
The State of Affairs
Rethinking Infidelity
Échec de l'ajout au panier.
Échec de l'ajout à la liste d'envies.
Échec de la suppression de la liste d’envies.
Échec du suivi du balado
Ne plus suivre le balado a échoué
0,99 $/mois pendant vos 3 premiers mois
Acheter pour 31,46 $
-
Narrateur(s):
-
Esther Perel
-
Auteur(s):
-
Esther Perel
À propos de cet audio
Iconic couples' therapist and best-selling author of Mating in Captivity Esther Perel returns with a groundbreaking and provocative look at infidelity, arguing for a more nuanced and less judgmental conversation about our transgressions.
An affair: It can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. Adultery has existed since marriage was invented, and so, too, the prohibition against it - in fact it has a tenacity that marriage can only envy.
So what are we to make of this time-honored taboo, universally forbidden yet universally practiced? For the past 10 years, master therapist Esther Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of couples who have been shattered by infidelity. In The State of Affairs she asks, why do we cheat? And why do happy people cheat? Why does infidelity hurt so much? And when we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Is an affair always the end of a marriage?
Affairs, she writes, have a lot to teach us about relationships. They provide unusual insight into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Betrayal hurts, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, Perel argues, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart.
Fiercely intelligent, The State of Affairs provides a daring framework for understanding the intricacies of love and desire. As Perel writes, "Love is messy; infidelity more so. But it is also a window, like no other, into the crevices of the human heart."
After listening to Esther read The State of Affairs, continue on as she opens the door to her office and invites you to listen in on actual couple sessions. These are unscripted conversations of real, anonymous couples grappling with infidelity from her Audible Original podcast Where Should We Begin Begin? (courtesy of Audible Originals, LLC). As you enter this raw, intimate space with Esther, we hope you find the vocabulary for the conversations you may wish to have.
©2017 Esther Perel (P)2017 HarperCollins PublishersVous pourriez aussi aimer...
-
After the Affair, Third Edition
- Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
- Auteur(s): Janis A. Spring
- Narrateur(s): Xe Sands
- Durée: 9 h et 19 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
From a clinical psychologist who served as a clinical supervisor in the Department of Psychology at Yale University, received the CPA’s award for Distinguished Contribution to the Practice of Psychology, and has treated couples and trained therapists for over four decades, this newly updated, award-winning book provides concrete, proven strategies for those who seek to survive their partner’s infidelity and to rebuild the relationship after an affair. This new third edition of After the Affair helps guide both hurt and unfaithful partners through three stages of healing.
-
-
Must Read! Very Accurate! Exactly what both Hurt and Unfaithful partners need to read
- Écrit par Desmond Soon le 2021-11-15
Auteur(s): Janis A. Spring
-
How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair
- A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful
- Auteur(s): Linda J. MacDonald
- Narrateur(s): Tamara Marston
- Durée: 2 h et 7 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
Once an affair comes to light, many unfaithful persons "wake up" and want to save their marriages. Yet they usually make terrible mistakes in their bungled attempts to win back their partners' trust. Linda J. MacDonald, an infidelity specialist for 23 years, has identified behaviors and attitudes that determine unfaithful persons' success or failure to mend their marriages after the wrecking ball of an affair. How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair offers practical advice for those who've strayed and want a second chance.
-
-
Cheaters read this book!
- Écrit par JackAss le 2020-07-13
Auteur(s): Linda J. MacDonald
-
I Love You but I Don’t Trust You
- The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship
- Auteur(s): Mira Kirshenbaum
- Narrateur(s): Emily Durante
- Durée: 7 h et 24 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
Is my relationship worth saving? Will the trust ever come back? How can things be good between us again? Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was damaged.
-
-
learning a new language
- Écrit par Suren le 2021-11-23
Auteur(s): Mira Kirshenbaum
-
After a Good Man Cheats
- How to Rebuild Trust & Intimacy with Your Wife
- Auteur(s): Caroline Madden PhD
- Narrateur(s): Cathi Colas
- Durée: 2 h et 55 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
This audiobook is a practical action plan that will walk you through the first stages after your wife has discovered your infidelity. Learn the tools to fix your marriage. Avoid the (sometimes fatal) mistakes I've seen so many men make.
-
-
Helped Husband to Understand
- Écrit par Lisa Bruce le 2023-01-19
Auteur(s): Caroline Madden PhD
-
The Science of Trust
- Emotional Attunement for Couples
- Auteur(s): John M. Gottman Ph.D.
- Narrateur(s): J. Charles
- Durée: 16 h et 25 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
For the past 35 years, John Gottman’s research has been internationally recognized for its unprecedented ability to precisely measure interactive processes in couples and to predict the long-term success or failure of relationships. In this groundbreaking book, he presents a new approach to understanding and changing couples: a fundamental social skill called “emotional attunement,” which describes a couple’s ability to fully process and move on from negative emotional events, ultimately creating a stronger relationship.
-
-
Way over my head
- Écrit par Amazon Customer le 2020-01-19
Auteur(s): John M. Gottman Ph.D.
-
The Great Awakening
- Defeating the Globalists and Launching the Next Great Renaissance
- Auteur(s): Alex Jones, Kent Heckenlively - contributor
- Narrateur(s): Simon Sharp
- Durée: 15 h et 24 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
Working with New York Times bestselling author Kent Heckenlively, Alex Jones masterfully gives you the deeper discussion about such hot button topics as the truth behind the globalists plans for artificial intelligence (AI), the central bank digital currency, social credit scores, Big Tech tyranny, censorship, fifteen-minute cities, the unholy alliance between big business and big government, the military-intelligence-industrial complex—which is hell-bent on eternal war—and the all-out assault on free speech and the Second Amendment.
-
-
the connection with God and government corruption
- Écrit par Ryan le 2023-11-25
Auteur(s): Alex Jones, Autres
-
After the Affair, Third Edition
- Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
- Auteur(s): Janis A. Spring
- Narrateur(s): Xe Sands
- Durée: 9 h et 19 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
From a clinical psychologist who served as a clinical supervisor in the Department of Psychology at Yale University, received the CPA’s award for Distinguished Contribution to the Practice of Psychology, and has treated couples and trained therapists for over four decades, this newly updated, award-winning book provides concrete, proven strategies for those who seek to survive their partner’s infidelity and to rebuild the relationship after an affair. This new third edition of After the Affair helps guide both hurt and unfaithful partners through three stages of healing.
-
-
Must Read! Very Accurate! Exactly what both Hurt and Unfaithful partners need to read
- Écrit par Desmond Soon le 2021-11-15
Auteur(s): Janis A. Spring
-
How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair
- A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful
- Auteur(s): Linda J. MacDonald
- Narrateur(s): Tamara Marston
- Durée: 2 h et 7 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
Once an affair comes to light, many unfaithful persons "wake up" and want to save their marriages. Yet they usually make terrible mistakes in their bungled attempts to win back their partners' trust. Linda J. MacDonald, an infidelity specialist for 23 years, has identified behaviors and attitudes that determine unfaithful persons' success or failure to mend their marriages after the wrecking ball of an affair. How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair offers practical advice for those who've strayed and want a second chance.
-
-
Cheaters read this book!
- Écrit par JackAss le 2020-07-13
Auteur(s): Linda J. MacDonald
-
I Love You but I Don’t Trust You
- The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship
- Auteur(s): Mira Kirshenbaum
- Narrateur(s): Emily Durante
- Durée: 7 h et 24 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
Is my relationship worth saving? Will the trust ever come back? How can things be good between us again? Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was damaged.
-
-
learning a new language
- Écrit par Suren le 2021-11-23
Auteur(s): Mira Kirshenbaum
-
After a Good Man Cheats
- How to Rebuild Trust & Intimacy with Your Wife
- Auteur(s): Caroline Madden PhD
- Narrateur(s): Cathi Colas
- Durée: 2 h et 55 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
This audiobook is a practical action plan that will walk you through the first stages after your wife has discovered your infidelity. Learn the tools to fix your marriage. Avoid the (sometimes fatal) mistakes I've seen so many men make.
-
-
Helped Husband to Understand
- Écrit par Lisa Bruce le 2023-01-19
Auteur(s): Caroline Madden PhD
-
The Science of Trust
- Emotional Attunement for Couples
- Auteur(s): John M. Gottman Ph.D.
- Narrateur(s): J. Charles
- Durée: 16 h et 25 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
For the past 35 years, John Gottman’s research has been internationally recognized for its unprecedented ability to precisely measure interactive processes in couples and to predict the long-term success or failure of relationships. In this groundbreaking book, he presents a new approach to understanding and changing couples: a fundamental social skill called “emotional attunement,” which describes a couple’s ability to fully process and move on from negative emotional events, ultimately creating a stronger relationship.
-
-
Way over my head
- Écrit par Amazon Customer le 2020-01-19
Auteur(s): John M. Gottman Ph.D.
-
The Great Awakening
- Defeating the Globalists and Launching the Next Great Renaissance
- Auteur(s): Alex Jones, Kent Heckenlively - contributor
- Narrateur(s): Simon Sharp
- Durée: 15 h et 24 min
- Version intégrale
-
Au global
-
Performance
-
Histoire
Working with New York Times bestselling author Kent Heckenlively, Alex Jones masterfully gives you the deeper discussion about such hot button topics as the truth behind the globalists plans for artificial intelligence (AI), the central bank digital currency, social credit scores, Big Tech tyranny, censorship, fifteen-minute cities, the unholy alliance between big business and big government, the military-intelligence-industrial complex—which is hell-bent on eternal war—and the all-out assault on free speech and the Second Amendment.
-
-
the connection with God and government corruption
- Écrit par Ryan le 2023-11-25
Auteur(s): Alex Jones, Autres
Story: I am not going through an affair but I have in the past and am also very interested in people and relationships in general. The stories of real people were the most compelling to me, and she uses these examples throughout. Esther Perel describes unending possibilities for what a "marriage" truly is. She has many interesting thoughts about how the institution of marriage looks completely different through the lenses of different times and cultures. The messages focus on empowerment, reflection, and discovery. Nothing in this book will help you fix the past, but it might help you find a way to consider your past and plan for future in a way that is empowering, reflective, and honest.
Uncomfortable, compelling and insightful
Un problème est survenu. Veuillez réessayer dans quelques minutes.
Listening to this book helped me become more clear about many things.
And I was able to share openly with my husband about them.
He was very receptive and I can’t thank this book enough.
Highly recommend!
Saved my marriage
Un problème est survenu. Veuillez réessayer dans quelques minutes.
loved it
Un problème est survenu. Veuillez réessayer dans quelques minutes.
Wonderful Listen
Un problème est survenu. Veuillez réessayer dans quelques minutes.
Changed my view on affairs.
Un problème est survenu. Veuillez réessayer dans quelques minutes.
Insightful
Un problème est survenu. Veuillez réessayer dans quelques minutes.
powerful but difficult
Un problème est survenu. Veuillez réessayer dans quelques minutes.
Yes, it would seem as though she may wax poetic, but I am entirely appreciative of the soul she brings to her work. Her passion is inspirational. She disregards nothing. It seems her intention is to truly see her clients and honour their individuality.
Please read. Her work has helped me be okay with not knowing what life can bring and what love can be. I’ve felt in the past that I am so anxiously attached to my partners, it’s been an unhealthy journey. Perel’s work has helped me move beyond my boundaries and beliefs around what a relationship should be.
To those of you that might be working with her, I hope you find what you are looking for. Thank you for your stories.
From a twenty something Canadian female.
This is so much more than sex.
A Romantic’s View
Un problème est survenu. Veuillez réessayer dans quelques minutes.
Sexy and honest
Un problème est survenu. Veuillez réessayer dans quelques minutes.
I feel I am better equipped to provide understanding and support to my family and friends and dispel my long held judgmental views on monogamy, love and affairs.
In short, I have learned so much from this.
Thank you Esther
Must read for anyone in any kind of relationship
Un problème est survenu. Veuillez réessayer dans quelques minutes.