You know that feeling when someone offers to help and instead of relief, you feel... guilty? Like you should be able to handle it all yourself?

If you've been telling yourself "I should be grateful they offered but I just can't accept it," this journaling session is for you.

In this 5-minute episode, we're diving into what's really behind that guilt - and spoiler alert, it's not about being ungrateful. It's about the stories you've been telling yourself about what it means to need help.

What We're Journaling Through:

• Your perfect "receiving day" and why it feels impossible
• The guilty voice that shows up every time help is offered
• What you're really afraid people will think if you actually say yes
• A tiny practice to start receiving without earning it first

The 3 Strategic Prompts:

1. When I think about my perfect receiving day, what am I afraid would happen if I took a whole day to receive?
2. What is the voice in your head that stops you from accepting help? What does she sound like?
3. If you gave yourself permission to receive help without earning it, what are you most afraid people would think?

This builds on Tuesday's episode about receiving and your nervous system - definitely go listen to that one after this if you haven't already.

• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

Hot Take: What if your purpose right now isn't to do more, achieve more, or figure out your next big career move? What if your actual purpose is learning how to receive?

My business coach asked me what I'd do on a random Tuesday if I could do anything. My answer floored me: drink matcha, watch reality TV at noon, cook a real recipe with multiple steps, take a long shower, go to bed early. As I rattled these off, I panicked - where's my ambition? What happened to my drive?

Then it hit me during a journal session. My nervous system wasn't broken - it was trying to show me my purpose right now. After months of giving, creating, strategizing, and pouring into everyone else, my soul was telling me: your job is to learn how to receive.

In this episode:

• Why your purpose might be receiving instead of achieving right now
• The four ways to receive: physical (rest, nourishment, movement), mental (entertainment, learning for fun, silence), emotional (support, celebrating wins), and creative (making something with your hands, playing without purpose)
• How constantly saying "I've got it" blocks you from your actual purpose
• Why receiving isn't evidence you're failing - it's evidence you're human
• The receiving day challenge that will reconnect you with what your soul actually needs

The purpose shift: We think purpose has to be this big, productive thing. But what if your purpose right now is modeling for your kids that adults deserve care too? What if it's showing the women around you that receiving support isn't weakness?

Your end-of-day scrolling? That's your spirit trying to receive something - anything - that doesn't require you to prove you deserve it first.

Maybe your purpose isn't another goal to crush. Maybe it's learning that you're worthy of receiving the same energy you pour into everyone else.

Ready to explore what receiving could look like in YOUR life? Book a free Clarity Call with me: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Weekly Strategic Journal Prompts: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts
• Subscribe so you can hear Thursday's episode & journal with me: 5-minute journal session on working through your receiving blocks!
• Book a free 30-min Clarity Call with me: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here:

Moms with kids who went back to school recently...UNITE! This week hit me like a freight train. New school routines, drop-offs that take FOREVER, schedule changes that make you question everything - and it's only Tuesday.

So instead of pretending I have it all together, I'm taking you into my real, messy braindump journaling session.

No pretty prompts today. Just me, a Google Doc, and all the chaos that comes with being a working mom trying to figure out this back-to-school thing while running a business with exactly 2.5 hours of work time (if I'm lucky).

If you're sitting in your car after drop-off wondering how other moms make this look easy, or if you're questioning whether you're completely screwing up this whole parenting-while-working thing - this one's for you.

In this episode:

• My actual braindump from today (the real, unfiltered version)
• Why 50-minute school drop-offs are apparently my new reality
• How I went from 7 hours of work time to 1.5 hours overnight
• The moment I realized I was playing victim (ouch)
• Why brain dumps are better than letting overwhelm pile up until you explode

Sometimes you need permission to just... dump it all out.

Consider this your permission slip!

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint (the 5 prompts I use after every braindump!): www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Meraki Event - Permission Slips for Ambitious Women workshop at Meraki Beauty - Sunday, September 21st (9 spots left!): https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 2 spots open. Learn More here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says