Trauma Styles

Understanding your emotional and relational dynamics can be daunting, especially when trauma overshadows your journey to happiness. But what if you had a roadmap that could guide you toward healing and connection? Attachment Styles offers you this roadmap, delivering transformative insights based on cutting-edge attachment theory without the usual jargon.

Have you ever had intrusive, repetitive thoughts about a traumatizing event from the past? Do you feel like you could never live a normal life again? Do you no longer clearly remember what “before” looked and felt like? No matter if you are at work, with your family, or just out for a walk, without warning it just hits you and you can’t get rid of the awful images that have been controlling your daily life. But it’s not just your mind that is suffering. There is a direct correlation between your trauma and physical health conditions.

The First Flower After the Fire is a companion for the quiet journey through the aftermath of a shattering event. It is a collection of poetry that speaks to the moments that feel unspeakable—the initial shock, the haunting echoes, the slow mending of the scars, and the gentle return of the light. This book is not a guide with easy answers. It is a quiet room, a validation of your pain, and a testament to the profound strength found in resilience.

Butterfly, Fly! is a book of free verse poetry that shares personal perspectives about the impact that divisive social constructs and racial trauma can have on life outcomes. It also touches on mental illness, spirituality, and the pursuit towards trusting a power higher than self, as a means to overcoming.

Seventy percent of adults in the U.S. have experienced some type of traumatic event at least once in their lives. That's 223.4 million people. Twenty percent of these people will develop Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), a severe reaction to traumatic events. One in 13 people will develop PTSD at some point in their life. No matter what caused your trauma or how bad it is, there is a cure to recover from darkness and rediscover happiness again.

This is a collection of poems inspired by love, loss of love, and other tragic and traumatic events that began in late July of 2000—so some poems are about love and others about the loss of that love. This is my autobiography in poetry form.