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Men: Are you in a sexless marriage? 

Divorced and don’t want to go through that nightmare again?

You're not alone.

There are a lot of men out there not happy with their sex lives.

What is going on? Is the tried-and-true stereotype of the undersexed husband and the cold, bossy wife inevitable? Are monogamous relationships doomed to such a pitiful state? Is that just the way marriage is?

I don't think so.

To cut a long story short, several years ago, I was married for 15 years, discovered infidelity, quickly divorced, and found myself newly single and sharing custody of three little kids. I, then, started a website: dadstartingover.com. After chatting with many men in my situation, I slowly started to notice patterns of behavior. Most men experienced long “dead bedroom” periods in their relationship, prior to their divorce. Many of these men later discovered infidelity.

Simply put, nobody seems to know what to do to keep the fire going in their long-term relationship. Most of us experience a “honeymoon phase” of intimacy and then, watch it quickly fade as the stress of life and the boredom of familiarity settle in.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

My audience are fixers, and they have tried everything under the sun to light a fire in their wife again. Some have already lost their marriage battle and don’t want to go down that awful road again. What they all tell me: The Dead Bedroom Fix is the best, no bullshit, no fluff guide to getting your self, and consequently, your sex life back on track. 

It works.

©2017 D.S.O (P)2019 D.S.O

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Thought it was going to be bullshit

I am a 29yo female and for some reason this book popped up on my Instagram feed. I kinda laughed at it and went to read the reviews expecting a load of shit. All the reviews were along the lines of "it's like you've been watching my marriage"
I was like who is this guy? Does he have any sort of certification/license in psychology or did he go to school to be talking about this stuff?
I downloaded it out of curiosity, thinking it was probably just a dumb thing desperate men bought into (sorry guys)
I was wrong. He pretty much outlined my last relationship, I always thought I was the problem because I wasn't attracted to him, I even went to get my hormones tested.
The real problem was he was needy, definitely pit me on a pedestal, acted like I could do nothing wrong (ever), everything was my choice. I assumed that meant he was the perfect guy, and I was the fucked up one. DSO outlines that men need to take responsibility for their own lives, and STOP trying putting their wives on a pedestal. They're just human, and they want to be treated that way. Do the things this dude says and I believe it'll definitely help your relationship.

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What an Eye opener

I saw this group on FB and I decided to join. I’ve read this book and it hits every nail on the head. I didn’t realize all the mistakes I’ve made in my relationship. My changes have started. To Be Continued...

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Honest and to the point

Great listen! Keeps it real; no bullshit. You’re a man, you need to hear this.

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Just buy this book

Don't hesitate, it's a short listen but every chapter is gold. It's nice to have a laid out plan on how to fix your relationship problems. It's alot more than just sex, this could save my marriage.

I wish my counselor had given me advice like this. I will recommend he reads this one

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Every man needs to read this !

I didn't realize the mistakes I was making. I swear this guy wrote this book about me. I've already changed a few things and already I see improvement.

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Yes, yes, yes

Great read, sound advice for someone who doesn't mind doing the work. I'm in and taking all the advice

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good read

just read this book if you're having any problems with sex it's covered alot of material.

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Exellent!

I noticed a reduction of desire and passion from my girlfriend, after 2 weeks of applying some little tweek from this book, I noticed that she was wondering what was going on with me and suddenly wanted me to take her like in our beginning. Note I already had step 1 and 2 under control before reading this book. I'm an athletic attractive guy and I'm also hard working dad. what did I change? I stopped winning and being needy. I stopped doing thing for the reward of her giving me what I needed. By doing that I noticed that she responded very well to my new behavior. I feel I'm a better man and a better partner thank to this book.

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All married men need to read this!

Holy crap this book is amazing! To be clear, it is NOT a how-to trick/convince your wife into sex book. It IS a self-improvement book for married men. It is a much-needed kick in the butt to make you realize why your wife is not sexually attracted to you anymore. And if you are reading this review right now, trust me, she is not. This book WILL describe you and your relationship to a T. And then teach you what YOU (not your wife) is doing wrong. You've probably had talks with your wife, trying to find out why she's never in the mood, and even asked her straight out what you need to do to turn her on, but she honestly doesn't even know herself, and then sums it up to something wrong with her hormones. Sound familiar? Well this book does know what she needs. It knows your wife better than she does. The steps are simple, the execution takes some time and effort. but you WILL see results.

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  • 2021-04-25

I’m getting my boyfriend to listen to this book

Very insightful as a female because sometime I don’t even know why I’m not in the mood. And I love the encouragement to just be the best person you can be. Great listen!

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  • Ben
  • 2020-04-24

Interesting

Ok, so if you are a Christian with strong Biblical morals, this book needs to be listened to with a very strong filter. The author goes so far to say, it is ok to be attracted to other girls. We as men, are fallen and do notice other girls. The Bible calls that adultery. The author also states that a female that knows her man is watching porn may want to watch with him as a turn on. Again, adultery. This is sin. Do not listen to everything he has to say. But, with that in mind, it does talk about how the secular world views things and may explain how your wife feels. Take this all into consideration, and in the end pray and consult with God.

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  • Michael Payne
  • 2020-05-26

Every man needs this information

Very good information for men, regardless of relationship status. I listened in the car to and from work and couldn't wait to get back in the car to hear more. Well written with great narration that delivers the "you've been a dumbass" tone when necessary and the encouraging/affirming tone when you need that. In the end you realize you dont need affirmation from other people and that viewpoint intrinsically makes you happier and more attractive. No I do not work for this author or publisher. I am 48 yrs old and my wife is 46. We met in high school in 1989. I became comfortable and she became restless. I am writing this review because this book describes our relationship and heartache so accurately and if I had read this earlier it could have saved us both years of complacency and the resulting pain that we are working through now. Thankfully it looks like we are going to make it, and I am sure this strategy will help. Thanks for writing this book.

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  • chickchick
  • 2020-09-17

Reading this as a wife.....

I learned so much about my attitude and how it is affecting my marriage. I might have my reasons for my resentments and anger, but I know that I could have a much happier life if I understood my husband more, and changed my own toxic patterns; this book really helped.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 2020-10-18

Brilliant book!!!!

This book is a nail on the head self help and often times hilarious programme for men who struggle in the bedroom. This often not easily spoken about and often mind boggling topic of trying to understand my wife phenomenon is disclosed in a simple and very funny way. My only disappointment was that it was so short. Thanks DSO

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  • 2020-10-05

My bedroom was NOT dead...

My bedroom was NOT dead, BUT, every guy wants to be the best life partner, lover, and friend to their wives. My opinion, if you read this book and keep an open mind, you CAN improve who you are, married or single. If you apply these concepts to yourself, your life AND sex life, will improve. Mine did immediately, even before I finished the book.
Jim, 68, retired and finally happy in marriage #3.

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  • ScottFam
  • 2020-10-24

Armed with information!

Thanks for getting right to the point instead of forcing us to listen to a 45 min video only to find out you have to "pay to play". You gave me straight to the point advice. The truth will set you free but first it will piss you off!

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  • Aida
  • 2020-10-03

Not sugar coated truth

I liked the book no matter if I'm a woman. Finished in one night. We are ok otherwise, but in bedroom not so much. I miss us how we were in the beginning - lowers not just parents. Wish the man had listened to this and done something about it not just complained about it ...

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  • Travis Chase
  • 2020-08-12

big gut check, but very excited to get to work

I hated when I had to put it down. At first it made me feel horrible. Like is that what my wife really thinks about me?? It was crazy how close it hit home. Although I trust that my wife isn't the type of cold hearted woman he was describing, I'd heard alot of the phrases and examples he used from my wife. So I feel like my situation is a combination of the same issues but without the fear of cheating. Just really need a rekindling, making more time for each other. Be the confident strong husband she needs. It was a great book and I was sad when it was done. I actually think I'm going to read it again.

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  • Scott Hostetler
  • 2020-05-21

Wow..

So many harsh truths..
I am trying to engrain this stuff into my mind right now. While at first it was so brutally honest, I found myself becoming enraged, I eventually got to the point where I told myself, wow.. I really need to be about this and really take this with a grain of salt.. life really is kill or be killed and this book really does a great job of outlining the dos and don'ts and carefully and throughly explain all the nuances.

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  • George
  • 2020-05-18

Great practical advice

This book just says it how it is without all the altruistic bullshit so typical in other publications.

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