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  • You SHOULD be a GOLD DIGGER! With Sarah Fontenot
    Sep 3 2025

    Wow!! Some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

    Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

    You guys asked, so here are her answers

    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman

    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

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    https://mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide

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    Host: Sarah Fontenot

    IG: @MsSarahFontenot

    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

    ✨Support the show here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2237283/support ✨

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    0:00 Intro

    2:13 - 10:45 do you want to address the elephant in the room

    4:00 i don’t understand why snoop getting so much flack

    7:15 if he’s alpha why does he move like he needs therapy

    8:48 so men that call themselves alpha, they aren’t that?

    9:50 do true masculine men bow down to more masculine men?

    10:45 do healed women intimidate emotionally broken men

    13:15 what’s the difference between responding and reacting

    16:05 if a woman bucks back she doesn’t respect you

    16:37 - 24:56 why do average men believe they deserve extraordinary man

    18:55 women who marry for money are selling their souls?

    20:28 i am a gold digger

    24:56 are men actually protectors or are they unemotional providers

    28:05 LADIES, if a man opens up to you…

    29:30 most women are not built to be a partner!

    32:09 why are women called bitter when they have boundaries?

    33:30 why do black women want loyalty from women they’ll never commit to?

    36:15 is choosing peace over potential masculine?

    37:45 speak to people who need a person to be healed

    38:45 why do some men try to shut women down when they try to say anything?

    40:15 emotionally unavailable people shouldn’t be in a relationship?

    42:02 why are soft life women called women while struggle love is called strong?

    44:28 I have a sister wound - women are the devil?!

    46:20 but aren’t okay taking another woman’s power?

    48:40 wow!

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    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

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    51 min
  • It's Giving... Ladies, BE Choosey! With Jane Handcock!
    Aug 27 2025

    THIS episode time FLEW by!! Say hello to Jane Handcock! A singer, song writer and rapper signed to death row records and making MAJOR WAVES!! Not only is is talented, but we LOVE the way she carries no judgement, observes, stands on what she says and is unapologetically herself! Such a GREAT episode!

    This was such an awesome conversation, because ultimately what we saw is we have two people that are not afraid to be who they are and stand on It!

    Let us know in the comments!!!

    It's Giving, UNAPOLOGETIC!

    Follow Jane here: @MsJaneHandcock

    https://www.instagram.com/msjanehandcock/?hl=en

    Check Her out: https://l.instagram.com/?u=http%3A%2F%2Fapple.co%2Ftheestelleshow&e=AT32AWuvUtDgjAfW4jutQwDIB5JLGeNxFEZqfKTGdj_bst5AcpOsI6sfE6gmZwa7WTYdP4NjB1Bijsdb8D10X3JBmcSnaraWKuYf

    Podcast Episode - The Estelle Show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jane-handcock/id1704201829?i=1000721024464

    Clash Magazine Interview: https://www.clashmusic.com/features/jane-handcocks-patience-is-not-just-a-virtue-its-her-saving-grace/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAadZ_6ego1xRg93VYP93uESd4sL-KURHyLAcvZM7ijNf43UcHgKWeY_WQWX8nA_aem_Eu7YyjogxFQXPSCjwgzRpQ

    Stare at me - Jane Handcock: https://deathrow.vyd.co/StareAtMe?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaf27eW82vMUgnPLho5OOZXOXAnC9xryABKCeEGjGg4YwJBdiE1AQYoLzbFc4Q_aem_HQIPjohdq3oo5L7gDKQKvw

    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman

    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽

    https://mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide

    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com

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    Host: Sarah Fontenot

    IG: @MsSarahFontenot

    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

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    Support the show

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    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

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    39 min
  • It's Giving...Showing Love To My Wife Doesn't Make Me Weak, It Makes Me Strong! w/Snoop Dogg
    Aug 20 2025

    This was such an awesome conversation, because ultimately what we saw was a man that’s become one of the biggest rap icons in the world and he still CHOOSES to be who he wants to be!!! NOT who the world wants him to be!!

    We saw, snoop, snoop dogg, snoopy, grandpa snoop, the whole gambit and we are HERE for It!!

    Get ready to be inspired!!

    Let us know in the comments, do you agree with this?

    It's Giving, AUTHENTIC!

    Follow Snoop here: @SnoopDogg
    https://www.instagram.com/snoopdogg?igsh=MTcxamhuOWRldWwxbA==
    Check him out: https://deathrow.vyd.co/IzItACrime?fbclid=PAQ0xDSwMSmjRleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp1D1VwXsrAARtcqkQPBXqULYOR76G4GwIqz4BxEpMLujZ0KuH6vMqt0F47GF_aem_OppmZwAVWsSj8HWlcskldw



    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook


    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide


    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
    Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast/


    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/
    ✨Support the show here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2237283/support ✨
    Sarah Hair:www. thevirginhairfantasy.com/MsSarahFontenot
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    Support the show

    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

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    1 h et 12 min
  • Promiscuity is a MENTAL ILLNESS with @NickCannon ​
    Aug 13 2025

    Woooaooooeeeee Child! This episode might ruffle assume feathers!! But that’s what we are here to do, challenge ideas and provoke thought! We don’t all have to agree, but we for SURE can ask ALL the questions!!


    This was such an awesome conversation, because ultimately what we saw is we have two people that are not afraid to be who they are and stand on It!

    Get ready to be uncomfortable... or maybe even inspired!!

    Let us know in the comments, do you agree with this?

    It's Giving, CONTROVERSY!

    Follow Nick here: @NickCannon

    https://www.instagram.com/nickcannon/?hl=en

    Check him out: nickcannon.komi.io


    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman

    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽

    https://mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide

    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com

    Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast/

    Host: Sarah Fontenot

    IG: @MsSarahFontenot

    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

    ✨Support the show here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2237283/support ✨

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    1:45 this season

    2:31 do you ever figure It out?

    3:00 is It exhausting?

    4:03 - with health struggles should you keep having kids

    6:05 do you want more children?

    6:30 would you do a vasectomy?

    7:08 how many moms?

    8:42 how did this happen, neyo/tribe

    10:25 i had strong relationships with women that wanted children

    11:00 - do you believe monogamy?

    12:30 would you be with a monetarily successful woman?

    13:20 are women that are more successful are less nurturing?

    14:28 are you in a relationship right now?

    16:00 why do people desire marriage so much?

    18:44 why is wifing It the ultimate goal?

    20:05 - we aren’t equal

    22:15 single women say this…

    24:07 that’s not DATING!

    25:06 we can be GREAT friends but It changes when…

    30:25 you realize nothing means anything, is marriage useless?

    31:45 we aren’t doped from our childhood

    32:00 - I’ve seen ride or die love

    35:14 so you believe in soulmates?

    37:58 you are preserving yourself bc…

    39:00 being permissions is a mental silliness

    43:44 everyone lives a facade

    45:00 I’ve watched people who just don’t know

    46:10 bring It back to nature

    Support the show

    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

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    49 min
  • It's Giving... Would you choose a man for his MONEY?! with Tony Baker
    Aug 6 2025

    Woooaooooeeeee Child! This episode might ruffle assume feathers!! But that’s what we are here to do, challenge ideas and provoke thought! We don’t all have to agree, but we for SURE can ask questions!!

    This was such an awesome conversation, because ultimately what we saw is we have two people that are not afraid to be who they are and stand on It!

    Get ready to be uncomfortable... or maybe even inspired!! Let us know in the comments, do you agree with this?

    It's Giving, CONTROVERSY!

    Follow Tony here: @TonyBaker

    https://www.instagram.com/tonybaker/?hl=en

    Check him out: lnk.bio/tonybakercomedy

    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman

    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽

    https://mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide

    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com

    Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast/

    Host: Sarah Fontenot

    IG: @MsSarahFontenot

    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

    ✨Support the show here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2237283/support ✨

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    3:05 it’s giving PEACE

    3:52 how do you find your peace?

    4:35 i remember when I bombed in Brooklyn

    5:48 do women naturally test your no’s

    6:38 - 15;00 in the dating world women don’t respect what you say you want

    7:20 we are DELUSIINAL, but who’s fault is It?!

    11:48 what changes

    12:28 we as women are made to believe that we are only valuable IF…

    13:00 do you think most people are happy in their relationships?

    14:40 there’s always the other side of It

    15:00-30:10 do you think all successful men cheat?

    16:10 who’s better at cheating, men or women?

    25:00 does a man need all of those things

    27:14 you can’t just write off an atheist…

    28:05 some people are “” God fearing “”

    30:10 would I date a man that makes 70K a year

    31:25 let’s break this down if you wouldn’t… DON’T come for me…

    37:45 women DONT want to be strong all the time

    40:27 what if he’s a phenomenal school teacher

    41:55 y’all Americans do THIS 🙄

    42:55 there’s winter in EVERYTHING

    44:20 am I delusional?!

    46:30 have you ever dated someone like that?

    49:20 i don’t want you to miss It!

    49:50 my husband is older than me!

    51:49 i love you but cheating is weak!

    55:45 i had a friend who was so mad at you!

    56:50 you’re not using your super powers

    Support the show

    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

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    1 h et 1 min
  • How a man can tell if she's FEMININE! With @mikebless
    Jul 23 2025

    Wow wow wow!!! This whole Episode will take you for a rideeeee!! From masculine men, how to identify a feminine, and Mike showing our host his… BANK ACCOUNT… you don’t want to miss It!!!

    Let us know in the comments, do you agree with this?


    It's Giving, CONTROVERSY!

    Follow Mike here: @MikeBless
    https://www.instagram.com/mikebless/?hl=en
    Check him out: linktr.ee/Mikebless


    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook


    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide


    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
    Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast/


    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/
    ✨Support the show here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2237283/support ✨
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    Support the show

    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

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    Sarah Hair: thevirginhairfantasy.com/mssarahfontenot
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    1 h et 35 min
  • It's Giving... Men only value YOU when you VALUE YOURSELF!
    Jul 16 2025

    Wow!! Some of the questions in your mind... and then have the conversations out loud!

    Join our host @MsSarahFontenot as she dives into self awareness, empowerment, petty-ness, the real, the raw, the ugly and the transformative in this episode!!

    You guys asked, so here are her answers

    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽

    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman

    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR ✨ULTIMATE Self Love Guide✨ HERE 👇🏽👇🏽

    https://mssarahfontenot.com/slgeguide

    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com

    Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast/

    Host: Sarah Fontenot

    IG: @MsSarahFontenot

    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

    ✨Support the show here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2237283/support ✨

    Sarah Hair:www. thevirginhairfantasy.com/MsSarahFontenot

    Use MsSarahFontenot for special discount ✨

    Support the show

    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/

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    Sarah Hair: thevirginhairfantasy.com/mssarahfontenot
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    1 h et 16 min
  • It's Giving - in relationships, that's a RED FLAG!
    Jul 9 2025

    Wow, wow wow!! Strap in because THIS episode right here will take you on a rollercoaster ride! We LOVE how unapologetic, graceful, poise and matter a fact Joi is!

    If you’re ready for accountability, different perspectives, dating after divorce, healing after abuse, and SO MUCH MORE make sure to watch this FULL episode!

    Our favorite part was cards B and Kim K references!! Let us know what you think in the comments!

    👇🏽👇🏽GET YOUR EBOOK HERE 👇🏽👇🏽
    Ebook: How to be a high value feminine woman
    https://mssarahfontenot.com/hvw-ebook

    Join the community: mssarahfontenot.com
    Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/itsgivingpodcast/

    Host: Sarah Fontenot
    IG: @MsSarahFontenot
    https://www.instagram.com/mssarahfontenot/
    ✨Support the show here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2237283/support ✨
    Sarah Hair:www. thevirginhairfantasy.com/MsSarahFontenot
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    It's Giving, CONTROVERSY!
    Guest: Joi Hunt
    Follow Joe Here: @JoiHunt_esq
    https://www.instagram.com/joihunt_esq/
    Check her out:
    https://joihuntesq.com/

    0:00 intro
    2:25 you’re going through a divorce, are you allowed to date? (Backstory)
    4:29 when you’re in an abusive relationship you don’t realize how bad It was
    5:15 your darkest season is setting you up!
    5:25 how did your son get over that bc some womennnnnn!!!
    6:55 what would you say to the women that use their kids to get back at a man
    8:10 do you think women are desperate to be in a relationship?
    9:40 how are the streets now?
    10:23 do you think men have leadership
    11;45 what makes a man high value
    14:50 so do you feel like women need men?
    15:40 do you think women are in their masculine?
    17:05 does an alpha need to tell you he’s an alpha
    19:30 do you still desire marriage
    21:15 a lot of men don’t want women that make money
    23:05 do you think men are good at handling a woman’s shine
    23:58 my challenge is…
    26:15 i don’t think i can live up to your expectations
    27:55 ladies beware of this red flag!
    28:30 I’m writing a book
    29:30 - 33 i think like an arranged marriage
    31:31 you want to give me a baby?
    33:25 how do you choose
    33:45 if a man talks about marriage in 6 months what do you do?
    36:04 what if the energy is incredible
    39:04 everyone’s concept in marriage look like
    41:00 i could easily be married already
    41:53 sometimes a woman doesn’t know how to leave
    43:40 would you date a man that makes less than you
    45:29 men need to understand this…
    46:00 do you think a woman can make more and still be feminine at home?
    47:30 would you pay the mortgage
    47:55 women we are stuck on this… cardi b
    48:45 there can only be one masculine and one feminine
    49:50 flying example
    51:25 why do men act so feminine and how do we fix It
    54:00 i teach my son
    55:45 we have to heal that group
    56:22 what’s your perfect date?
    57:26 how does a man get you to trust his leadership?
    58:35 what do you think about men that think they’re always right?
    59:33 do women Taget less attractive:less successful men when they get older
    1:02:15 can you turn a hoe into a housewife
    1:04:44 how do you do It in the black community KIM KARDASHIAN

    Support the show

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    1 h et 19 min