Welcome to episode 448 of "Over It and On With It." Today, our host, Christine Hassler, engages in a compelling conversation with Lynn, who seeks guidance on boosting her self-confidence. This episode dives deep into the roots of self-confidence, touching on childhood experiences, personal insecurities, and the journey towards radical self-acceptance.
Guest Insights:
- Lynn discusses her challenges with confidence, particularly in her career as a travel advisor, where she struggles to promote herself effectively.
- She shares personal anecdotes about her upbringing, including the impact of her parents' divorce and the emotional unavailability of her father, which contributed to her confidence issues.
Aha Moments:
- Lynn realizes that her lack of confidence stems significantly from not receiving adequate validation and encouragement during her childhood.
- Christine introduces the concept of "radical self-acceptance" and challenges Lynn to reflect on her internal judgments that might be hindering her confidence.
How to Get Over It:
- Radical Self-Acceptance: Embrace every part of yourself without conditions to foster genuine confidence.
- Parenting Your Inner Child: Use the parenting skills you apply to your children to nurture and encourage your inner child.
- Action Steps: Engage in small, manageable acts that build confidence through real-life practice, such as regularly posting about her business.
Consider/Ask Yourself:
- Do you struggle with confidence in specific areas of your life?
- How have your childhood experiences shaped your self-esteem?
- What does radical self-acceptance mean to you, and how can you practice it?
Sponsor:
- Today's episode is sponsored by Caraway Cookware. Experience the joy of non-toxic, beautifully designed cookware. Visit: carawayhome.com/Christine for a special listener discount.
- Promo Code: Christine
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- Join us next week for another insightful episode where we help you get over it and on with the life you love.