• Healing Dialogues on Family, Spirituality, and Queer Inclusivity with Ann Russo
    May 2 2024

    It's Therapy Thursday!

    When the path of self-discovery intersects with the embrace of one's true identity, the journey can be transformative. That's a truth our guest, Ann Russo, knows well as a psychotherapist and advocate for culturally affirming care. Together with the heartening presence of Janet Hale, we traverse the tender terrains of mental health, social justice, and personal identity. Ann sheds light on her mission to aid the queer community, people of color, and those in non-traditional relationships, reinforcing the episode's spirit of inclusivity and compassion.

    Woven into our conversation are stories that resonate with the heartache and triumph of coming out, the challenges of familial acceptance, and the dynamic nature of sexual fluidity. We reflect on how societal constructs and family expectations shape our personal truths, while emphasizing the critical role parents play in nurturing spaces for children to discover their authentic selves. The thread of enthusiastic consent and the consequences of identity imposition are unravelled, illustrating the importance of self-exploration without boundaries.

    Ending on a note of spiritual solace and the affirmation of selfhood, our dialogue takes a turn towards the healing aspects of spirituality and self-acceptance. Ann's journey through her own therapy practice highlights the accessibility of mental health support and her unwavering commitment to professional growth in the field. Our episode wraps with a hopeful outlook on the upcoming group that addresses the intersection of Christianity and queerness, extending an invitation to our listeners to contribute to this enriching conversation. Join us for an episode that is not just a discussion, but a tribute to the power of embracing one's entire being.


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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Resilience and Faith: A Sister's Tale of Overcoming Adversity and Embracing Essential Mental Healing with Amanda Parks
    Mar 29 2024


    It's Therapy Thursday!!

    Facing life's storms with unwavering courage, my sister Amanda and I, Candace Fleming, come together in a raw exchange on the trials and triumphs of Essential Mental Healing. Amanda, a beacon of resilience, unfolds her narrative from teen motherhood to the hallways of nursing, painting a picture of the grit and grace it takes to juggle family, career, and self-reliance. Our conversation meanders through the valleys and peaks of her life, revealing the unbreakable bonds of sisterhood and the steadfast faith that has been both her anchor and her compass.

    The power of positivity and an unshakeable faith take center stage as we hear from a single mother whose journey through nursing school is marred by financial woes and personal battles, yet illuminated by her belief in the divine. Her saga echoes the strength found in the simplicity of spaghetti dinners and the refuge of gospel hymns, reminding us that serenity can be found in the midst of chaos. Through laughter and tears, we explore how the alchemy of optimism transforms the lead of hardship into the gold of personal growth and achievement.

    In the concluding chapters of our heart-to-heart, we traverse a landscape of adversity that ranges from the seismic shift of a family's cross-country relocation to the subtle art of effective communication. I share the profound impacts of personal transformation on our bonds with others, underscoring the significance of reaching out for support in times of despair. Our heartfelt episode draws to a close, with an invitation to our listeners to join the conversation and a reminder of the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline — a beacon for those navigating through life's tumultuous waters.

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  • The Remarkable Journey from Disability to Health through Mental Power with Brandy Gillmore
    Mar 14 2024

    It's Therapy Thursday!

    Have you ever considered the possibility that your mind might hold the key to relieving your physical pain? Brandy Gillmore joins me, Candace Fleming, for an eye-opening discussion that will challenge what you think you know about the healing process. Brandy's remarkable journey from relying on a wheelchair , walker, and cane to achieving a complete recovery is truly miraculous. Together, we unpack the complex relationship between our emotions and our physical health, and how understanding this connection can bring about significant health improvements for those grappling with chronic pain and illness.

    We explore the established truths of the mind-body connection, understanding the impact of stress on the body. Going deeper, medical studies show that certain emotions can speed up healing. Furthermore, ample evidence demonstrates that individuals with multiple personalities can experience different illnesses when they switch between different personalities. From this we can more clearly see the transformative power of mindset, marvel at the tale of a woman whose throat tumor vanished overnight, and discuss why structured methods in emotional and physical self-healing can lead to lasting wellness.

    If you're searching for motivation or validation that a supportive community can profoundly impact your journey to health, look no further. From the importance of recognizing and changing negative patterns to the remarkable potential of the mind in sparking self-transformation, this episode is packed with insights. Brandy and I extend an invitation to you to connect with us, share your experiences, and take that first step towards harnessing the power of your mind for healing. Remember to embrace life with passion, forgive with ease, and laugh heartily—your body might just thank you for it.

    Below are links to find Brandy and her book. AVAILABLE NOW!

    Brandy Gillmore Website
    Book: Master Your Mind and Energy to Heal Your Body
    Amazon - Kindle
    Amazon - Paperback
    Barnes & Noble
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    49 mins
  • John Miles on Transforming Trauma into Triumph and Living Passionately
    Feb 29 2024

    Therapy Thursday!!

    When life throws curveballs, it's the stories of triumph and relentless pursuit of purpose that fuel our resilience. Navy veteran John Miles embodies this spirit, transforming personal tragedy into a beacon of hope through the Passion Struck movement. Join us as John shares the profound experiences that shaped his mission to inspire others and reminds us that, like snowflakes, each individual's journey through trauma is unique. His powerful message underscores the importance of finding significance and positively impacting those around us.

    Trauma can be a shadow that lingers, often surfacing when least expected. Our guest courageously opens up about the resurgence of past traumas and the steps toward managing them through prolonged exposure therapy. We tackle the intricacies of self-discrepancy theory, examining the conflict between who we are, who society expects us to be, and who we aspire to become. This episode shines a light on the transformative power of embracing change and aligning with our true selves, urging us to step out of quiet desperation into a life brimming with authenticity and fulfillment.

    The insights don't stop as we explore the mindsets and behaviors shared by influential icons like The Rock and Oprah, alongside personal anecdotes and Wendy Lawrence's inspiring journey from Navy captain to astronaut. We delve into the essence of the 'action creator' and the undeniable power of self-belief. Wrapping up, we reflect on the importance of loving deeply, forgiving freely, and laughing often as the cornerstones of a joyful life. Embark with us on this journey of self-discovery and find the fuel to ignite your inner passion.

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    53 mins
  • Embracing Parenthood's Unpredictable Twists: Homeschooling, Technology, and Healing Generational Trauma With Corene Lavhan
    Feb 1 2024

    When my dear friend Corene Johnson faced her child's severe illness, she made a valiant pivot to homeschooling—a decision that would unknowingly become her family's saving grace during the pandemic. As Corene shares her story, you'll witness the weight of parental choices under societal scrutiny and the unexpected affirmation found in another's envy. This episode takes you through the complex tapestry of motherhood, where trust in parental instincts and community support in the homeschooling realm reveal the resilience that comes from embracing life's unpredictable twists.

    Exploring the digital frontier our kids inhabit, we tackle the challenges of integrating technology into parenting. It's a delicate dance between setting boundaries and leveraging educational tools—a balance that's ever-shifting with each technological advance. But this episode goes deeper, peeling back the layers of generational trauma and the conscious effort to heal past wounds. Through candid storytelling, we examine how the pains and triumphs of previous generations shape our journey towards breaking cycles of trauma, embracing self-reflection, and cultivating grace.

    Wrapping up our heartfelt discourse, we celebrate the evolution of Mommy Hour, a testament to the ever-changing currents of parenthood. It's not just about finding balance between work and mothering; it's about the power of intentional connections, the impact of our presence, and the nourishment of our inner selves amidst adversity. Join us for an intimate exploration into understanding our children's needs, behaviors, and the profound influence of our engagement. This is where raw, unfiltered conversations meet non-judgmental support, offering a safe harbor for all voyaging through the monumental undertaking that is motherhood.

    Corene Lavhan aka Corene Johnson
    Mommy Hour Podcast
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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Breaking The Status Quo: A Heartfelt Discourse on Family, Community, and Overcoming Adversity
    Jan 19 2024

    Therapy Thursday!!

    Janet and I bare our souls as we recount the trials and victories that have shaped us, from the resilience required to pretend financial stability for our children to the relentless pursuit of education. We toast to the power of support and the indomitable spirit of perseverance, sharing tales of basketball practices where defeat turned to triumph and how the choice to attend Howard University marked a defining moment in one's life. Our conversation goes beyond personal reflection, touching on how empathy and practical solutions can transform the lives of young people grappling with literacy and behavioral challenges.

    We cast a thoughtful eye on societal shifts and the evolution of government assistance programs, inviting listeners into a discourse on the resilience of communities and the emergent need to rethink the status quo. With reflections on the historic resilience of urban centers in Detroit and the unspoken strength found within Section 8 housing, our discussion is a tribute to the communities and families that emerge stronger in the face of adversity. We close the episode with heartfelt gratitude, looking ahead to future gatherings and the importance of celebrating life's simple yet profound joys. Join Janet and me for an episode that aims to echo with the warmth of shared experiences and the wisdom of lives fully lived.

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    1 hr and 18 mins
  • Exploring Sexual Enlightenment: Harnessing Tantra for Intimacy and Personal Growth with Dr. Elsbeth and Freddy Zental
    Jan 4 2024

    It's Therapy Thursday!!

    Embark on a transformative exploration with us as we welcome Dr. Elsbeth and Freddy Zental from the Tantra Nova Institute to uncover the profound connection between intimacy, sexuality, and personal growth. Their wisdom illuminates how ancient tantric practices can be harnessed as a powerful tool for deepening relationships and enhancing self-awareness. Together, we venture into candid discussions about the importance of sexuality and pleasure in our daily lives, shedding light on long-standing taboos and encouraging open, honest conversations even within the context of family.

    Throughout our discussion, you'll be captivated by the ways in which breath and energy flow intertwine with sexual meditation to elevate our everyday experiences. Discover the art of parasympathetic belly breathing and how it can transport you to a state of elevated consciousness and creativity. We share stories that reveal the unexpected impact of sexual energy on our physical sensations and overall well-being. Moreover, we delve into the unique role theater and edutainment play in conveying the messages of sexual enlightenment, demystifying its principles in an engaging and accessible manner.

    As we draw this journey to a close, we reflect on the essence of self-love and the dynamic balance between masculine and feminine energies. Dr. Elsbeth and Freddie Zental leave us with powerful insights from their book, "Sexual Enlightenment," and extend an invitation to explore their workshops and free resources designed to guide you toward a more authentic and intimate existence. Join us as we part with a blend of gratitude and encouragement, fostering an environment where vulnerability is celebrated and life is embraced with open arms and a sensual spirit.

    Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver have assisted thousands of couples and singles create lasting intimacy and fulfillment in their life and relationships. They are featured on Showtime’s documentary series Sexual Healing and the Emmy Award-winning NBC show Starting Over, best-selling authors of Sexual Enlightenment endorsed by world-renowned Spiritual Pioneer Dr. Michael Beckwith, and the co-founders of TantraNova Institute in Chicago.

    Elsbeth and Freddy Zental are beloveds, husband & wife as well as business partners residing in Chicago.

    Sexual Enlightenment book in hard copy and audio on Amazon
    https://www.amazon.com/dp/1452585431

    The Social Sexual Power of Infinity Flow in e-book
    https://www.tantranova.com/global/humanrelationshipmastery/

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Strengthening Bonds: Love, Friendship, and Resilience in Marriage with Scott and Shate Hayes
    Dec 21 2023

    It's Therapy Thursday!!

    When you think of marriage, do you picture a best friend by your side through thick and thin? Scott and Shate from the Love Haze podcast join us to unravel the threads of love, friendship, and healing in relationships. As we wade through the seasonal stress and the pursuit of personal and professional growth, their insights shine a light on the importance of a strong relational foundation and the resilience required when life tosses challenges our way.

    Having someone to laugh with and lean on is more than a mere comfort; it's a necessity in the dance of marriage. Our conversation takes a deep dive into the evolution of family roles, the art of maintaining personal growth within the partnership, and the power that lies in approaching your spouse as your best buddy. With personal stories, the transformative journey from past relationships to present understandings, and how that shapes our shared path forward is revealed.

    This episode isn't just about the love-struck highs; we confront the sobering realities of pursuing parenthood, the boundaries needed for personal development, and the toil of unmet expectations. While we navigate these complexities, we also celebrate the Love Haze community, a beacon of support for Black men facing life's hurdles, and offer a resource for anyone grappling with darker moments. Join us as we honor the strength found in unity and companionship, and remember, adversity doesn't have to be faced alone.

    Scott and Shate Hayes
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    Podcast The Love Haze

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    54 mins