You know that feeling when someone offers to help and instead of relief, you feel... guilty? Like you should be able to handle it all yourself?

If you've been telling yourself "I should be grateful they offered but I just can't accept it," this journaling session is for you.

In this 5-minute episode, we're diving into what's really behind that guilt - and spoiler alert, it's not about being ungrateful. It's about the stories you've been telling yourself about what it means to need help.

What We're Journaling Through:

• Your perfect "receiving day" and why it feels impossible
• The guilty voice that shows up every time help is offered
• What you're really afraid people will think if you actually say yes
• A tiny practice to start receiving without earning it first

The 3 Strategic Prompts:

1. When I think about my perfect receiving day, what am I afraid would happen if I took a whole day to receive?
2. What is the voice in your head that stops you from accepting help? What does she sound like?
3. If you gave yourself permission to receive help without earning it, what are you most afraid people would think?

This builds on Tuesday's episode about receiving and your nervous system - definitely go listen to that one after this if you haven't already.

• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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Hot Take: What if your purpose right now isn't to do more, achieve more, or figure out your next big career move? What if your actual purpose is learning how to receive?

My business coach asked me what I'd do on a random Tuesday if I could do anything. My answer floored me: drink matcha, watch reality TV at noon, cook a real recipe with multiple steps, take a long shower, go to bed early. As I rattled these off, I panicked - where's my ambition? What happened to my drive?

Then it hit me during a journal session. My nervous system wasn't broken - it was trying to show me my purpose right now. After months of giving, creating, strategizing, and pouring into everyone else, my soul was telling me: your job is to learn how to receive.

In this episode:

• Why your purpose might be receiving instead of achieving right now
• The four ways to receive: physical (rest, nourishment, movement), mental (entertainment, learning for fun, silence), emotional (support, celebrating wins), and creative (making something with your hands, playing without purpose)
• How constantly saying "I've got it" blocks you from your actual purpose
• Why receiving isn't evidence you're failing - it's evidence you're human
• The receiving day challenge that will reconnect you with what your soul actually needs

The purpose shift: We think purpose has to be this big, productive thing. But what if your purpose right now is modeling for your kids that adults deserve care too? What if it's showing the women around you that receiving support isn't weakness?

Your end-of-day scrolling? That's your spirit trying to receive something - anything - that doesn't require you to prove you deserve it first.

Maybe your purpose isn't another goal to crush. Maybe it's learning that you're worthy of receiving the same energy you pour into everyone else.

Ready to explore what receiving could look like in YOUR life? Book a free Clarity Call with me: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Weekly Strategic Journal Prompts: www.samanthapenkoff.com/prompts
• Subscribe so you can hear Thursday's episode & journal with me: 5-minute journal session on working through your receiving blocks!
• Book a free 30-min Clarity Call with me: https://calendly.com/samanthasays/clarity-call

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here:

Moms with kids who went back to school recently...UNITE! This week hit me like a freight train. New school routines, drop-offs that take FOREVER, schedule changes that make you question everything - and it's only Tuesday.

So instead of pretending I have it all together, I'm taking you into my real, messy braindump journaling session.

No pretty prompts today. Just me, a Google Doc, and all the chaos that comes with being a working mom trying to figure out this back-to-school thing while running a business with exactly 2.5 hours of work time (if I'm lucky).

If you're sitting in your car after drop-off wondering how other moms make this look easy, or if you're questioning whether you're completely screwing up this whole parenting-while-working thing - this one's for you.

In this episode:

• My actual braindump from today (the real, unfiltered version)
• Why 50-minute school drop-offs are apparently my new reality
• How I went from 7 hours of work time to 1.5 hours overnight
• The moment I realized I was playing victim (ouch)
• Why brain dumps are better than letting overwhelm pile up until you explode

Sometimes you need permission to just... dump it all out.

Consider this your permission slip!

Resources Mentioned:

• Calm Mind Blueprint (the 5 prompts I use after every braindump!): www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Meraki Event - Permission Slips for Ambitious Women workshop at Meraki Beauty - Sunday, September 21st (9 spots left!): https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Ways to work with Samantha:

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 2 spots open. Learn More here: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

Are you drowning in motherhood while everyone else seems to have it figured out? Brittany Olson from Becoming a Mother podcast breaks down why becoming a mom hits so differently than anyone warns you about.

We dive into matrescence (the scientific term for becoming a mother) and why it's not just the sleepless nights that knock you sideways. Brittany shares how she went from dreaming about motherhood her whole life to completely crashing when her son was born - and what she wishes someone had told her about the identity shift, hormone chaos, and that voice in your head saying "choose between sleeping, showering, or eating today."

In this episode, we learn about:

• What matrescence actually is and why it matters (spoiler: it can last way longer than you think)
• How your brain literally changes when you become a mom - like, physically restructures itself
• Why getting outside isn't just nice advice - it's actually backed by science for mental health
• How to start small with scheduling time for yourself (yes, even scheduling a shower counts)
• The grief that comes with losing your old self, even when you wanted to be a mom
• Why feeling excited about time away from your kid doesn't make you a terrible mother

• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

You love your kids, but somehow you keep finding reasons to avoid actually playing with them. The dishes need doing. Emails need answering. That toy bin needs organizing. Sound familiar?

What if the real issue ISN'T that you're too busy or too responsible? What if you're actually using those tasks to avoid something much deeper?

In this 5-minute strategic journaling session, we're digging into why you feel internal resistance when your child asks you to play - even when you desperately want to be that present, patient mom who enjoys these moments.

Strategic Journal Prompts:

1. Identify what you convince yourself is more important than playtime
2. Explore your specific fears about engaging fully with your kids
3. Discover if you're using productivity to avoid deeper feelings

Perfect for working moms who feel guilty about always being half-present during family time but can't seem to break the pattern.

Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate.

You'll experience a guided meditation, strategic journaling prompts, real-time breakthroughs & mimosas!🥂

📌 Sunday, Sept. 21st @ 10am EST, 12 spots only

Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop
• Clarity Reset inside Glow Up Gyrl: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/

Picture this: You're on the living room floor, making robot sound effects while your kid transforms Bumblebee for the 47th time today. But instead of being present, your brain is screaming about the dishes, that work email you forgot to send, and whether you remembered to put the chicken in the crockpot.

If this hits a little too close to home, you're going to love this episode. I'm sharing the exact moment everything clicked for me - when I stopped seeing playtime as another obligation and started actually enjoying those moments with my son.

What You'll Learn:

• The real reason mom guilt creeps in during playtime (hint: it's not because you're selfish)
• Why your brain won't shut off during kid activities - and how to quiet that mental chatter
• The 3-month Transformer saga that taught me everything about being present vs. productive
• How present parenting actually boosts your productivity instead of killing it
• What to do when your kid ignores you after work (this behavior means something specific)
• One simple question that creates instant connection with moody kids

The Truth About Mom Guilt During Playtime: It's not a character flaw - it's your subconscious sabotage patterns (hyperachiever, overthinker, restless energy) hijacking your focus. Once you learn to spot these patterns and disrupt them in real-time, everything changes. The laundry still gets folded, emails still get answered, but now you also get those sweet connection moments that actually energize you.

1. The Clarity Reset with Glow Up, Gyrl community! Feeling stuck? Overthinking everything? Join us to learn my simple, strategic 5-step framework that takes you from mental overload to clear, confident action. Register here: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events
2. Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop
• Clarity Reset inside Glow Up Gyrl: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

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If you've been thinking "I'm doing everything right, so why are my kids so "difficult?" Like the harder you try to be the perfect mom, the more your kids seem to fall apart? I see you!

You're absolutely crushing it at work - managing teams, solving problems, keeping everyone happy. Then you come home with every intention of being present, patient, and fun... only to watch your kids have complete meltdowns over the tiniest things.

In this 5-minute journal session, we'll uncover:

• The hidden reason "good mom" energy actually triggers more meltdowns
• What your kids are really picking up on when you're trying your hardest
• Why perfectionist parenting creates the exact chaos you're trying to prevent
• How to shift from performing motherhood to simply being enough

Today's Journal Prompts:

1. Think about your most stressful parenting moment recently - what were you trying to control or fix?
2. When your kids don't respond how you hoped after you've been trying so hard, what fear comes up?
3. Where else in your life does "trying harder to be good enough" make things fall apart?
4. What if your kids are responding to the pressure they feel from you trying to be perfect?

Your kids don't need a "good mom" - they need a mom who believes she's already enough, so they can feel safe being themselves too.

1. The Clarity Reset with Glow Up, Gyrl community! Feeling stuck? Overthinking everything? Join us to learn my simple, strategic 5-step framework that takes you from mental overload to clear, confident action. Register here: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events
2. Permission Slips for Ambitious Women hosted at Meraki Beauty in Batavia, NY. In this 90-min strategic journaling workshop, you'll go from daily overwhelm & doing everything for everyone else to peacefully pursuing your true desires (guilt & people-pleasing officially evicted) — without adding more to your already full plate. Guided meditation + strategic journaling + real-time breakthroughs + mimosas!🥂 12 spots only Register here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

• Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
• Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop
• Clarity Reset inside Glow Up Gyrl: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

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You know that thing where you're working past bedtime because you convinced yourself "if I just finish this one thing, tomorrow will be so much easier"? Then you wake up and somehow there's even more waiting for you?

That cycle used to drive me absolutely nuts. And after working with hundreds of ambitious moms, I've realized we're all chasing the wrong thing. 😂

🧠 Why your to-do list will never make you feel balanced (and what actually will)

⏸️ The 2-second reset technique that stops overwhelm in its tracks without slowing you down

🎯 How hyperachievers can detach from outcomes and actually enjoy their work again

After this episode, you'll catch yourself in those scattered moments and know exactly how to bring yourself back to center. No more mental chaos. No more feeling like you're drowning in tasks that multiply faster than you can cross them off.

You'll walk away knowing how to feel accomplished and proud of yourself - without needing anyone else to tell you "good job." Because let's be honest, when's the last time your partner noticed you reorganized the entire pantry or your boss acknowledged you stayed late to prep for that client meeting?

This is about feeling peaceful in the middle of your busy life, not waiting for busy to end.

Calm Mind Blueprint: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Permission Slips for Ambitious Women: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/permissionslipsworkshop

Clarity Reset inside Glow Up Gyrl: https://www.glowupgyrl.com/glow-up-live-events

1:1 coaching: Now accepting applications, 1 spot open. Learn More here: https://www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samantha.s.says

DM Sam on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachSamanthaHawley/