In Western culture, especially America, we’ve been sold myths like “you complete me” or “I couldn’t live without you.” But those aren’t declarations of love their indications of codependency.

What if relationships could be neither clingy nor disconnected, but interdependent? And what does that truly mean?

In this episode, Iman and Kurt explore:

• The Decline of Community: From bowling leagues to “bowling alone,” social trust and connection have eroded, leaving many isolated.
• Dependency, Independence & Codependency: Why we swing between extremes and how those patterns get set early.
• Why Codependency Persists: The cultural scripts and family legacies that confuse love with need.
• Interdependence as a Total Health Practice: How mutual support + autonomy create the emotional ecosystems we need to thrive.
• Real-Life Interdependence: From Blue Zones to intentional communities, examples of belonging without losing the self.

Plus, practical ways to start cultivating interdependence today, inside your relationships and beyond couple culture.

Because interdependence is where human flourishing happens between isolation and enmeshment. It’s the sacred dance of autonomy and belonging, and it’s essential to Total Health.

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"Rebranding Mental Health: A Movement, Not a Label."

In this episode of Rebranding Mental Health, Iman and Kurt name a quiet emergency: the way rising costs, rent, groceries, insurance, debt, are taxing our nervous systems before we even start the day.

If your body has been bracing, neck tension, headaches, lack of focus...that’s not personal failure. That’s your biology responding to economics.

In this episode, we:

• Explore how scarcity rewires attention and decision-making and why your focus isn’t broken, it’s budgeted.
• Look at housing as health: eviction stress and rent burdens aren’t just economic, they’re biological.
• Trace the community shockwaves of displacement and disconnection and why belonging is infrastructure, not a luxury.
• Share innovative, actionable tools to stabilize body and budget.

This is not about blame. It’s about biology. And it’s about reclaiming dignity, community, and hope. Because you are not the balance of your bills. You are a nervous system built for connection. May you have what you need and people to help you keep it.

#RebrandingMentalHealth #TotalHealth #NervousSystem #HousingIsHealth

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"Rebranding Mental Health: A Movement, Not a Label."

You’re eating the kale, meditating, moving your body, checking all the boxes… and yet, you still feel off. Welcome to the Wellness Fog.

In this episode of Rebranding Mental Health, Iman and Kurt explore why doing “all the right things” doesn’t always add up to real well-being. Fragmented healing when mind, body, and relationships aren’t integrated leaves us spinning. That’s where Total Health comes in: reconnecting biology, emotions, lifestyle, and relationships into one whole.

You’ll learn:
• Why performative wellness leaves you exhausted, anxious, or disconnected
• The science behind integration (gut-brain axis, relational health, burnout studies)
• Why social and emotional connection can matter more than supplements or routines
• The SCANN map (Sleep, Connection, Activity, Nutrition, Nature) as a Total Health tool
• Practical ways to bring your healing journey back into alignment

Because health isn’t a checklist. It’s a conversation.

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"Rebranding Mental Health: A Movement, Not a Label."

We’ve all heard it: discipline is everything. Get up at 5AM, stick to the routine, grind harder, push through. But what if discipline isn’t the holy grail we’ve been sold? What if there’s a healthier, more sustainable alternative?

In this episode of Rebranding Mental Health, Iman and Kurt challenge hustle culture’s obsession with discipline and introduce responsiveness, a practice of tuning in, adapting, and collaborating with yourself instead of overriding your needs.

You’ll learn:
• Why rigid discipline often backfires, triggering shame and burnout
• How responsiveness honors your body, emotions, and rhythms without sacrificing commitment
• The science of self-compassion and flexible habits (Kristin Neff, Katy Milkman)
• Practical ways to build rhythms, trust your “no,” and live in sync with your seasons
• Why responsiveness creates reliability and resilience, not flakiness

Discipline tells you to ignore yourself. Responsiveness invites you to listen. And that shift can change everything.

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"Rebranding Mental Health: A Movement, Not a Label."

At first glance, kindness and niceness look the same but they’re not.
In this episode of Rebranding Mental Health, we unpack why niceness often comes at the cost of silence, resentment, and self-abandonment, while kindness is rooted in truth, empathy, and boundaries.

You’ll learn:
• Why niceness is a performance fueled by fear of rejection or conflict
• How people-pleasing impacts your nervous system, stress, and relationships
• The hidden emotional labor behind always being “the nice one”
• Practical boundary scripts that sound kind without being self-sacrificing
• What science says about kindness as medicine for stress, well-being, and connection

If you’ve ever felt guilty for saying no, struggled to separate compassion from compliance, or wondered who you are without the people-pleasing mask this episode is for you.

Kindness doesn’t always look “nice.” But it always leads to freedom.

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#AuthenticityInLeadership
#HealthyBoundaries
#MentalHealthEducation
#OrganizationalWellness
#WorkplaceWellBeing
#TraumaInformedLeadership
#AuthenticCommunication

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"Rebranding Mental Health: A Movement, Not a Label."

Spirituality should never cost you your voice. And sacredness should never require self-erasure.

In this tender and deeply honest episode of Rebranding Mental Health, Iman and Kurt explore how our religious upbringing can shape our nervous system, our sense of self, and the way we define worth, love, and suffering. Whether you were raised in a rigid tradition, a high-demand spiritual environment, or are simply beginning to question inherited beliefs, you are not alone.

This conversation isn’t about rejecting all faith. It’s about reclaiming the sacred in a way that honors your truth.

You’ll learn:

• How early religious messaging impacts identity, body image, and emotional regulation
• The psychological and physical effects of religious trauma and spiritual guilt
• Why “negative spiritual coping” contributes to anxiety, shame, and disconnection
• How to redefine spirituality in a way that heals, rather than harms
• Tools to begin the process of inner reclamation rituals, journaling, and reparenting the soul

Backed by research. Held in compassion.
Because healing doesn’t require you to abandon faith, it invites you to expand it.

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"Rebranding Mental Health: A Movement, Not a Label."

Joy isn’t a luxury. It’s a strategy.

In this episode of Rebranding Mental Health, Iman and Kurt explore Joyful Defiance. Kurt coined this approach as the radical act of choosing play, pleasure, and presence even when the world feels chaotic. This is not about denial or bypassing pain. It’s about staying soft, grounded, and awake in a hard world and reclaiming your emotional sovereignty.

You’ll learn:

• Why joy builds resilience in your brain and body (hello, Polyvagal Theory and endorphins!)
• How political stress and cultural chaos dysregulate your nervous system—and what to do about it
• How to engage with the world without losing yourself to it
• Practices that cultivate joy as resistance: humor breaks, tiny joy rituals, creative rebellion, and reframing narratives
• Why protecting your peace is not selfish, it’s a public service

“Joy is an act of resistance.” – Toi Derricotte

You are allowed to be informed without being consumed.
Let joy be your anchor, your compass, and your rebellion.

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"Rebranding Mental Health: A Movement, Not a Label."

Uncertainty isn't just uncomfortable, it’s biologically destabilizing. In this premiere episode of Rebranding Mental Health, Iman and Kurt explore why the unknown feels so threatening, how your brain and nervous system respond, and what you can do to stay grounded when life is anything but predictable.

You’ll learn:

• Why your brain prefers a “bad known” over an unknown
• How cultural myths around control increase anxiety
• Practical tools to regulate your nervous system, reduce overwhelm, and expand your tolerance for uncertainty
• Why micro-actions are one of the most effective ways to reclaim your power
• How to create healthy stability without needing to control everything

This isn’t about pretending everything is fine. It’s about building the internal scaffolding to stay soft and strong when life gets shaky.

***You don’t have to see the whole path, just the next step.

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"Rebranding Mental Health: A Movement, Not a Label."