Therapists aren’t supposed to carry every story home, yet the body often tells on us—tight jaws, creeping headaches, short tempers after a stacked day of sessions. We open up about the small, repeatable habits that keep us steady while doing deep trauma work, and why modeling regulation is as therapeutic as any technique. From two‑minute breath resets to stepping outside for a quick hit of sun, we share the simple practices that restore presence between clients.

We dig into the science‑meets‑practice sweet spot: walking as natural bilateral stimulation that helps the brain file what’s heavy and surface adaptive associations. You’ll hear how a therapy dog can become a co‑regulator, why a warm cup of tea or a shoulder stretch matters more than it seems, and how a humble notepad keeps working memory clear when to‑dos flood in. We also talk candidly about red flags—nighttime teeth grinding, tension headaches, and emotional spillover at home—and how to respond before burnout sets in with movement, boundaries, and selective rest.

Community is the safety net. Supervision and peer consultation stop the echo chamber of self‑doubt and offer grounded strategies for stubborn EMDR targets. We make the case that vulnerability is a clinician’s superpower: name what isn’t working, get perspective, and protect your craft with scheduled consults that you don’t skip. Whether you’re new to EMDR or a seasoned therapist, you’ll leave with a clear pre‑session ritual, a reset plan between clients, and a shift from fixing to witnessing so you can stay effective without absorbing the load.

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How Do Dani And Ally Define “Collaborative Consultation” In Real Life?

Ever felt like professional consultation was just another clinical box to check? Dani and Ally are turning that notion on its head with their fresh, relationship-centered approach to EMDR consultation.

Their journey began with a chance meeting and a walk to Starbucks in Seattle, where they discovered an instant connection that would evolve into a powerful professional partnership. Now, they're bringing that same spirit of authentic connection to EMDR therapists across the globe through their collaborative consultation model.

What sets them apart? For starters, they work as a dynamic duo, offering clinicians the rare opportunity to learn from two consultants simultaneously. Dani brings her "P" energy while Ally complements with her "J" perspective (in Myers-Briggs terms), creating a consultation experience that celebrates different approaches to EMDR therapy. This diversity helps clinicians develop flexibility and confidence in their clinical judgment, recognizing there's rarely just one "right way" to work with clients.

Their nine-month cohort model goes beyond skill-building to foster lasting relationships among participants. As they eloquently put it, "Trauma and EMDR therapy cannot be done in isolation and require the support of a community." By creating spaces where therapists can bring their vulnerabilities, questions, and unique strengths, Dani and Ally combat the professional isolation that so often leads to burnout.

Perhaps most refreshingly, they infuse joy into the learning process. "If it's not fun, I'm not doing it," Dani shares, embodying their philosophy that professional growth should be engaging and energizing, not just another obligation.

Ready to experience consultation that feels less like a clinical requirement and more like coming home to a supportive community? Visit online or call/text 254-230-4994 to discover if their collaborative approach might be the perfect fit for your EMDR journey.

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https://www.DaniandAlly.com
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254-230-4994

What Exactly Is EMDR—and Why Does It Work So Well For Trauma?

Ever wondered how some therapies seem to help people move beyond trauma without constantly reliving the painful details? EMDR therapy stands apart in its approach to healing, and in this episode, Dani and Ally break down exactly why this powerful method works so effectively.

We explore the fascinating science behind EMDR therapy, starting with Dr. Francine Shapiro's accidental discovery in the late 1980s that led to this revolutionary approach. Your hosts explain how the brain's natural healing mechanisms can become blocked during trauma and how EMDR helps reopen those pathways. You'll learn about the three key brain regions involved in processing traumatic experiences – the amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex – and how bilateral stimulation helps these systems work together more effectively.

What makes this episode particularly valuable is the clear distinction between common misconceptions and the reality of EMDR therapy. Dani and Ally emphasize that clients remain fully conscious and in control throughout the process (unlike hypnosis), and they walk through what actually happens during different phases of treatment. The hosts share how they establish safety and build resources with clients before beginning memory processing work, addressing the nervousness many people feel about trying a new therapeutic approach. Perhaps most powerfully, they explain how EMDR doesn't erase difficult memories but transforms how they're stored and experienced – "the memory stays, but the weight of it lifts." If you're curious about how therapy can help someone carry their past differently while living more fully in the present, this episode provides valuable insights whether you're a clinician or someone considering this approach for your own healing journey.

Ready to learn more about this evidence-based approach to trauma healing? Visit online or reach out directly at 254-230-4994 to connect with Dani and Ally for more resources, training opportunities, or to ask questions about implementing EMDR in your practice.

To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit:
https://www.DaniandAlly.com
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254-230-4994

Introducing Your Hosts:

Meet Dani and Ally, two EMDR therapists whose chance encounter during a lost walk to Starbucks in Seattle sparked a powerful professional partnership that transcends geographical boundaries. Dani, a social worker and psychotherapist from Ontario with deep expertise in trauma, and Ally, the founder of Firefly Counseling in Texas with a mission to "light up dark places," have joined forces to support fellow clinicians through collaborative consultation.

Their journeys to becoming trauma specialists were deeply personal, both motivated by witnessing trauma's impact on family and friends. This shared foundation drives their commitment not only to help clients heal but also to mentor other clinicians in becoming effective trauma therapists. While maintaining their individual practices—Dani in Ancaster, Ontario, and Ally across two Texas locations—they've created a supportive community for EMDR practitioners seeking growth and connection.

What makes their approach unique is their holistic vision of trauma healing. Beyond traditional therapy, they partner with various healthcare providers—from psychiatrists to trauma-informed massage therapists—recognizing that effective trauma work requires comprehensive care. Their collaborative model exemplifies their belief that the best healing starts with connection, whether between therapist and client or among professionals supporting each other. They're working toward becoming EMDR basic training trainers, further extending their impact on the field.

Ready to connect with Dani and Ally? Whether you're a seasoned EMDR therapist seeking consultation or just beginning your journey into trauma work, they offer resources, training, and community that bridges distances and creates belonging.

To learn more about EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY visit:
https://www.DaniandAlly.com
EMDR WITH DANI AND ALLY
254-230-4994