what everybody has to say, and think about you based self-esteem, self-worth, self values, self-respect, self-confidence, and you believe in yourself based upon you and how you feel about yourself? Why you are lowering yourself to build other people that will never do the same for you? And why the same people that you’re lowering yourself and trying to build up, and is gonna end up leaving you for someone else who didn’t build them at all? Why people have to stop being a seat fillers, captain save a hose, build a bears and dolls, seat, filler, and people pleasers? Why just because you get rejected, and people don’t want you, doesn’t mean that it’s actually a bad thing? How maybe it’s a good thing that you rejected, and these people don’t want you, because it ain’t meant for you to be there in the first place? The one thing about recovering and healing it’s about accepting things for what they are, and not what you think and feel that they should be.

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    30 min