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  • 260 | Seaside, Stuffing, and Soothing Your Stress: Calming Cortisol in a Crazy Holiday Season

    260 | Seaside, Stuffing, and Soothing Your Stress: Calming Cortisol in a Crazy Holiday Season
    Dec 4 2025
    In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey shares her joyful Thanksgiving experience in Seaside, Florida, and reflects on her favorite holiday moments. She discusses the ongoing debate of stuffing vs. dressing and shares a family tradition of making Turkey nuggets. Heather also talks about the SEC football drama, her reevaluation of owning boats or vacation homes, and emphasizes lessening holiday stress. She provides practical advice for holiday preparation, including tips on gift wrapping, planning menus, and managing cortisol levels through breathing exercises, bilateral stimulation sounds, and engaging the vagus nerve. Heather encourages listeners to prioritize simplicity and ease during the holiday season for better mental and physical health. EMDR Bilateral Sounds Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news! Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

    Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching

    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

    Linkedin

    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.

    00:00 Welcome and Thanksgiving Reflections 00:52 Stuffing vs. Dressing Debate 02:18 Family Debates and Decisions 05:20 Holiday Stress Management 05:49 Practical Holiday Tips 08:12 Understanding and Managing Cortisol 10:19 Calming Techniques and Bilateral Stimulation 11:44 The Importance of the Vagus Nerve 16:28 Simplifying the Holidays 18:14 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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    21 min
  • BONUS Episode Thanksgiving Week

    BONUS Episode Thanksgiving Week
    Nov 26 2025
    In this episode, the Heather Pettey expresses gratitude for the listeners and reflects on the blessings the show has brought into her life. She addresses Cheryl from Lexington's concern about blending families for the first time during Thanksgiving, providing practical, empathetic advice on creating a harmonious holiday environment. The episode also includes a detailed recipe for a delicious pumpkin bourbon bread pudding and shares intriguing historical Thanksgiving facts. The key message revolves around joy, togetherness, and the importance of setting realistic expectations for the holiday season. Pumpkin Bourbon Bread Pudding 1 loaf challah or brioche, cubed 2 cups half-and-half 1 cup canned pumpkin 3 large eggs 1 cup brown sugar 1 tablespoon vanilla 2 teaspoons cinnamon 1 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice Pinch salt 1/4 cup bourbon (optional, but oh-so-good) 1/2 cup pecans, chopped Mix pumpkin, half-and-half, eggs, sugar, vanilla, spices, salt, and bourbon. Toss in bread cubes and pecans. Let it soak for 30 minutes, then bake at 350°F for 45-55 minutes. Serve warm, with ice cream or whipped cream. Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news! Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide. 00:00 Welcome and Gratitude 01:35 Listener's Thanksgiving Dilemma 02:37 Advice for Blending Families 09:01 Thanksgiving History and Fun Facts 10:02 Delicious Pumpkin Bourbon Bread Pudding Recipe 11:13 Final Thoughts and Thanksgiving Wishes 12:27 Podcast Disclaimer
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    13 min
  • 258 | Holiday Prep, Self-Care, & Christmas Cards

    258 | Holiday Prep, Self-Care, & Christmas Cards
    Nov 24 2025
    In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, hosted by Heather Petty, joined by Dr. Carol Lynn, the conversation centers around preparations for the holidays, with humorous and practical advice on how to manage self-care amidst the festive rush. Topics covered include the importance of scheduling beauty appointments early, avoiding major changes like new hairstyles before holiday photos, and the merits of getting medical procedures done at specific times. The hosts also discuss the rising costs of pet grooming, the challenges and joys of sending Christmas cards, and the significance of vision casting and journaling for personal growth. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize self-care and connection during the busy holiday season. Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Sign Up and Get the latest MOXIE news! Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

    Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching

    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

    Linkedin

    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.

    00:00 Welcome and Introductions 00:11 Holiday Preparations and Surgery Talk 01:04 Self-Care Tips for the Holidays 03:12 Pet Grooming and Complaints 05:27 Christmas Cards and Corporate Gifts 08:28 Introducing the Midlife Moxie Journal 10:28 Journal Benefits and Personal Stories 15:57 Vision Casting and Feeling Stuck 18:27 Conclusion and Community Invitation 19:38 Disclaimer and Final Notes
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    20 min
  • 257 | Trends, Forced Smiles, and Vaccinations

    257 | Trends, Forced Smiles, and Vaccinations
    Nov 17 2025
    In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, hosts Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn welcome women in midlife to join their uplifting discussions about thriving during this life stage. They cover a range of topics from simple life systems, midlife health, wellness, and menopause, to fun aspects like travel, fashion, and cooking. They dive into an engaging discussion about Target's new policy requiring employees to smile and how that compares to experiences at Chick-fil-A. They also touch on the importance of dermatologist visits, toddler skincare trends, and effective holiday preparation tips. The episode wraps up with updated vaccine recommendations for adults in their fifties, emphasizing the shingles and flu vaccines, and highlights the new 'My Midlife Moxie Journal', specially designed for midlife women, available on Amazon. Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

    Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching

    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

    Linkedin

    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.

    00:00 Welcome to Life Coach VFF Show 00:12 Midlife Thriving: Encouragement and Fun 01:33 Delicious Moments: Cinnamon Chip Muffins 02:29 Target's New Smile Policy 05:03 Skincare Talk: From Dermatologist Visits to Toddler Trends 11:38 Holiday Prep: Getting Ready for the Festivities 13:16 Holiday Deadlines: Christmas vs. Thanksgiving 13:27 Giving and Serving During the Holidays 15:27 Organizing and Cleaning for the Holidays 16:45 Christmas Tree Decorating Tips 20:15 Updated Vaccine Recommendations for 2025 23:43 Introducing the My Midlife Moxie Journal
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    28 min
  • 256 | The Flat Stomach Myth: Strong, Confident, and Energized in Midlife with Heike Yates

    256 | The Flat Stomach Myth: Strong, Confident, and Energized in Midlife with Heike Yates
    Nov 11 2025
    In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey introduces Heike Yates, a midlife fitness expert with over 35 years of experience, an Iron Man triathlete, ultra marathon runner, author, and podcast host. Heike shares her journey from Germany to the United States, her love for travel, and how she evolved her fitness career to focus on midlife women. The discussion covers maintaining fitness and health through midlife changes, including the importance of nutrition, stress management, and listening to one's body. Heike emphasizes the need for realistic, sustainable changes in fitness routines and shares insights from her book and podcast, 'Pursue Your Spark.' The episode also touches on personal anecdotes, like Heike adjusting her fitness regime due to arthritis and the importance of a supportive and positive community. Contact Heike Yates Website Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pursueyourspark Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heikeyates/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heike-yates/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQIeOesGLGAOD5RhI2KYjcA Podcast - Pursue Your Spark: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pursue-your-spark-midlife-fitness-nutrition-mindset/id1231586317 Book - Pursue Your Spark Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide. 00:00 Introduction to Midlife Fitness 00:38 Welcome to Life Coach VFF Show 01:41 Meet Haika Yates: Midlife Fitness Expert 03:33 Haika's Journey from Germany to the US 06:18 The Evolution of Haika's Fitness Journey 08:37 Realistic Fitness Goals for Midlife Women 11:56 Implementing Sustainable Fitness Changes 15:51 Haika's Personal Fitness and Nutrition Strategies 17:19 Embracing New Activities Beyond Running 17:46 Finding Joy in New Hobbies 18:30 Empowering Clients with Choices 18:46 Healthy Eating and Lifestyle Adjustments 19:07 Managing Health Conditions Through Exercise 20:21 Listening to Your Body's Needs 21:36 Dealing with Stress and Energy Levels 25:09 Daily Routine and Intermittent Fasting 30:08 Importance of Nutrient Variety 30:41 Eliminating Negative Influences 31:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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    33 min
  • 255 | Countdown to Christmas: Anxiety-Free Holiday Planning and KK Did It Again!

    255 | Countdown to Christmas: Anxiety-Free Holiday Planning and KK Did It Again!
    Nov 3 2025
    In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey provides valuable tips on how to manage holiday stress and anxiety, focusing on planning ahead with calendars and mind dumps. She encourages blocking out important events and family traditions to ensure nothing interferes with cherished moments. Heather also shares a personal tradition of exchanging thoughtful seasonal gifts with a friend, which enhances the joy of each season. Additionally, the episode touches on the latest buzz involving Kim Kardashian's Skims brand launching a controversial thong with faux hair. Heather promotes her midlife moxie journal and emphasizes the importance of reviews to help other women find this supportive community. Mentioned on the show: Mystic Fall Blanket Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Digital Version My Midlife Moxie Journal Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

    Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching

    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

    Linkedin

    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.

    00:00 Introduction and Disclaimer 00:27 Welcome and Episode Overview 01:15 Holiday Prep Tips 04:17 Mind Dump for Stress Relief 06:43 Seasonal Traditions and Gift Ideas 08:54 Kim Kardashian's Skims Controversy 10:57 Conclusion and Call to Action
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    13 min
  • 254 | Mason Jars, Health Tips, and Fun Projects

    254 | Mason Jars, Health Tips, and Fun Projects
    Oct 30 2025
    In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, hosts Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn discuss a variety of topics aimed at helping women thrive in midlife. They introduce the show and share the amusing scenario of filming from their office break room. Heather and Dr. Lynn delve into practical tips and cheerful conversations about household items like mason jars and their creative uses, from salads to terrariums and charcuterie. They emphasize the importance of health checks like mammograms, flu shots, and discuss supplements for longevity like vitamin C, vitamin E, and CoQ10. The episode also teases future discussions on NAD and metformin. Tune in for an engaging mix of health tips, personal anecdotes, and fun project ideas. Mentioned on the show: Mason Jar Salads Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

    Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching

    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller)

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

    Linkedin

    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide.

    00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:30 Show Overview and Topics 01:30 Grammar Fun and Personal Stories 02:47 Favorite Household Products 05:05 Mason Jar Ideas and Crafts 10:12 Health and Longevity Tips 15:16 Health Tracker and Reminders 18:49 Conclusion and Farewell
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    20 min
  • 253 | Dr. Yosi Amram: How Spiritual Intelligence Can Empower Your Next Phase

    253 | Dr. Yosi Amram: How Spiritual Intelligence Can Empower Your Next Phase
    Oct 28 2025
    From CEO to Spiritual Awakening: Dr. Yoshi Amram's Journey In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey welcomes Dr. Yossi Amram, a distinguished leader, author, and psychologist. Dr. Amram shares his compelling journey from being a science-focused CEO who drifted away from spirituality to undergoing a transformative spiritual awakening. This shift led him to pursue a Ph.D. in transpersonal psychology, exploring the integration of psychology with spirituality through the concept of spiritual intelligence. The discussion delves into Dr. Amram's personal experiences, his grandfather's inspiring resilience, the impact of spiritual intelligence on leadership and relationships, and practical steps to cultivate spiritual intelligence in daily life. He also touches on managing life's transitions, particularly in midlife, and how spiritual intelligence can offer clarity and peace during such times. Connect with Dr. Yosi Amram Website: https://yosiamram.net & https://yamram.com/ Book: https://yosiamram.net/books-spiritually-intelligent-leadership/ Non-profit: https://awakeningsi.org/ SILeadership: http://spirituallyintelligentleadership.com Youtube.com: https://www.youtube.com/ @awakeningspiritualintelligence LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yosiamram/ Free SI Assessment: https://intelligensi.com/ Psychology Today Blog: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/spiritual-intelligence IG: https://www.instagram.com/awakeningspiritualintelligence/ Snag your My Midlife Moxie Journal Join The Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Connect with Host Heather Pettey: Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com Private Coaching with Heather:https://www.ourmidlifemoxie.com/heatherpetteycoaching Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1 Linkedin: @HeatherPettey Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn: Linkedin Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com Facebook Group: @ourmidlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice! *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues. *As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases. Please note that this does not affect the price you pay for any item. The cost to you remains exactly the same, but using these links helps support our community and the resources we provide. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey 00:23 Welcoming Dr. Yossi Amram 01:25 Yossi's Early Life and Family Influence 03:02 Spiritual Awakening and Career Shift 05:19 Understanding Spiritual Intelligence 07:36 Applying Spiritual Intelligence in Daily Life 14:47 Navigating Midlife Transitions 17:29 Advice for Women Seeking Purpose 19:46 Daily Practices for Spiritual Grounding 22:01 About the Book and Staying Connected 24:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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    26 min