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  • Too Focused on Them? How to Tell When You’re Losing Yourself in Dating
    Dec 1 2025

    Do you find yourself over-focusing on the other person—trying to keep them happy, overthinking decisions, or guessing what they want in the relationship?
    In this episode, we explore the signs that your attention may have shifted too far toward the other person, how this pattern can affect connection and communication, and why it often shows up in early dating and relationships.

    You’ll also hear practical, psychology-informed strategies to help you rebalance your focus, stay connected to your own needs, and build relationships with more clarity and confidence.

    If you’d like to develop these skills in a supportive, structured space, my next online group “Dating With Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach” begins February 2026.
    It focuses on evidence-informed tools, self-awareness, and practical strategies for navigating modern dating.
    More information is available at nadineneukirch.com.

    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    15 min
  • Stop Fighting, Start Connecting- Top Conflict Mistakes & What To Do Instead
    Nov 24 2025

    Conflict is a normal part of any relationship — but when you’re trying to assert yourself and emotions rise, it’s easy to fall into patterns that make things harder instead of clearer.

    In this episode:

    - learn three common mistakes people make when trying to communicate their needs during conflict, and why these patterns can lead to misunderstandings, defensiveness, or disconnect.

    - You’ll also hear three practical, psychology-informed strategies that can support clearer communication, emotional steadiness, and more effective conversations with your partner. These approaches are designed to help you pause, reflect, and respond in ways that strengthen connection rather than escalate tension.

    If you’re interested in developing your dating and relationship skills in a supportive, structured environment, Nadine’s online coaching program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach begins February 2026.
    Limited spots available. More information at nadineneukirch.com.

    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    14 min
  • The Neuroscience of Manifestation & Dating: With Isabella Rosenthal
    Nov 17 2025

    In this episode of The Psychology of Dating Podcast, I’m joined by manifestation coach Isabella Rosenthal to explore the fascinating intersection between dating psychology and manifestation.

    Isabella breaks down the neuroscience behind manifestation, including how the Reticular Activating System (RAS) acts as the brain’s internal filter—highlighting the information we train it to notice. We discuss how manifestation isn’t about wishful thinking, but about aligning your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours with a clear, value-driven intention.

    Together, we unpack how this alignment can help shift your dating experiences, help you notice healthier opportunities, interrupt old patterns, and support you in calling in relationships that truly match your values.

    If you’re curious about the science-meets-spirituality side of dating, this episode offers grounded, practical insight you can apply right away.

    Connect with Isabella Rosenthal:
    🌐 Website: manifestwithisabella.com.au
    📸 Instagram: @manifestwithisabella


    Connect with Nadine Neukirch:

    Dating Coaching Program – Now Enrolling
    Starts Feb 2026. Learn more → nadineneukirch.com

    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    46 min
  • Feeling Guilty for Self-Care? Why It Matters in Dating and Boundaries
    Aug 11 2025

    Do you feel guilty taking time for yourself? You're not alone—and this internal conflict can have a big impact on your dating life.

    In this episode, we explore why self-care isn’t selfish, but essential, especially when it comes to setting boundaries, maintaining emotional availability, and showing up with clarity in relationships.


    Dating Coaching Program – Now Enrolling
    Starts July 9. Learn more → nadineneukirch.com

    🎁 Free Guide: Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating
    Download → nadineneukirch.com

    💌 Submit your dating questions → nadineneukirch.com

    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    10 min
  • Too Many Dates? When Your Love Life Becomes Overloaded
    Aug 4 2025

    Can there be such a thing as too much dating?

    In this episode, we explore the often-overlooked impact of overloading your dating life—how seeing too many people too quickly can lead to emotional burnout, decision fatigue, and even prematurely ending connections that had potential.

    I’ll break down how a high volume of dates can actually disconnect you from the emotional experience of dating, stop you from tuning into your own needs, and turn something meaningful into something mechanical.

    Dating Coaching Program –Learn more → nadineneukirch.com

    🎁 Free Guide: Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating
    Download → nadineneukirch.com

    💌 Submit your dating questions → nadineneukirch.com

    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    7 min
  • Dating Starts With You: What It Really Means to Build a Relationship With Yourself
    Jul 31 2025

    Before we focus on finding the right partner, it’s essential to ask—how strong is your relationship with yourself? In this episode, we unpack what it truly means to build a relationship with yourself from a psychological perspective.

    In this episode:

    - Learn how self-awareness, self-respect, and internal safety lay the foundation for dating with confidence and clarity.

    - How your inner world can shape who you’re drawn to, how you show up in relationships, and your ability to set healthy boundaries.

    Dating Coaching Program – Learn more → nadineneukirch.com

    🎁 Free Guide: Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating
    Download → nadineneukirch.com

    💌 Submit your dating questions → nadineneukirch.com

    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    13 min
  • Before You Fix It, Name It: Clarifying Your Dating Struggles
    Jul 2 2025

    Are you stuck in the same dating pattern—but not sure what exactly needs to change?
    Before you jump into solutions, take a step back: have you clearly defined the problem?

    In this episode, we explore how identifying what’s truly within your control in dating can help you move forward with clarity and purpose.

    Dating Coaching Program – Now Enrolling
    Starts July 9. Learn more → nadineneukirch.com

    🎁 Free Guide: Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating
    Download → nadineneukirch.com

    💌 Submit your dating questions → nadineneukirch.com

    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    11 min
  • Should I Keep Going or Let It Go? How to Follow Through in Dating
    Jun 30 2025

    Should you keep seeing them—or call it quits?
    In this episode, we explore how to navigate early dating with clarity and confidence.

    You’ll learn:

    • When to stay open and keep exploring a connection
    • How to follow through with connections on dating apps and in person
    • How to make decisions that align with your values—not just your anxiety

    Dating Coaching Program – Now Enrolling
    Starts July 9. Join here → nadineneukirch.com

    🎁 Free Guide: Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating
    Download → nadineneukirch.com

    💌 Submit your dating questions → nadineneukirch.com

    Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

    If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

    Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

    For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

    Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

    Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

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    10 min