Orgasmic Birth Story Series

Ep 162 Description:

"Try and change your mindset, because we're taught that birth is painful and hard and scary and can't be fun." —Tara Muckerheide

Vaginal Birth After Cesarean (VBAC) is more than a medical choice—it's a profound journey of bodily autonomy and healing. Every woman's birth story carries the potential to rewrite medical narratives that have historically limited her agency.

Tara Muckerheide transformed her birth experiences from medical trauma to empowered motherhood, challenging medical assumptions after two cesarean sections. Through midwifery care and a deep commitment to understanding her body, she successfully achieved two transformative vaginal births, proving that women's birthing experiences can be reclaimed and redefined.

Tune in as Debra and Tara dive deep into a raw, inspiring conversation exploring pleasure-centered birthing, midwifery support, overcoming medical trauma, the power of mindset, partner involvement, and strategies for creating a joyful, empowering birth experience.

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Episode Highlights:

02:43 Meet Tara: Embracing Labor with Joy and Confidence

09:24 Preparing for Baby Number 4

15:13 The Role of Pleasure in Labor

24:02 Advice for Future Parents

Resources:

💗 Enjoying the episode? Debra has a free gift for you! Visit: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/more

💗If you or someone you love is preparing for pregnancy or birth, join Debra’s Pleasurable Birth Essentials to prepare for a positive, safe, and healthy birth experience: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/pleasurable-birth-essentials

💗Ina May Gaskin’s Guide to Childbirth: https://a.co/d/80xJ1NH

💗Orgasmic Birth: Your Guide to a Safe, Satisfying Birth Experience: https://a.co/d/gMZnPOB

💗Fin Pleasure VIBE, a wearable finger vibrator that can be used in pregnancy, labor, birth, and postpartum for pleasure, oxytocin enhancement, pain reduction, and healing: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/fin-pleasurevibe/

Ep 161 Description:

"If we were born in a loving way into the world, that will change the future generations." —Magaly Buitrago

The moment of birth exists in a liminal space between worlds, where science and mystery intertwine. No technology can fully capture the mystery of bringing human life into existence. And in this critical moment, women become portals of creation, simultaneously vulnerable and invincible.

Magaly Buitrago, aka “La-Maga”, is a Colombian-born doula and spiritual guide. Magaly’s profound near-death experience during childbirth completely transformed her understanding of life, death, and human potential. Her extraordinary journey from a near-fatal birth to becoming an international birth empowerment specialist reveals the incredible resilience of the feminine spirit.

Tune in as Debra and Magaly dive deep into Magaly’s orgasmic birth and spiritual awakening, overcoming birth fears, the connection between sexuality and spirituality, and how positive birth narratives can potentially heal generational trauma.

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Episode Highlights:

02:37 Magaly’s Journey to Birth Work

12:18 First Birth Experience

25:09 Near-Death Experience: Spiritual and Personal Transformation

28:06 Second and Third Birth

34:18 Helping Women Overcome Birth Fears

Resources:

💗 Enjoying the episode? Debra has a free gift for you! Visit: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/more

💗 Fin Pleasure VIBE, a wearable finger vibrator that can be used in pregnancy, labor, birth, and postpartum for pleasure, oxytocin enhancement, pain reduction, and healing: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/fin-pleasurevibe/

💗Partner with us to share your offerings with our audience that cherishes authenticity, connection, and family well-being. To learn more about sponsorship opportunities, visit www.orgasmicbirth.com or email me at: debra@orgasmicbirth.com

Ep 160 Description:

"Sexuality is ours. It isn't something we bring from the outside. It isn't dependent on having a partner. We can connect to that channel of sexuality, which is pure life force at any moment." —Naoli Vinaver

Pain is not the inevitable companion of childbirth—pleasure is. Women have been systematically disconnected from the profound energetic and sexual potential of their birthing experiences. But what if we challenge everything we've been told about how babies enter the world?

Naoli Vinaver is a veteran midwife with nearly 40 years of experience revolutionizing birth practices. Her groundbreaking work explores the intersection of sexuality, healing, and childbirth, challenging cultural taboos and empowering women to reclaim their most intimate experiences.

Tune in as Debra and Naoli dive deep into the transformative power of pleasure, revealing how masturbation, tantric techniques, and sexual energy can turn childbirth from a feared ordeal into a transcendent, healing journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

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Episode Highlights:

02:12 Naoli’s Journey as a Midwife

06:53 The Role of Pleasure in Birth

11:28 A Case Study: A Lawyer’s Birth

20:03 Finding Healing and Transformation

24:45 Introduction to the FIN Pleasure VIBE

28:36 Pleasure Tools Revolutionizing Birth

Resources:

💗 Enjoying the episode? Debra has a free gift for you! Visit: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/more

💗 Fin Pleasure VIBE, a wearable finger vibrator that can be used in pregnancy, labor, birth, and postpartum for pleasure, oxytocin enhancement, pain reduction, and healing: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/fin-pleasurevibe/

💗 Join me in Bali, Indonesia for Eat Pray Doula. Our DONA Birth Doula Training is a unique 7-day retreat for beginning doulas and our Advanced Skills Retreat is perfect for those looking to expand their skillset and nourish themselves amongst like-minded Birthkeepers from around the world. www.eatpraydoula.com

Ep 159 Description:

The body knows sensations beyond suffering, and sometimes, liberation comes from the most unexpected tools.

The Fin PleasureVibe is a waterproof, medical-grade silicone finger vibrator designed specifically to support comfort and pleasure during pregnancy and childbirth. Its innovative design offers five vibration settings, allowing individuals to explore pain relief and sensory empowerment during labor.

Tune in as Debra explores how self-pleasure can reduce pain, boost oxytocin, enhance labor progress, support postpartum healing, and transform the birthing experience from a medical event to a deeply personal, empowering journey of connection and pleasure.

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Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com

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Episode Highlights:

03:57 The Power Of Pleasure In Pregnancy

05:54 Pleasure As Pain Relife In Labor

08:30 Oxytocin, Pleasure & Labor Progress

11:06 Breaking The Stigma: Pleasure In The Birth Space

18:55 Practical Tips For Using The Fin PleasureVibe In Birth & Beyond

21:17 Healing and Empowerment in Birth

Resources:

💗 Enjoying the episode? Debra has a free gift for you! Visit: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/more/

💗 Fin PleasureVIBE, a wearable finger vibrator that can be used in pregnancy, labor, birth, and postpartum for pleasure, oxytocin enhancement, pain reduction, and healing: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/fin-pleasurevibe/

Ep 158 Description:

“If something feels good and you are not harming anyone, keep doing it, because pleasure will give you health, as simple as that.” —Samara Ferrara

Imagine for a moment that your body's capacity for pleasure is your greatest strength in birth. That every fear, every past pain, could be transformed into a source of profound power and release. This isn't a fantasy; it's an ancient wisdom rooted not in fear, but in profound joy, release, and presence.

Samara Ferrara is a professional home birth midwife in Mexico who brings a blend of science, spirit, and sacred care to her work. Having witnessed birth as a child and later birthing her own three children at home, she embodies a deep trust in the body’s innate wisdom. Her courageous journey of healing from past trauma offers profound insight into how women can reclaim their sovereignty and transform the birthing process through pleasure.

Tune in as Debra and Samara dive into the heart of Samara's practice, exploring how her personal story with pleasure and spiritual connection guides her work. She also shares a moving homebirth experience that revealed birth as a rite of passage and opens up about how motherhood, loss, and life’s deepest cycles have shaped her sacred service to others.

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Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com

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Episode Highlights:

03:23 Introduced to Home Births

08:38 The Role of Doulas and Support Teams

13:31 Addressing Trauma and Finding Healing

15:58 Motherhood, Loos, and Deepening

19:51 Creating Pleasure in Birth and Parenting

25:26 Educating Children on Pleasure and Health

28:42 Explore Joy

Resources:

💗 Enjoying the episode? Debra has a free gift for you! Visit: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/more

💗 Fin Pleasure VIBE, a wearable finger vibrator that can be used in pregnancy, labor, birth, and postpartum for pleasure, oxytocin enhancement, pain reduction, and healing: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/fin-pleasurevibe/

Birth Story Inspired by Podcast

Ep 157 Description:

"In birth, I should also trust myself more than I would trust the doctors or anybody else." —Augusta Sofija Lagauske

What if birth could be powerful, calm, and even ecstatic—no matter what you’ve heard? If you’re tired of fear-based stories and want to believe in your body’s strength, this episode is for you. It’s time to rethink what’s possible in the hospital.

Augusta Sofija Lagauske, a Lithuanian jeweler, shares how a tough pregnancy and a sea of doubts led her to trust her intuition and prepare for an empowering hospital birth. Her story isn’t just about luck—it’s about mindset, support, and reclaiming your experience. Now, Augusta is on a mission to help others find confidence and pleasure in birth, no matter their circumstances.

Hit play to hear Augusta’s honest journey, from bed rest to a fast, empowering water birth, and learn how she used relaxation, the Bradley Method, and self-trust to transform her experience. You’ll get real talk on overcoming fear, building a support team, and practical tips for making birth your own.

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Episode Highlights:

02:22 Meet Augusta: From Active Athlete to Bed Rest

07:00 Overcoming Setbacks and Reclaiming Your Body

09:30 Preparing for a Positive Birth

12:30 A New Perspective: Orgasmic Birth

16:07 Mind Preparation: Meditation, Nature, and Trust

18:00 Labor to Hospital Birth: Trusting the Process

26:00 The Birth: Fast, Intense, Empowering

29:22 Advice: Facing Fear and Finding Support

Resources:

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💗A pleasurable, safe birth begins with quality, positive childbirth education. Join Debra’s online childbirth class, Pleasurable Birth Essentials: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/pleasurable-birth-essentials

Ep 156 Description:

"You birth the way you live. This is key." —Anna Lundqvist

What if the very thing you’ve been taught to fear about birth could actually be powerful—even pleasurable? If you’ve ever wondered why your desires for a calm, connected, or sacred birth feel "too much" or "too radical," you’re not alone. In a world where women are told to numb, silence, and surrender their bodies to systems, reclaiming joy in birth isn’t just brave—it’s revolutionary and rebellious.

Anna Lundqvist is a former midwife and the founder of Sacred Birth International, where she mentors birth workers and empowers women through education on physiological, sacred birth. With decades of experience witnessing both clinical and intuitive birth practices, Anna offers grounded, spiritual insight into how women can birth with sovereignty and sensuality. Her global perspective and deep reverence for the feminine make this episode a transformative deep dive into what’s possible when we invite pleasure into the birth space.

Ready to challenge the narrative and rewrite your own birth story? Hit play to hear how reclaiming pleasure, presence, and power can change everything—from the way you prepare for birth to the way you meet your baby. Expect real talk on orgasmic birth, embodied wisdom, the mind-body connection, and why choosing pleasure is the most rebellious act of all.

Connect with Debra!

Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com

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Episode Highlights:

02:12 Why Choosing Pleasure is a Rebellious Act

04:46 Who Can Experience Orgasmic Birth

08:30 Intimacy in the Birthing Room

13:00 Practitioners’ Perspective

19:19 Tools for Meeting the Intensity of Labor

21:50 Your Body is Made to Do This!

Resources:

💗 Enjoying the episode? Debra has a free gift for you! Visit: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/more/

Ep 155 Description:

"Let this journey teach you to smile at discomfort and lovingly let go of all you know, especially of all you know yourself to be." —Lailana Victoria

What if birth is about more than just the physical body? We often focus on the medical details, but the journey to motherhood involves a profound, energetic, and spiritual transformation that is too often ignored, especially for women carrying unspoken wounds.

Our guest, Lailana Victoria, is a bridge between worlds. Her own journey into parenthood ignited her mission as a doula and rootworker to bring sacredness back to the birth space and give voice to these unspoken stories of metamorphosis.

Press play as Debra and Lailana discuss the manifestation process of a soul, the psychedelic nature of birth and parenting, how to transform the pain of shedding your identity into power and pleasure, the deep connection between sexuality and spirituality, and why evolution is the biggest orgasm.

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Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471

Episode Highlights:

03:14 Lailana’s Pregnancy Journey

06:50 Preparation and Birth Experience

12:49 The Impact of Ancestral Trauma

17:13 Shedding Identity and Embracing Transformation

20:21 The Psychedilic Nature of Pregnancy and Parenting

24:59 Evolution is the Biggest Orgasm

28:12 Never Hide from Love

Resources:

💗 Join me in Bali, Indonesia, for Eat Pray Doula. Our DONA Birth Doula Training is a unique 7-day retreat for beginning doulas, and our Advanced Skills Retreat is perfect for those looking to expand their skillset and nourish themselves amongst like-minded Birthkeepers from around the world. www.eatpraydoula.com