Épisodes

  • Our Lovely Listeners: Your Questions Answered, Part Two
    Aug 29 2025

    In this episode, we answer more of your questions, which lead us into some interesting topics of conversation and off on some wonderful tangents. We explore themes of emotional resilience, personal growth, and the challenges of masculinity. We share personal anecdotes about insecurities, the importance of humour in discussions, and the pressure to practice what we preach as coaches and therapists. Our conversation emphasises the continuous journey of self-discovery and the significance of talking to friends for emotional support. We also delve into the importance of gratitude in everyday life, survival skills in wilderness settings, and the realities of monogamy in today's world, and much, much more.

    Keywords

    podcast, emotional resilience, masculinity, personal growth, self-discovery, mental health, self-improvement, therapy, relationships, authenticity, emotional intelligence, self-disclosure, advice, daily routine, gratitude, survival skills, monogamy, relationships, personal growth, self-worth


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    58 min
  • Tim Box: The Truth About Anxiety
    Aug 12 2025

    In this conversation, we delve into the nature of anxiety,exploring its role as a fundamental human emotion rather than a disorder. We discuss the misconceptions surrounding anxiety, the physical sensations associated with it, and the importance of acceptance when managing anxiety. Tim emphasises the need for societal re-education on anxiety, advocating for a shift in perspective that recognizes anxiety as a natural part of life rather than an ailment to be eradicated. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, we highlight the journey towards understanding and managing anxiety effectively. Tim emphasises that anxiety is not something to worry about and shares strategies for managing panic attacks effectively. The discussion highlights the power of self-empowerment and the significance of understanding one's own mind in overcoming anxiety.

    YT Channel - @TimBoxMindCoach

    TEDx Talks link - "How to stop feeling anxious about anxiety" - https://youtu.be/ZidGozDhOjg?si=gOd5YtHgKK6cVsk3

    IG - @timboxmindcoach

    Keywords

    anxiety, mental health, emotional regulation, acceptance,therapy, understanding anxiety, anxiety disorder, fight or flight, emotional health, mental wellness, mental health, anxiety, panic attacks, subconscious mind, medication, therapy, emotional well-being, patient stories, coping strategies, self-empowerment

    Takeaways

    Anxiety is a natural emotion we all experience.

    Treating anxiety as an enemy can exacerbate the problem.

    Understanding anxiety helps in managing it better.

    Physical sensations of anxiety are normal responses.

    Acceptance of anxiety is crucial for recovery.

    Anxiety disorders are often misunderstood and misdiagnosed.

    The fight or flight response is a natural reaction toperceived threats.

    Society often pathologizes normal emotional responses.

    Feelings of anxiety do not equate to a medical condition.

    Re-educating ourselves and others about anxiety isessential. Listening to patients' stories is crucial for understanding theirmental health.

    Medication can help but should not be the sole focus oftreatment.


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    1 h et 29 min
  • Elliot Burgess: Is There A Crisis Of Masculinity?
    Jul 29 2025

    In this episode, we delve into the complex topic of masculinity and the perceived crisis surrounding it. We explore various aspects of masculinity, including its evolution, the impact of social media, and the importance of positive role models. The conversation highlights the challenges men face in expressing their identities in a rapidly changing world, the influence of algorithms on perceptions of masculinity, and the need for community and connection. Ultimately, the discussion emphasizes the importance of kindness, compassion, and emotional expression in redefining masculinity for future generations.

    Keywords

    masculinity, crisis, mental health, social media, role models, education, emotional expression, community, compassion, identity








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    59 min
  • Gage Masterson: Monogamy Is Not For Everyone!...How Ethical Non-Monogamy Changed My Life
    Jul 8 2025

    In this episode, Gage Masterson, star of the Reality TV Show, Channel 4's Open House: The Great Sex Experiment , and prominent figure in the realm of ethical non-monogamy (ENM), talks about his personal journey into the realm of ENM, as well explaining what ENM is, and how he feels about the social constructs and perceptions surrounding traditional monogamy. Gage shares insights on communication, boundaries, and the emotional complexities of jealousy within non-monogamous relationships. The discussion also touches on Gage's experiences in the swinging lifestyle and the importance of having open dialogue and non-judgmental attitude whilst navigating these relationships. The conversation explores the themes of connection, community, mutual respect and safety. We discuss the importance of building relationships beyond just sexual encounters, the challenges of coming out, and the creation of Swing Hub, a platform designed to provide a safe space for non-monogamous individuals. We also talk about the significance of friendship, support, and the gradual exploration of non-monogamous lifestyles.

    Insta Links:

    @magicgage

    @swinghubapp

    @Openhousethegreatsexexperiment

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    1 h et 2 min
  • Human First, Therapist Second: Do We Have Our Shit Together?
    Jun 10 2025

    In this episode we explore the complexities of being human first and then being professional second. James talks about his personal experiences with therapy, childhood dynamics, and the challenges of navigating relationships. He also talks about significance of connection, the impact of family on emotional health, and the journey of becoming a therapist. James talks about the impact of therapy on his emotional growth, and the importance of understanding his reactions and vulnerabilities. James shares valuing the significance of cultivating and maintaining inner peace, the process of apologizing and taking responsibility for his actions, and the role of authenticity in therapy. He shares how he feels the continuous journey of self-improvement and the balance between helping others and self-care is integral to a healthy life.

    Keywords

    mental health, wellness, therapy, emotional health, human experience, relationships, coaching, podcast, integrative therapy, personal growth, self-discovery, therapy, emotional growth, relationships, vulnerability, inner peace, personal development, authenticity, self-responsibility, healing





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    59 min
  • Human First, Life Coach Second: Do We Have Our Shit Together?
    Apr 22 2025

    In this episode we explore the complexities of being human first and then being a professional second. Sam talks about how he is himself first and then a life coach second. We discuss the importance of owning one's humanness, and the continuous journey of growth. Sam shares his personal experiences, such as the need for external validation, and the impact of family dynamics on self-worth, and much more. The theme of this conversation centres around the idea of what it means to “have your shit together” and how this is defined, from Sam's perspective.

    Chapters

    00:00 Navigating Teenage Distress

    24:14 The Challenge of social media

    50:35 The Importance of Being Real

    53:27 Reflections on Personal Growth

    55:03 Defining 'Having Your Shit Together'

    Keywords

    mental health, wellness, coaching, personal growth, self-discovery, validation, human experience, helping professions,emotional well-being, journey, self-perception, external validation, therapy, vulnerability, authenticity

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    53 min
  • Lottie Passell-Syms: Expert Advice On Intimacy, Sex & Relationships
    Apr 10 2025

    In this episode, we welcome intimacy and relationship specialist Lottie Passell-Syms. We discuss the importance of communication in relationships, the changing landscape of dating, and the need for empathy and connection. Lottie shares insights from her twenty years of experience in the field, emphasizing the significance of understanding each other's needs and expectations. This episode provides valuable insights into fostering healthier relationships and understanding individual needs.Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest

    00:53 Understanding Intimacy and Relationships

    03:09 Changing Landscape of Dating and Relationships

    05:58 Communication in Relationships

    11:49 Expectations and Needs in Relationships

    18:11 The Role of Empathy and Connection

    24:01 Navigating Power Dynamics in Relationships

    35:22 Redefining Generational Stereotypes in Relationships

    39:06 The Dynamics of Relationship Roles

    43:33 Navigating Childhood Scripts in Adult Relationships

    49:11 Exploring the Importance of Sexual Communication

    55:12 The Role of Anticipation and Playfulness in Sex

    01:01:32 Breaking Taboos: The Conversation Around Masturbation

    01:05:53 Understanding Limerence and Love

    01:11:52 The Power Struggle in Relationships

    01:17:20 Forgiveness and Conscious Uncoupling

    01:23:22 Communication and Relationship Maintenance

    01:29:00 Keeping Your Heart Open After Breakups


    Keywords

    intimacy, relationships, dating, communication, empathy,expectations, needs, power dynamics, connection, sex, relationships, communication, intimacy, therapy, sexual health, gender roles, emotional safety, childhood scripts, sexual exploration, consent, limerence, love, relationships, forgiveness, communication, conscious uncoupling, emotional health, couples therapy, intimacy, personal growth

    Website: www.lottiepassellsyms.com

    IG: @lottiepassellsyms



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    1 h et 35 min
  • Our Lovely Listeners: Your Questions Answered
    Feb 6 2025

    In this episode, we explore and answer questions from you, our lovely listeners, on varying themes surrounding mental health, personal growth, and relationships. We discuss the ability to change one's mindset, the impact of our environment on personal development, and the importance of openness in relationships. We share our personal preferences regarding intimacy; our culinary preferences for a ‘last meal on Earth’; our chosen dinner party guests for a fictional dinner party; and Sam reveals his personal 'ick' list that highlights what he finds off-putting in relationships.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    02:56 Mindset and Personal Growth

    05:54 The Power of Change and Neuroplasticity

    09:13 The Role of Environment in Shaping Mindset

    11:58 Personal Experiences and Influences

    14:47 Exploring Intimacy and Relationships

    18:00 Influences in Life and Relationships

    20:49 Death Row Meal: A Lighthearted Question

    30:22 Culinary Delights: A Last Meal on Earth

    36:56 Dinner Party Guests: Living, Dead, and Fictional

    54:21 The ick List: What Turns Us Off

    01:00:04 Closing Thoughts and Future Connections

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    1 h