Growing Up as the Scapegoat to Narcissistic Parents
A Guide to Healing
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Auteur(s):
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Jay Reid
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This book is for those who suffered as the scapegoat child to a narcissistic parent. The scapegoat child is emotionally deprived, devalued and trapped by the parent. The child comes to believe they are defective and undeserving. These beliefs can plague the individual into adulthood.
Scapegoating reflects the narcissistic parent’s own emotional disturbance–not the child’s.
Healing is possible for scapegoat survivors! New healthy beliefs about oneself can be established. This book explains how to heal with the three pillars of recovery:
- Making sense of the narcissistic abuse so you know it was not your fault
- Creating distance from narcissistic abusers in your life today
- Living in defiance of the narcissist's rules
Listeners will learn to apply these pillars in their own lives and reclaim the quality of life they deserve.
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Excellent audible!
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Another life changed for sure. (-:
Bless you, your words, and your efforts.
Best read ever!!
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This is a book that will change your view and experience of yourself if you were unfortunate enough to be scapegoated by one of your parents.
It has brought so much light to my behaviours, feelings and thoughts it is hard to describe.
My most sincere thanks to Jay for publishing his insights. He has greatly and positively influenced my life & for that I am infinitely grateful.
Do yourself a favour and buy his book! You will see yourself in a totally different light and finally understand the twilight zone you experienced! Good luck and wishing you much healing ❤️
Life-changing book for scapegoated children of narcissistic parents
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Spot On!
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Clarity and relief
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