In this episode of Harry Dating Convos, I sit down with personal development coach and relationship strategist Nick Brancato to talk about what really keeps couples connected—and what slowly tears them apart.
Nick is the author of Prioritize Us: Unlocking Lasting Love with One Simple Proven Test, and he breaks down how his Total Difference Score (TDS) framework can help couples avoid "priority drift," feel more aligned, and stop fighting about surface-level issues like chores and communication.
We also dive into:
✅ Why love alone isn't enough to keep a relationship going
✅ How to stop feeling like roommates in long-term relationships
✅ The surprising benefits of using data—not emotion—to improve your connection
✅ Why most men struggle to adjust when a woman’s priorities shift
✅ How to rebuild intimacy by doing small things that compound over time
If you've ever wondered why a relationship feels off even when you love each other, this episode will show you why—and what to do about it.
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Aug 17 20258 min