Ep 155 Description:

"Let this journey teach you to smile at discomfort and lovingly let go of all you know, especially of all you know yourself to be." —Lailana Victoria

What if birth is about more than just the physical body? We often focus on the medical details, but the journey to motherhood involves a profound, energetic, and spiritual transformation that is too often ignored, especially for women carrying unspoken wounds.

Our guest, Lailana Victoria, is a bridge between worlds. Her own journey into parenthood ignited her mission as a doula and rootworker to bring sacredness back to the birth space and give voice to these unspoken stories of metamorphosis.

Press play as Debra and Lailana discuss the manifestation process of a soul, the psychedelic nature of birth and parenting, how to transform the pain of shedding your identity into power and pleasure, the deep connection between sexuality and spirituality, and why evolution is the biggest orgasm.

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471

Episode Highlights:

03:14 Lailana’s Pregnancy Journey

06:50 Preparation and Birth Experience

12:49 The Impact of Ancestral Trauma

17:13 Shedding Identity and Embracing Transformation

20:21 The Psychedilic Nature of Pregnancy and Parenting

24:59 Evolution is the Biggest Orgasm

28:12 Never Hide from Love

Resources:

💗 Join me in Bali, Indonesia, for Eat Pray Doula. Our DONA Birth Doula Training is a unique 7-day retreat for beginning doulas, and our Advanced Skills Retreat is perfect for those looking to expand their skillset and nourish themselves amongst like-minded Birthkeepers from around the world. www.eatpraydoula.com

Ep 154 Description:

“Don't settle for second best when it comes to your birth. Create the birth you deeply desire, because these memories will stay with you far longer than any trip ever could, and this will have an impact on both you and your baby's emotional and physical health and well-being.” —Debra Pascali-Bonaro

What if preparing for birth could feel empowering and even joyful—rather than overwhelming or scary? If you’ve felt lost in a sea of advice and pressure, you deserve a fresh perspective—one that puts your comfort, choices, and confidence first.

In this episode, Debra talks about what it means to truly feel seen, heard, and ready for one of life’s biggest moments. Hit play to hear Debra’s five gentle steps to a pleasurable, loving birth, plus honest stories and practical tips to help you feel strong, prepared, and truly excited for your birth.

Grab your free companion guide, 25 Gentle Steps to a Pleasurable, Loving Birth and tune in for this inspiring episode!

Connect with Debra!

Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth

X: https://twitter.com/OrgasmicBirth

YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1

Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471

Episode Highlights:

02:50 Tip 1: Comfort Tools

04:51 Tip 2: Journaling

07:20 Tip 3: Education is Power

10:04 Tip 4: Notice How You Feel About Your Birth Place Options

11:35 Tip 5: Visualize Your Support Team

15:29 Learn More: 25 Gentle Steps to a Pleasurable, Loving Birth

Resources:

💗 Free Guide— 25 Gentle Tips for a Pleasurable, Loving Birth

💗A pleasurable, safe birth begins with quality, positive childbirth education. Join Debra’s online childbirth class, Pleasurable Birth Essentials: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/pleasurable-birth-essentials

Ep 153 Description:

“Birth is something you need to train for. I don't think it's very thoughtful to just go with the flow.” —Mina Skandari

More and more women are choosing natural birth these days. It's a powerful shift as mothers reclaim the beauty and strength within. When we empower women to trust their bodies, the transformation is truly profound.

Mina Skandari, an award-winning author, the 2021 Young Inspirational Woman of the Year, and the founder of the Skandari Foundation is a passionate advocate for women's empowerment during pregnancy and childbirth. Her personal journey inspires others to approach birth with confidence and joy.

Tune in as Debra and Mina explore the power of a positive mindset, preparation, and trusting one's body in achieving empowering birth experiences, Mina’s advice for expecting mothers, how orgasmic birth can help mothers feel connected to their natural instincts, Mina’s journey to becoming a doula, and more.

Connect with Debra!

Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth

X: https://twitter.com/OrgasmicBirth

YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1

Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471

Episode Highlights:

02:13 Mina’s First Birth

10:02 Mina’s Second Birth and Home Birth Dream

20:04 Advice for Expecting Mothers

23:11 Orgasmic Birth Defined

Resources:

💗 Enjoying the episode? Debra has a free gift for you! Visit: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/more

💗A pleasurable, safe birth begins with quality, positive childbirth education. Join Debra’s online childbirth class, Pleasurable Birth Essentials- https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/pleasurable-birth-essentials