Holiday gatherings are meant to bring us together—but sometimes the dinner table can feel like the hardest place to have a healthy conversation. In this episode/resource, we explore how to create meaningful, life-giving dialogue with your family this season by using gratitude, curiosity, and Dan Sullivan’s powerful Gap and the Gain framework.

Whether your family dynamic is peaceful, complicated, or somewhere in between, this guide will help you turn holiday meals into opportunities for connection—not conflict.

✨ What You’ll Discover:

• Simple ways to navigate difficult family discussions

• Conversation starters that build safety and warmth

• How to shift from the “Gap” (what’s missing) to the “Gain” (what’s growing)

• A practical “Gains & Gratitude” ritual to transform your dinner table

• Tools to help every person—kids, teens, and adults—feel seen and valued

Download the Holiday Dinner Conversations Worksheet to guide your table this season:
👉 https://fearlessfollower.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/Holiday-Dinner-Conversations-1.pdf

Bring intention. Create connection. Experience the holidays in the Gain.

In this episode, we sit down with pastor, speaker, and author Faith Eury Cho to explore what it truly means to experience friendship with God—especially in seasons marked by depression, anxiety, emotional heaviness, or spiritual wilderness. Faith brings a deeply compassionate and Spirit-filled perspective on how God meets us in our most tender places and how the Holy Spirit becomes our Companion through every valley.
Faith Eury Cho is a pastor, speaker, and author passionate about helping people encounter the presence of God in their everyday lives. She co-pastors Mosaic Covenant Church in New Jersey.

Guest Website:
https://www.faitheurycho.com/

Book — Experiencing Friendship with God (Amazon):
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593445570/

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