Colic Isn’t “A Thing”: Understanding Why Your Baby Cries and What You Can Do

In this episode of the Breastfeeding With Confidence Podcast, host Jaimie Zaki, IBCLC and mom of five, tackles a common myth: colic isn’t just a thing. Many parents hear that their baby has colic and feel helpless, but crying is always communication — not a diagnosis.

Jaimie explains why labeling a baby as “colicky” can be misleading, and why persistent crying often signals underlying issues like sensory overload, sleep challenges, reflux, digestive discomfort, tongue tie, oral dysfunction, or inefficient milk transfer. She emphasizes that colic is rarely the problem itself — it’s a sign that something needs to be addressed.

This episode provides practical guidance for decoding your baby’s cries, optimizing feeding efficiency, and using nervous system regulation techniques like skin-to-skin, gentle rocking, and bodywork. Jaimie also shares insights on avoiding ineffective remedies and focusing on root causes, empowering parents to respond confidently and effectively.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why colic isn’t a real diagnosis and what it really means

• Common underlying causes of persistent crying in babies

• How inefficient milk transfer or oral dysfunction can lead to fussiness

• Practical strategies to soothe and support your baby

• Tools for nervous system regulation: skin-to-skin, gentle rocking, and more

• How to track patterns to identify underlying issues

• When to seek professional support to address persistent feeding or crying challenges

Resources & Links:

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In this heartfelt episode of the Breastfeeding with Confidence Podcast, host Jamie Zaki, IBCLC and mom of five, sits down with Vanessa, a Licensed Professional Counseling Student and Lactation Counselor, to talk about the emotional side of breastfeeding that so many mothers struggle with but few actually discuss out loud.

Together, they dive deep into postpartum depression, unresolved mother wounds, and the grief that can come when breastfeeding doesn’t go as planned. Vanessa shares her own journey through the intersection of motherhood and mental health, reminding moms that breastfeeding doesn’t have to be bad for your mental health—but the key is education, support, and self-compassion.

• How birth interventions and early postpartum experiences shape both breastfeeding success and mental wellbeing

• The emotional layers of breastfeeding grief and how to process them

• How social media and cultural expectations add pressure to new moms

• The connection between unhealed mother wounds and the way we show up as mothers

• Practical ways to protect your mental health while breastfeeding

• Why being “birth to breastfeeding educated” before birth can transform your experience

Vanessa is a Licensed Professional Counseling Student and Lactation Counseling student passionate about helping mothers navigate the complex intersection of mental health and breastfeeding. Through her online platform @MilkandMentalHealth, she shares education, emotional support, and compassionate truth-telling to empower moms to nurture both their babies and themselves.

• Learn more or join Vanessa’s Birth to Boob community: https://birthtoboob.my.canva.site/joinbtb

• Follow Vanessa on Instagram: @milkandmentalhealth | @birthtoboob

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Oversupply in Breastfeeding: Signs, Causes, and Solutions

In this episode of the Breastfeeding With Confidence Podcast, host Jaimie Zaki, International Board Certified Lactation Consultant and mom of five, addresses a common but often overlooked breastfeeding concern: oversupply of breast milk. Many moms worry about low supply, but producing too much milk comes with its own challenges — and it’s usually a sign of an underlying issue.

Jaimie explains the difference between healthy supply and oversupply, common symptoms to watch for (forceful letdown, frothy stools, frequent gagging or coughing, engorgement, plugged ducts, and mastitis), and why oversupply is often related to inflammation or oral dysfunction. She also provides practical strategies for managing oversupply, including block feeding, strategic expression, and addressing root causes like inefficient milk removal or inflammation.

This episode is full of actionable tips, mindset shifts, and encouragement to help moms navigate oversupply without feeling guilty, anxious, or overwhelmed.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Signs of oversupply and how it differs from a healthy milk supply

• Why oversupply is usually a symptom, not the problem itself

• How oral dysfunction and inefficient milk removal can overstimulate milk production

• The role of inflammation in hyperlactation

• Practical strategies: block feeding, flow management, and strategic milk expression

• When to seek further evaluation from a healthcare provider

• How to prevent oversupply from leading to clogged ducts, mastitis, or eventual undersupply

Resources & Links:

👉FREE Breastfeeding Mistakes Guide - DOWNLOAD NOW

👉Access the Confident Mama Breastfeeding Academy for step-by-step guidance on protecting your milk supply, managing common breastfeeding struggles, and getting a pain-free latch: Book a 20-minute Q&A session with Jaimie for personalized support

Breastfeeding Challenges: Comfort Nursing and Persistent Thrush

In this episode of the Breastfeeding With Confidence podcast, host Jaimie Zaki, International Board Certified Lactation Consultant and mom of five, answers two common community questions: “What should I do if my baby uses me as a pacifier?” and “My baby has white patches on her tongue, the doctor says it’s thrush, but it won’t go away — what now?”

Jaimie breaks down the difference between nutritive and non-nutritive sucking, when and how pacifiers can be helpful, and how to know when “comfort nursing” is actually a red flag for oral dysfunction. She also clears up confusion between “milk tongue” and true thrush, shares what persistent thrush really means, and explores the role of gut health in recovery.

With practical tips, mindset shifts, and encouragement, this episode helps you feel less alone while navigating frustrating breastfeeding struggles.

BREASTFEEDING RESOURCES

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👉Access the Confident Mama Breastfeeding Academy for step-by-step guidance on protecting your milk supply, managing common breastfeeding struggles, and getting a pain-free latch: Book a 20-minute Q&A session with Jaimie for personalized support

Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction & Podcast Welcome 01:06 November Updates & Breastfeeding Community 01:50 Comfort Nursing vs. Pacifier Use 06:09 Baby Thrush Concerns Explained 06:37 Breastfeeding Resource Library 07:18 Thrush vs. Milk Tongue: Getting a Proper Diagnosis 11:20 Final Thoughts & Support Options 12:06 Conclusion & Call to Action

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Caffeine and Breastfeeding: Can You Still Enjoy Your Coffee?

In this episode of The Breastfeeding With Confidence Podcast, host Jamie Doula, an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant and mom of five, answers one of the most common questions new moms have: “Can I drink coffee while breastfeeding?”

Jamie explains how caffeine passes into breast milk, how much is considered safe, and signs that your baby might be sensitive. You’ll also learn practical tips like timing your coffee after a feeding and watching out for hidden caffeine sources in sodas, teas, chocolate, energy drinks, and even medications.

If you’ve been stressing over whether that morning coffee is off limits, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence you need.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How much caffeine is safe while breastfeeding

• Why some babies may be more sensitive to caffeine

• Practical strategies for timing your coffee

• Surprising hidden sources of caffeine beyond coffee and tea

• The reassuring truth about enjoying coffee as a breastfeeding mom

BREASTFEEDING RESOURCES

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Is My Breast Milk Fatty Enough for My Baby? Busting a Common Breastfeeding Myth

In this episode of Breastfeeding With Confidence, Jaimie Zaki, IBCLC and mom of five, tackles one of the most frustrating myths new mothers hear: that their breast milk “isn’t fatty enough” or “needs time to mature” before it can help their baby gain weight.

Here’s the truth—your milk is already perfectly designed for your baby from the very beginning. If your little one isn’t gaining weight, the issue isn’t milk quality—it’s usually about milk volume or transfer. And in rare cases, consistent weight gain struggles despite adequate intake can point to deeper medical issues that need attention.

Jaimie shares:

• Why breast milk is always nutrient-rich and fatty enough

• The real reasons babies may not gain weight

• Why supplementing with formula isn’t always the answer

• How to advocate for yourself when doctors give misleading advice

If you’ve ever worried your milk “isn’t good enough,” this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and the tools to protect your breastfeeding journey.

BREASTFEEDING RESOURCES

👉FREE Breastfeeding Mistakes Guide - DOWNLOAD NOW

👉Access the Confident Mama Breastfeeding Academy for step-by-step guidance on protecting your milk supply, managing common breastfeeding struggles, and getting a pain-free latch: Book a 20-minute Q&A session with Jaimie for personalized support

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In this episode, we’re breaking the taboo around co-sleeping, bed-sharing, and safe infant sleep—without the guilt, shame, or fear that mainstream advice so often stirs up.

Join Jaimie Zaki, IBCLC and mom of five, and her guest Taylor McKay, a holistic sleep coach based in Canada, as they unpack what real-life sleep looks like for new mothers—and how to make it safe, biologically normal, and confidence-building.

You’ll learn how to protect your peace, your milk supply, and your baby’s safety—without resorting to sleep-training or fighting your natural instincts.

• Safe co-sleeping and bed-sharing practices backed by evidence and maternal intuition

• How to create a safe sleep space for your newborn—whether you use a crib, bassinet, or share your bed

• What to do when exhaustion hits hard postpartum and “just don’t sleep with your baby” stops being realistic

• Common myths about co-sleeping safety that every mom deserves to hear the truth about

• Reducing risk of SIDS and infant suffocation deaths

• Practical tips for safely bed-sharing while breastfeeding so everyone actually gets rest

• Why listening to your intuition matters more than rigid sleep rules

• Balancing family dynamics when your partner or relatives don’t understand co-sleeping

• How confident, informed mothers sleep better—and so do their babies

RESOURCES:

• Need sleep support? Visit Taylor McKay on Instagram @Cozylittlesleepers

👉FREE Breastfeeding Mistakes Guide - DOWNLOAD NOW

👉Access the Confident Mama Breastfeeding Academy for step-by-step guidance on protecting your milk supply, managing common breastfeeding struggles, and getting a pain-free latch: Book a 20-minute Q&A session with Jaimie for personalized support

00:00 — Welcome to Breastfeeding with Confidence 00:43 — Meet Taylor + why “safe co-sleeping” matters 01:46 — The reality of postpartum sleep and survival 05:12 — What safe bed-sharing actually looks like 08:12 — Debunking myths and navigating fear-based advice 13:52 — Real-life mom experiences and intuition-led sleep 34:10 — Final thoughts + your next step toward peaceful rest