Jordan Peterson dropped something on Instagram that stopped me cold. "If you're not having to think about something big and stressful, then all you'll think about is something small and delusional." Hit me like a truck. Made me realize something about the difference between people who grow and people who stay stuck. Right now I'm thinking about building companies. Taking the company public. Speaking gigs. My kids turning eighteen soon. Real things. Big things. Stressful things. But they're actually happening. They matter. They push me forward. But when you don't have bigger challenges your brain fixates on this meaningless stuff. It treats minor inconveniences like major crises. That's the trap of comfort. When you remove real challenges from your life you don't get peace. You get obsessed with trivial problems. Here's what I learned about stress and pressure. They're not something to avoid. They're something to seek out. The only way to grow is through pressure. The only way to gain experience is through stress. Whatever you're dreaming about amplify it by two. Make it harder. Make it scarier. Put real pressure on yourself. That's how diamonds are made. Coal compressed under enormous pressure. You need that pressure to become who you're meant to be. Stop avoiding stress. Start seeking the right kind of stress. Big challenges. Real problems. Meaningful pressure that pulls you toward your potential.

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Arjun Dingra brought something special to this conversation. Two-time Taekwondo world champion. Twenty-five years in mortgage and real estate. Founder of the LFG Society. This man understands resilience at levels most people never reach. Arjun's story starts with getting bullied as a kid. His mom accidentally put him in Taekwondo instead of karate. That mistake changed everything. But here's what really got me. Arjun survived 2008. That financial collapse wiped out most people in mortgage and real estate. Six hundred thousand professionals exited the industry. Arjun stayed. Not because he was smarter than everyone else. Because he understood something deeper about resilience. Arjun felt that loneliness and vowed never to let anyone else experience it alone. That's where the LFG Society came from. Not from success. From surviving the worst and wanting to make sure others don't suffer alone. The LFG Society isn't just another mastermind. It's a community built on martial arts principles. Good students learn anytime anywhere. Arjun sees opportunity where others see problems. His advice for getting into mortgage or real estate right now. The industry purged six hundred thousand people who treated it like easy money during COVID. Now there's demand for real advisors. People who understand markets. Who can guide clients strategically. Not just process transactions. The conversation about values and boundaries hit deep. Sometimes you have to go scorched earth. Not from emotion. From principle. When your core values are threatened you don't compromise. That's wisdom from both business and martial arts. Know when to de-escalate. Know when to stand firm. Arjun embodies the principle of being in service to others. His whole career. His community. His teaching. All focused on lifting people up. That's why success follows him. You can't be lonely in business when you're genuinely serving others.

We Meet: Arjun Dhingra, LFG Society

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About Arjun:

Arjun is a 23-year mortgage advisor, 2-time TaeKwon-Do world champion, and former Team USA Co-head coach. His mission is to help industry personalities become indispensable through personal growth, market moxy, and mindset, as well as helping bridge the financial literacy crisis here in the US. He is the founder of the LFG Society, that just launched last year.

What’s shakin’? In this episode, I’m diving into a powerful message inspired by one of my favorite artists, Ed Sheeran, and his song Save Myself. There’s a line in that track that stopped me in my tracks: “Before I save someone else, I’ve got to save myself.” That hit me deep—and I think it’s something you need to hear today too. Here’s the truth: so many of us give and give until there’s nothing left, pouring from cups that are already half-empty. Whether it’s people-pleasing, distraction from our own struggles, or just pure compassion, we end up neglecting ourselves. But the only way to give in a healthy way is to build from overflow—when your cup is filled so high that it naturally spills over into others’. In this episode, I break down why loving yourself, forgiving yourself, and taking full responsibility for where you are is the key to getting where you want to be.

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Today I’m going ALL IN with Chris Van Dusen, a serial entrepreneur turned venture capitalist and senior partner at Solyco Capital. Chris shares how a career-ending baseball injury unexpectedly launched him into entrepreneurship, leading to multiple exits—including one for $75 million—and ultimately into venture capital. We dig into the highs and lows of building businesses, the reality of raising money, and the difference between lifestyle businesses and scalable ventures. Chris also breaks down how his firm flips the script on traditional venture investing, why people matter as much as products, and what investors really look for before writing a check. If you’ve ever thought about raising money, scaling big, or just want to hear the raw truth from someone who’s been in the trenches, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

We Meet: Chris Van Dusen, Senior Partner at Solyco Capital

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Chris Van Dusen is a Senior Partner at Solyco Capital as well as Chief Growth Officer and Partner in 3 exits through Acquisition. Solyco, is a vertically integrated investment firm that delivers capital solutions for late-stage startup and growth companies. They take a private equity approach to venture capital. Solyco builds its portfolio of assets brand by brand - instead of through specific categories. Once the investment is secured, a partner led team is deployed on secondment to work alongside the portfolio company’s executive team. In 2022 Van Dusen joined Solyco. He is the last partner to be brought on by the firm. He manages sourcing of capitalization and serves in CMO and CRO roles for the brands in the portfolio. Chris Van Dusen is a successful marketing and growth professional with extensive early stage and capitalization experience. Prior to joining Solyco, he launched marketing agency Parcon LLC. He was a partner in an Orange County liquor distillery, Surf City Still Works, where he led the successful merger with Kimo Sabe. He is formally the Chief Growth Officer (CGO) of Balanced Health Botanicals (BHB) in Denver, CO which he successfully exited in 2021. Chris received his Bachelor's degree in Economics from the College of William and Mary. He is active in the community and has held a variety of board seats at institutions like the Orange County Museum of Art (OCMA) and the Irvine Public Schools Foundation (IPSF). In addition to his non-profit work, Chris is a National Board member of Alder, a member of Entrepreneurs Organization(EO), and has traveled extensively speaking on a variety of topics. A life-long athlete he also has a black belt in Jiu Jitsu.

Time for some tough love. These four areas will absolutely destroy your life if you let them. Maybe you're doing great right now. Share this with someone who isn't. Maybe you recognize yourself in these patterns. Either way this episode is a mirror you need to look into. These four areas connect to each other. Neglect health and you can't perform. Mismanage money and you can't invest in health or learning. Isolate socially and you lose support systems. Stop developing and everything stagnates. I've faced all of these at different times. The regret is real. But hanging onto regret keeps you stuck. Feel it. Process it. Then move forward. These patterns still try to pull at me. Travel makes health harder. Need to pack gym clothes intentionally. Money management requires constant attention. Social connections need nurturing. Learning never stops. Today can be the day you shift. Stop ruining your life in these four simple ways. Start building something better.

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Spencer Lodge blew my mind today. Top 100 most influential people in Dubai. Sales legend. Financial planning expert. This man built an empire on four simple steps that most people completely ignore. Spencer doesn't believe in cold calling. Says it's ridiculous. Waste of time. Instead he built a system that generated 45 referrals per week. Forty-five. Let that sink in. His approach is pure genius. Every prospect he meets gets asked for referrals whether they buy or not. Think about it. If you close four out of ten prospects what happens to the other six? Most salespeople walk away with nothing. Spencer walks away with referrals from all ten. That's the difference between average and legendary. His sales process is dead simple. Spencer spent 33 years overseas building wealth while others bought watches and cars for external validation. Now he focuses on teaching people the difference between assets and liabilities. Between security and restriction. Spencer chooses to hang around entrepreneurs and commission earners. People who celebrate big wins and push each other higher. Environment shapes mindset. Proximity matters. If you want unlimited earnings potential you need to be around people who think that way. Spencer's wisdom comes from decades of real experience. Not theory. Not motivational fluff. Practical systems that work in the real world with real people dealing with real money.

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Award-Winning Podcast Host & Business Strategist Top 100 Most Influential People in Dubai.

After making waves in the international financial services and sales industries for over three decades, building some of the largest and most successful multicultural sales forces, and being honored with countless corporate awards, Spencer expanded his role to serve his passion for elevating businesses and people’ potential in an integrated way.

His perseverance and unstoppable drive inspired him to create The Unscripted With Spencer Lodge Podcast – one of the most listened-to podcasts in the region. In each episode, Spencer speaks with the world’s most influential people, experts, and thinkers to discover untold truths, unlearned lessons, and important insights, redefining the meaning of success and helping his audience lead a meaningful life.

Podcast Milestones: Spencer recently celebrated the 300th episode of his podcast, "Unscripted With Spencer Lodge," featuring British adventurer Ant Middleton.

Recent Podcast Guests: Spencer continues to feature prominent and diverse personalities on his podcast. Recent guests include Sonny Ridgewell, an expert in corporate insurance, and Raki Phillips, CEO of the Ras Al Khaimah Tourism Development Authority, who played a pivotal role in securing a $3.9 billion deal with Wynn Resorts.

Focus on Social Issues: Spencer's podcast also addresses important social issues, such as the gender pay gap and workplace inclusion, through interviews with influential figures like Emma Burdett, founder of Saudi Arabia’s first women’s network, WILD.

Most people suck at supporting others. Yeah I said it. You want to help but you end up making things worse. You jump in with unsolicited advice. You minimize their feelings. You compare their situation to someone else's. Stop doing that. Stop trying to give them perspective. Stop saying "it was meant to happen" or "you're better off" or "God doesn't give you more than you can handle." That's not helping. That's minimizing their pain. Those phrases make people feel small and unheard. You want to help? Validate their feelings instead. Say "that sucks" or "I can't imagine how painful that is." You're not validating what they're feeling. You're validating their right to feel something. Their emotions matter. Their emotions don't need to be hidden. Don't compare their situation to anyone else's. Don't say "I've been there" or "this happened to my friend too." Their pain is theirs. Their situation is unique. If you want them to find examples, ask questions. "Do you know anyone who went through something similar? How did they handle it?" Let them make the connections. Let them search for answers themselves. Check in with them. Say "I'm here if you need me." Then actually be there. Don't force yourself into their situation. Make yourself available. Let it be their choice to reach out. Show up with actions.Stop trying to fix everything. Stop minimizing their feelings. Stop making it about you. Just be present. Ask questions. Validate emotions. Show up with real help. That's what people need when life gets hard.

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Philip Moranto's story hit me different. Former pro skateboarder turned mindset coach. But this isn't your typical athlete success story. This is about surviving chaos and choosing to rebuild. Philip grew up in a world most of us can't imagine. Father had him at 47. Brothers in their 50s. Out till one in the morning as a kid with older crowds. Violence. Drugs. Crime. All before he was even a teenager. Skateboarding saved his life. Gave him structure when everything else was falling apart. Purpose when the world felt purposeless. But here's what most people don't know about pro sports. The window closes fast. Really fast. At 25 Philip was told he was too old to pursue skateboarding. Twenty-five. Let that sink in. Most of his buddies fell off the financial cliff after their careers ended. No plan. No preparation. No understanding of life after the sport. Philip watched talented people end up homeless. Saw legends struggling just to survive. That's when everything changed for him. Between 24 and 28 his world collapsed. Lost his mom. Lost his grandma. Lost his dad. Business deals fell apart. He was heading down a dark path. But at 28 he made a choice. Started working on himself. Spent two years completely focused on becoming the best version of himself. That's when he discovered his real calling. Helping others do the same thing. Philip noticed something about the coaching industry. More coaches than ever. More people struggling than ever. Depression at all time highs. Anxiety through the roof. Something wasn't working. His approach is different. Real. Based on actual experience not just theory. His wisdom comes from surviving chaos. From building calm out of complete destruction. From understanding that sometimes life hits you with everything at once and you still have to find a way forward. This conversation reveals the truth about transitions. About seasons ending. About choosing growth when everything around you is falling apart. Philip's final words were pure gold. Three things you must do with money. Make it. Keep it. Duplicate it. Most people never get past the first one.

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Philip Meranto has the unique ability to unlock a person’s unlimited potential. He has mastered the art of discipline despite growing up in organized crime with his mobster father, which forced his growth at a very young age. Discovering the power of the mind early on, he redefined himself to become a professional skateboarder putting Las Vegas on the map in the skate world and competing with the greatest in the world. Before establishing himself as a Life & Business Coach, he was an entrepreneur and consultant in many different industries that have given him a lot of insight, knowledge, and experience in life. Such as sports, sales, entertainment, nightlife, brand-building & hospitality. He continues to enlighten people everywhere with tons of grit, personality, charisma, and charm. After losing his family, and overcoming trials and tribulations, Philip felt guided to help people cultivate an unstoppable mindset to maximize their potential. Today, his energy is focused on helping others to remove limiting beliefs by understanding mental and emotional intelligence because that is the key to success in all areas. He brings exciting new concepts and a vibe of authenticity to the field of personal development.