Whew. This one is real, raw, and redemptive.

In this episode of Daring Discussions, I’m sitting down with Joanna and Matthew Raabsmith, marriage coaches, and proof that healing is possible. We talk about what happens when the damage of pornography meets the covenant of marriage… and how grace, communication, accountability, and faith walked them through it.

Drawing from their own journey of healing after experiencing the devastation of sexual addiction and betrayal in their marriage, Matthew and Joanna bring

authenticity, hope, and practical wisdom to every conversation.

Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, this conversation offers hope, insight, and a clear picture of what redemption can look like…in AND out of the bedroom.

Heartbreak doesn’t just wound your heart, it can fracture your faith, your confidence, and your sense of worth.In this week’s Daring Discussions Testimony Service, recording artist and worship leader Cachet joins me to share her powerful story of healing after heartbreak.Together we discuss:-How heartbreak and infidelity can shake your identity and your intimacy with God.-The role of worship in the healing process.-How to release the desire to “get over it” and instead let God walk you through it.-What forgiveness really looks like?-What it really means when Scripture says, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.”This is not just a conversation about pain...it’s a testimony about restoration.#heartbroken #divorce #christianmarriage #healingjourney Guest: https://www.instagram.com/iamthecachethttps://www.iamthecachet.com

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How do you trust love again after it’s let you down? How do you know the difference between rushing and divine acceleration?In this powerful episode of Daring Discussions, I sit down with a couple whose story is straight from heaven’s plot twist: Shon & Clarissa Hyneman met and married in 6 months. Together, they run to platforms Scary to Remarry and Loverfearlessly. Scary to Remarry helps singles and couples prepare for lasting love. Lovefearlessly creates resources that empower kids with biblical affirmations and confidence.In this episode we discuss:Life after divorceFalling fast—but on purposeLong-distance love that workedBlending families And what healing really looks like when done with GodIt’s not just a discussion...it’s a testimony.Subscribe for more real, raw, and righteous discussions about sex, faith, and the stuff we don’t talk about enough.

For the Season 3 premiere of Daring Discussions, we did something special — an intergenerational testimony service.

I am joined by three women in their 20s, 30s, and 60s, and together we all share our stories of sex, intimacy, and relationships.

Dr. Daniella Thorne, Dr. Cheryl Carr, and Sylvia Brooks sit down for a daring discussion that shows how God’s faithfulness spans every stage of life. One conversation, three generations, countless lessons.

Let’s talk about who we really are.

In this episode, I’m joined by the brilliant S. Alise Moore — a licensed clinician who holds space with truth and tenderness. We’re discussing how our identity, spiritual formation, and personal history all come together (and sometimes clash) when it comes to how we see ourselves and show up in relationships.

We talk:

Confidence and embodiment (especially when the church never taught us how)

Healing from shame and identity confusion

How trauma messes with your sense of self

And what it looks like to finally find yourself

If you’ve ever wondered how to feel whole, holy, and human all at once… this #daringdiscussion is for you.

Let’s be real. Some of the deepest wounds didn’t come from the world, they came from people in the church.

In this episode, we’re getting real about the quiet harm caused by purity culture, silence around sex, and spiritual manipulation that left many of us carrying shame in our bodies and bedrooms.

We’re discussing what happens to folks who’ve been taught that desire is dirty, that modesty equals worth, and that sex is only holy when it comes with guilt. But sis… God’s design was never meant to feel like bondage.

Whether you’re deconstructing harmful beliefs, rebuilding trust in your own body, or just trying to figure out where Jesus fits in all this… this episode is for you.

We don’t shy away from the hard stuff, but we do it with tenderness, truth, and the kind of grace you deserve.

Because healing from religious trauma is holy work. And sex? It’s still sacred.

🎧 Press play. Take a breath. Let’s discuss Sex & Religious Trauma with Pastor ​⁠ .

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Whew! Being a godly woman means a lot of things to a lot of people, but who’s defining it? This week on Daring Discussions, I’m sitting down with Pastor Adara Sherron—wife, mom, and pastor—to get real about what it means to balance faith, femininity, and a little bit of spice.

We’re talking about:
💡 How to own your sensuality without losing your holiness
💡 Why confidence in the bedroom can be a form of worship too
💡 How to be a whole woman without apology

Sis, you can love God, love your husband, and love yourself fully. We’re getting into it. Hit play and bring your journal, because Pastor Adara did not come to play.

Sis, let’s be real—knowing what you want is one thing, but saying it out loud? That’s a whole other story.If you’ve ever struggled to express your desires, initiate intimacy, or just find the right words in the heat of the moment, this episode is for you. It’s the replay of my Art of Erotic Communication Masterclass, and we’re getting into it. For all of my shy wives, We’re discussing: How to overcome the awkwardness of asking for what you want Discovering your sexual personality Practical ways to build confidence in expressing your desires Tips for initiating intimacy (even when you’re the shy one) Why clear, honest communication can actually make sex way betterThis isn’t about becoming someone you’re not—it’s about learning how to be fully, beautifully, and boldly you with your partner... even as a Christian. This is a long one so settle in.Pull up, press play, and get ready to take notes. This is your time to step out of your shell and into the pleasure you deserve.