• 234 | Having Trouble Staying Focused? Boost Your Midlife Momentum!
    Jul 17 2025
    In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, Heather Pettey, your host and fellow moxie Maker, discusses the importance of momentum in tackling life’s challenges, inspired by President Trump's speech at West Point. Heather shares her personal experiences with overwhelming projects and emphasizes the significance of small steps and celebrating small wins. She introduces her latest project, a 90-day Wellness and Mindset Journal, co-authored with Dr. Carol Lynn, and the new 'Moxie Makers' group for guided journaling sessions. Heather also offers a special coaching opportunity as part of her birthday month celebration. Join the Midlife Moxie community for support and encouragement. Thanks for listening!

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

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    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    00:00 Welcome and Introduction 00:32 Understanding Momentum 02:27 Personal Projects and Challenges 04:38 Maintaining Motivation 09:51 The Power of Journaling 12:00 Exciting Announcements 12:59 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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    16 min
  • 233 | Missed Your Yearly Exam? Here's Why Midlife Women Shouldn't Skip It!
    Jul 4 2025
    Welcome back! In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey and co-host / menopause expert Dr. Carol Lynn discuss the importance of annual exams, pap smears, and taking charge of women's wellness with confidence. They talk about common misconceptions, practical tips, and why regular checkups are crucial. The discussion also covers personal anecdotes, including Heather's watermelon-picking experience and Dr. Lynn's insights into pet care and women's health during midlife and beyond. Whether it's checking for melanomas, addressing vaginal dryness, or understanding the benefits of vaginal estrogens, this episode offers valuable information for midlife women seeking community and health empowerment. Thanks for listening!

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

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    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    00:00 Welcome to the Life Coach BFF Show 01:26 Funny Watermelon Story 04:01 Veterinarian Visit and Pet Care 05:58 Importance of Annual Exams 07:21 Understanding Pap Smears and GYN Visits 11:28 Vulvar Health and Self-Examination 16:55 Managing Vaginal Dryness and Itching 23:12 Sexual Health in Older Women 24:46 4th of July Plans and Final Thoughts
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    28 min
  • 232 | Are Grandma Hobbies the Secret to Midlife Happiness?
    Jul 1 2025
    In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey delves into the world of 'Grandma Hobbies'—activities like knitting, gardening, baking, and birdwatching—that are being recognized for their mental health benefits. Heather discusses the scientific support for these hobbies in reducing stress, improving self-confidence, and protecting brain function. She provides practical tips for integrating these activities into busy lives and highlights the social aspects and community-building potential of hobbies like birdwatching in New York City's Central Park. The episode encourages listeners to slow down, savor life, and find joy in nostalgic activities.

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

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    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

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    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    00:00 Welcome to Life Coach, BFF Show 00:48 The Benefits of Grandma Hobbies 01:27 Fitting Hobbies into a Busy Schedule 03:27 Modern Twist on Birdwatching 05:23 Quick List of Grandma Approved Activities 07:49 Conclusion and Call to Action
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    8 min
  • 231 | Struggling to Connect with Grown Kids? Tips for Midlife Mothers
    Jun 27 2025

    In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey addresses a letter from a listener, Michelle in Florida. Michelle shares her difficulty in connecting with her adult son, prompting Heather to provide empathetic advice on how to navigate this challenging transition.

    Heather discusses the importance of letting go of worry, unsolicited advice, guilt, and expectations while fostering a respectful and supportive relationship with adult children. She also encourages reaching out without pressure and celebrating their independence.

    Heather invites listeners to share their thoughts and seek further support through her various social media platforms and one-on-one coaching sessions.

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

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    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

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    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    00:00 Welcome to Life Coach, BFF Show

    00:25 Listener's Letter: Struggling to Connect with Adult Son

    01:49 Letting Go of Worry

    02:57 Letting Go of Advice

    04:11 Letting Go of Guilt Tripping

    04:53 Letting Go of Expectations

    05:46 Practical Tips for Reconnecting

    07:28 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    08:58 Stay Connected and Get Support 1

    0:07 Closing Remarks

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    11 min
  • 230 | Is It Time to Start Saying No for Your Well-being? Here Are 5 Ways to Say "NO"
    Jun 23 2025
    ----more----In episode 230 of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey shares her insights on midlife, reflecting on the changes and important lessons learned since the first episode in 2019. She introduces herself, her family, and her passion for helping women thrive in midlife. She discusses what it means to prioritize what truly matters, giving practical advice on saying no to activities that no longer bring joy, and highlights the impact of stress in midlife. The episode also features updates about her co-host Dr. Carol Lynn, their TikTok group WDNC, C, and the Our Midlife Moxie Facebook group. Te offers five strategies for politely declining unwanted invitations, emphasizing the importance of setting healthy boundaries. She concludes with a book recommendation, 'The Summer Pack' by Emily Giffin, encouraging listeners to make positive changes and reminding them that their best days are still ahead. product recommendations, and a humorous take on daily life.

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

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    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    00:00 Welcome and Introduction 01:22 Exciting Updates and New Ventures 02:24 The Joys and Challenges of Midlife 03:11 Learning to Say No 06:53 The Impact of Stress in Midlife 09:09 Practical Tips for Setting Boundaries 12:07 Final Thoughts and Book
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    13 min
  • 229 | How to Celebrate Menopause: Parties, Products, and Self-Care!
    Jun 16 2025
    In this episode of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Dr. Carol Lynn and her co-host dive into an engaging discussion on menopause, hot flashes, and self-care routines. They explore the causes of hot flashes, the implications of hormone levels, and the potential benefits of various treatments. The show also highlights creative ways to celebrate menopause with humor and light-heartedness, including ideas for a menopause party with fun games and signature drinks. Listeners are treated to a blend of informative advice and Southern charm, complete with personal anecdotes, self-care product recommendations, and a humorous take on daily life.

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

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    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    00:00 Welcome to Life Coach, BFF Show! 00:50 Hot Flashes and Hormone Talk 03:48 Menopause Party Ideas 07:39 Cooling Down Tips 10:34 Hotel Stays and Pet Stories 14:38 Transitioning to Nostalgia: Childhood Memories 15:08 Classic TV Shows We Loved 16:03 Aging Icons: Then and Now 17:41 Summer Porch Chats and Self-Care 18:13 Favorite Self-Care Products 25:30 Memphis Musings: The Peabody Hotel 27:32 Concluding Thoughts and Farewell
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    28 min
  • 228 | How Can You Stay Soft When the World Feels Prickly?
    Jun 13 2025
    In episode 228 of the Life Coach BFF Show, host Heather Pettey addresses a letter from Lisa, a mother of three navigating the stormy seas of raising a teenage daughter. Heather provides compassionate and practical advice on how to stay soft and loving despite the challenges posed by teenage mood swings and conflicts. She emphasizes the importance of kindness, empathy, setting boundaries with love, and practicing self-care. Heather also shares an inspiring quote and draws parallels to the compassionate legacy of Princess Diana. Listeners are encouraged to join the show's supportive community and stay tuned for upcoming episodes.

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show 00:03 Letter from Lisa: Teen Troubles 02:02 Staying Soft: A Mother's Challenge 04:07 Practical Tips for Staying Soft 05:35 Inspirational Quotes and Examples 06:51 Final Thoughts and Encouragement 07:53 Community and Closing Remarks
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    9 min
  • 227 | Midlife Moxie: Gen X, Self-Care, and Why We Don’t Share Ice Cream
    Jun 10 2025
    In this episode of Life Coach BFF Show, hosts Heather Pettey and Dr. Carol Lynn discuss various aspects of midlife, marriage, menopause, and making the most of every moment. They delve into the unique traits and challenges of Generation X, from practicing self-care to navigating the expectations set by previous generations. They reminisce about their favorite ice cream flavors, vacation experiences, and thoughts on comfortable travel. The episode is filled with humor and practical advice for those looking to embrace self-care and comfort in this season of life. Thanks for listening!

    Connect with Dr. Carol Lynn:

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    Website: https://www.drcarollynn.com

    Connect with Host Heather Pettey:

    Email: hpetteyoffice@gmail.com

    Speaker Request Here Instagram @HeatherPettey_ Facebook: @HeatherPettey1

    Linkedin: @HeatherPettey

    Book: "Keep It Simple, Sarah" (Amazon bestseller) Facebook Group: @midlifemoxie Website: www.ourmidlifemoxie.com

    Don't forget to subscribe to the Life Coach BFF Show for more inspiring content and practical life advice!

    *Quick Disclaimer- Heather Pettey is a certified coach and not a therapist. Always seek the support of a therapist for clinical mental health issues.

    00:00 Welcome to Life Coach BFF Show

    00:35 Embracing Our Generation X Roots 02:39 The Evolution of Self-Care 05:48 Ice Cream and Self-Care 08:14 Dollywood vs. Disney World 11:29 Crowds and Airports: Gen X Perspectives 12:24 Airplane Etiquette and Fines 13:15 Comfort Over Adventure: Travel Preferences 13:51 Cabin Disappointments and Pac-Man Machines 15:23 Resort Experiences and Temperature Control 16:46 St. Croix: A Hidden Gem 19:00 Vacation Mishaps and Fire Alarms 21:54 Bird Nests and Fake Snakes 22:44 Wrapping Up: Subscribe and Share
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    23 min