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She Comes First

The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
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She Comes First

Written by: Ian Kerner
Narrated by: Ian Kerner
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""She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there."" —AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are ""ill-cliterate."" But in the pages of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner—sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm—oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun and informative, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.

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Was very helpful to learn and understand the female pleasure zones and how to apply the techniques. This has improved my pleasure giving immensely.

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Okay, there are a lot of books about pleasing your woman. Just know that the best way to please your woman is to know how to love her. Unless you are the player type, following this simple advice will be the most important thing you will ever learn about making her scream for more. I am not judging the player type... I just feel that they probably aren't really interested in loving women as much as sex with a woman.

I found that this book is quite like any other you will find. Full of facts and techniques all written within the realm of humour and the mastery of using tounges and fingers. The information in this book is sound. There is no BS here, all the information is useful.

As you probably know, all women are not equal and the techniques should be taken as a general guide, not a set of instructions. I feel the most valuable information here is knowing female anatomy. This is important. Most men play around touching things that really have no sense. Once you know what touch, it is now a matter of knowing your woman and what she likes. So experimentation is fun!

And remember that the key to pleasing (I feel strongly) is passion and love toward your lover. If passion and love are present, anything you do will send her to the moon... and you as well. Don't get bogged down in the details... have fun.

Just KNOW YOUR WOMAN!

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Its a really good book but it could use further definitions and explanation of certain definitions and names used.

Great book.

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A prefect book for anyone looking to improve/ enhance their love life for that special woman.

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Repeats the same story over and over. Could be a shorter book. Boring performance.

Repeats the same story over and over.

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